Oh I know. I used to be like you guys and try and explain why you should or shouldn't eat something.
Then I laid down the rule she can do whatever she wants but I'll be following my own thing. That seemed to do the trick.
dOESN'T WORK FOR ME BECAUSE WHEN SHE SAYS SHE WANTS SOMETHING AND i SAY i'LL BE EATING CHICKEN, THAT IN AND OF ITSELF SEEMS TO CAUSE PROBLEMS!