Yeah, I found a decent alternative when I workout with my wife. I still find some time to train, but I started to ween her away from me so that she can get comfortable with her own workout.
We have different goals. I want to stay fit, strong, and lean. She wants to lose weight and gain energy.
I did jump start her system by getting her to do squats and other compound exercises, but it's not very effective when she works with me. The worst is when she complains about me using "too much" weight. For example, I'm do DB chest press with 70 lbs. (4x15), she tells me that it looks so like a lot of weight. I have to explain to her that the weight is relative to the individual. She can do 12.5 lbs (4x15), which is great for her, but it doesn't add up in her mind that I'm doing that much.
Though, I'm can't complain too much. In the end, I know that she just worries about me. We just have to find some compromises.
On that note, I'm doing a Zumba class with her tonight.