List all the sex scenes you can remember from the first book. Then I'll list all the sex scenes I can remember from the first season. Also tell me if the sex is crucial or not to the plot. Example: Dany and Drago together is crucial to the story. Man in a brothel getting a blowjob while watching people have sex is gratuitous, a waste of time, and makes it feel like the director is a horny 13 year old.
Cersei and Jaime in the tower is crucial to the story. Viserys and Doreah in the bathtub is just there to have nudity.
Does it really matter if it is crucial to the story? Was the Hound fighting the guy on the castle wall and knocking him off crucial to the story, or was it just there to have violence?
There is story and then there is world and character building, and sex and violence are part of this world. You are going have to deal with it.