I don't like most anime and only anime I do is from when I was younger. I don't own any figurines (the asian statues in my apartment are from Chinese literature). I play more western games then Japanese games right now. I don't like sushi. Check the rest of the non-otaku non-weeaboo checkmarks.
But having been to Japan twice - I can say I love Japan because Japan is awesome. Specifically Tokyo. Love the mega city vibe, the shopping, the restaurants, the urban design, the cleanliness, and most important,
the politeness of the culture. Everyone there is always just so nice and polite to you. It's so refreshing, and this is coming from a Canadian who's used to politeness. It may be a fake politeness but whatever, it's still great to me. Tokyo is on my top 5 list of cities I plan to live in at some point in my life.
So Japan is awesome