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[-PXG-]

So the girl I'm taking out on Sunday pushed our date up to Saturday. She also wants to come to my house the next day for some more intimacy. Hot fucking damn She's pretty much laid it out that she's gonna suck my dick on Saturday (first date) and by Sunday, we're likely going to have sex. I have this girl in the palm of my fucking hand

Hopefully my plans for today pan out too. This is gonna be one helluva a weekend. My ex breaking up with may have been the best thing to happen to me in ages.

 

[Aurora]

Yeah, who gives a shit about the boyfriend, if she's giving you the attention and the interest it's fair game.

I think you should go for a kiss and just settle it there and then. After the party when you guys are in bed hugging, stroking etc., just go in for a kiss. If it happens, you win, if she doesn't let it happen then chances are you wouldn't have gotten her anyway so you haven't lost anything.

 

[jamesinclair]

So the girl I'm taking out on Sunday pushed our date up to Saturday. She also wants to come to my house the next day for some more intimacy. Hot fucking damn She's pretty much laid it out that she's gonna suck my dick on Saturday (first date) and by Sunday, we're(most likely) going to have sex. I have this girl in the palm of my fucking hand

Hopefully my plans for today pan out too. This is gonna be one helluva a weekend. My ex breaking up with may have been the best thing to happen to me in ages.

Don't get too excited.

Some girls get feet.

 

[-PXG-]

Don't get too excited.

Some girls get feet.

Oh shit :lol

I already told her I'm fine if none of that goes down. But she's convinced it will. The bj is pretty much a done deal. The sex, I'd say its 50/50 shot.

Sex, not even 24 hours after the first date? Not bad I guess right?

 

[jamesinclair]

Oh shit :lol

I already told her I'm fine if none of that goes down. But she's convinced it will. The bj is pretty much a done deal. The sex, I'd say its 50/50 shot.

Sex, not even 24 hours after the first date? Not bad I guess right?

Well, some people might consider that a red flag actually.

I wouldn't turn it down, but some might.

 

[SuperAndroid17]

Well, some people might consider that a red flag actually.

I wouldn't turn it down, but some might.

I'd think so.. especially if you're looking for a relationship.

Down to fuck on the first date...? shes obviously been around and stuff. Bring a Hat lol

 

[-PXG-]

I'd think so.. especially if you're looking for a relationship.

Down to fuck on the first date...? shes obviously been around and stuff. Bring a Hat lol

Nope. She's a really lustful, freaky and horny virgin who's just been waiting for a guy ( I guess like me) to seduce her and make her feel special. She was really shy at first but the more I talked to her, the more she opened up to me. I've been shamelessly flirting and teasing the shit out of her saying all sorts of stuff to get her all hot and bothered. So, its not like I'm completely innocent here. She says she still hasn't had her cherry popped yet. She is a cool girl though. She's sharp and smart as hell. We have alot in common. She's very kind and sincere, or at least she seems so thus far. And willing too :lol

No matter what, I always have rubbers on hand She is a tad too clingy, but I'll play it by ear tomorrow. If she starts being too weird I'll tell her (nicely) to ease up. I don't want some girl falling in love with me after one or two dates now. Plus, the last thing I want to do is use her or break her heart. I'll be careful.

Anyway, I hope today's plans don't go down the shitter.

 

[FlashFlooder]

I don't want some girl falling in love with me after one or two dates now

yeah, that NEVER happens when you pop a chick's cherry

 

[jon bones]

Nope. She's a... virgin...She is a tad too clingy, but I'll play it by ear tomorrow. If she starts being too weird I'll tell her (nicely) to ease up.

this is gonna be great

 

[deejay8595]

Nope. She's a really lustful, freaky and horny virgin who's just been waiting for a guy ( I guess like me) to seduce her and make her feel special. She was really shy at first but the more I talked to her, the more she opened up to me. I've been shamelessly flirting and teasing the shit out of her saying all sorts of stuff to get her all hot and bothered. So, its not like I'm completely innocent here. She says she still hasn't had her cherry popped yet. She is a cool girl though. She's sharp and smart as hell. We have alot in common. She's very kind and sincere, or at least she seems so thus far. And willing too :lol

No matter what, I always have rubbers on hand She is a tad too clingy, but I'll play it by ear tomorrow. If she starts being too weird I'll tell her (nicely) to ease up. I don't want some girl falling in love with me after one or two dates now. Plus, the last thing I want to do is use her or break her heart. I'll be careful.

Anyway, I hope today's plans don't go down the shitter.

she is capping your head up man. I'd be a millionaire if every time I hear that phrase I have $100 in my pocket. Also get ready for the infamous line " I've never done this before. Its just something about you". She is letting you pop and giving you head the first time you chill? AHAHAHA. Please don't pursue a relationship with her man. PLEASE!!! :lol

Im going to start posting more in this thread to school you guys lol.

 

[Russell]

Okay, I have to admit something right now. This thread is getting me really, really, REALLY fucking pissed. In fact, I wish I hadn't seen it. Why? I've never experienced a single moment of intimate physical contact, and I've always, always, always longed for it. There is no fucking way I'm any less desireable -- or worthy -- or deserving than those who ARE experiencing it. No. Fucking. Way.

Edit:
Fuck. I need to calm down.

 

[jon bones]

Okay, I have to admit something right now. This thread is getting me really, really, REALLY fucking pissed. In fact, I wish I hadn't seen it. Why? I've never experienced a single moment of intimate physical contact, and I've always, always, always longed for it. There is no fucking way I'm any less desireable -- or worthy -- or deserving than those who ARE experiencing it. No. Fucking. Way.

Edit:
Fuck. I need to calm down.

oh god not you again

stop complaining and do something about it. nothing is handed to you, and other people are more deserving than you because instead of having a shitty angry attitude, they are going out and taking chances and getting hurt and finding intimacy and struggling with it and learning from it.

 

[Russell]

oh god not you again

stop complaining and do something about it. nothing is handed to you, and other people are more deserving than you because instead of having a shitty angry attitude, they are going out and taking chances and getting hurt and finding intimacy and struggling with it and learning from it.

I almost want to say **** ***, but I'm not like that in real life. I need to think.

You are wrong. They are NOT more deserving than me.

Edit:
I've never hurt anyone. I'm not some sort of cruel sadist. I'm really, really not. Neither am I some sort of socially inept moron.

You'd be fucking pissed too if you've longed for intimate contact (and love), and you're reminded of it by certain things.

Edit 2:
"...taking chances and getting hurt..."? That's gotta be a fucking joke.

Edit 3:
I've heard my whole life, many times, ever since I was a little kid, something to the effect that sex is the most natural thing in the world. So your using words like "taking chances" and "getting hurt" and "struggling" has got to be bullshit. Sex should be the easiest and most natural thing in the world.

...

I don't know what I'm going to do. I'm just so fucking pissed off right now, and I don't like that feeling. I think what it would be like to have someone who has strong feelings for me, and I feel this twisting pain in my stomach, and it almost makes me feel like I want to cry.

I know for a fact that the only thing that can set me free from this empty prison, is to have someone. And I feel like it's being kept from me. And that's the only reason why I feel such intense rage.

It's. Being. Kept. From. Me.

 

[-PXG-]

she is capping your head up man. I'd be a millionaire if every time I hear that phrase I have $100 in my pocket. Also get ready for the infamous line " I've never done this before. Its just something about you". She is letting you pop and giving you head the first time you chill? AHAHAHA. Please don't pursue a relationship with her man. PLEASE!!! :lol

Im going to start posting more in this thread to school you guys lol.

Yeah yeah, I know. She might be crazy and shit. I'm going in with caution and tread carefully. I'll be sure to keep GAF posted on whatever happens :lol Good or bad.

I'm good with girls, but I'm no player. Perhaps I'm just really smooth, lucky or what part of me and ya'll are saying...the bitch is crazy. We'll see.

And feel free to brag, just don't put other people down. Nothing wrong with people posting their success stories. Perhaps they can be used as inspiration for others.

 

[jon bones]

I almost want to say **** ***, but I'm not like that in real life. I need to think.

You are wrong. They are NOT more deserving than me.

Edit:
I've never hurt anyone. I'm not some sort of cruel sadist. I'm really, really not.

You'd be fucking pissed too if you've longed for intimate contact (and love), and you're reminded of it by certain things.

1) what did you even bleep out? you said fuck like 90 times in two posts but "**** ***"?

2) I am rarely wrong about anything, ever. These glorious Gaffers do deserve the pussy they get because they are interesting people with great social skills. What are you? Just another lonely dude on his computer who can't put his frustration aside for ten minutes to read the OP and figure out how he can improve himself.

These people go out and have hobbies because they are passionate about them. These DJs and artists and writers and photographers and rock climbers are attractive to women because they are interesting.

These people have great social skills because they go out and talk to women every day and - like all other skills - they hone them over time.

3) I probably would be pissed if I were you but instead of waiting to win the lottery, I work for a pay check.

 

[captmcblack]

Okay, I have to admit something right now. This thread is getting me really, really, REALLY fucking pissed. In fact, I wish I hadn't seen it. Why? I've never experienced a single moment of intimate physical contact, and I've always, always, always longed for it. There is no fucking way I'm any less desireable -- or worthy -- or deserving than those who ARE experiencing it. No. Fucking. Way.

Oh yeah?

Then be a man and prove it. Go outside, and make this statement true - because as long as every person is out there getting laid, having fun and living life while you aren't, the bolded statement is wrong.

Only you can make it a true statement - so get up and do it, brother.

 

[sooperkool]

/rant

A lot of these guys in here think that dating is like some romatic comedy. A fabulous woman will just fall into their laps, or someone will just happen to notice the awesomeness that they are hiding beneath a shy quiet exterior or some bullshit like that. We're animals and all throughout the animal kingdom you see that mates are won. Either by the flashiest or the the most skilled at something.

If you want a woman, you have to go and get her. You need to make yourself attractive to yourself and then attractive to another human being. Do those things and you will find somebody. I honestly don't see how some of you can say that you've tried but have never had any physical or emotional contact with the opposite/same sex.

its simply not possible. You're not trying hard enough, I'll say it again a mate has to be won. its survival of the fittest at its basic level, you are not entitled to a mate regardless of what your mother told you and you are not special enough to have one unless you can prove it.

/rant off.

 

[Russell]

2) I am rarely wrong about anything, ever. These glorious Gaffers do deserve the pussy they get because they are interesting people with great social skills. What are you? Just another lonely dude on his computer who can't put his frustration aside for ten minutes to read the OP and figure out how he can improve himself.

These people go out and have hobbies because they are passionate about them. These DJs and artists and writers and photographers and rock climbers are attractive to women because they are interesting.

These people have great social skills because they go out and talk to women every day and - like all other skills - they hone them over time.

What a bunch of horseshit.

That I'm not a DJ, or rock climber, or artist, or writer, or movie producer, or whatever the fuck, does not make me any less attractive to women. Their social skills are no more advanced than mine, that's for sure.

In truth and in fact, there's no reason why women shouldn't find me attractive or interesting. That I'm a healthy human being, is enough.

Again -- and this needs to be very clear -- I am no less deserving than those individuals who are experiencing it.

 

[ShOcKwAvE]

Went out with a group of people on Friday and I really hit it off with one of the girls. We exchanged numbers and she even made me call her to make sure it worked.

I called her around 8pm the next night, but got her voicemail and left a brief message. "Hey -----, it's -----. Just calling to say hi...give me a call when you get this, bye." Nice and simple, right?

Well, haven't heard back yet. No text, no calls. This girl was extremely nice, so I can't comprehend why she would just not respond at all.

I'm thinking of giving it one last try, either tonight or tomorrow. Thoughts?

UPDATE: I held off calling thanks to the advice earlier in the thread, but last night I said "F- it" and decided to try one last time. Unfortunately got voicemail again, so I hung up without leaving another and figured that was the end. Obviously not heartbroken, but a disappointment nonetheless.

Then the phone rings at 12:15am and I see her name...seriously, 12:15? Basically she had just come back from an office Christmas party and had a little to drink, so out comes a long apology about how busy she was this week. We eventually had a decent conversation and made tentative plans, so we'll see. I realize her explanation still seems forced, no matter how much truth there is, but I don't mind seeing where this can go. I don't have any qualms with walking away if that kind of nonchalant attitude continues

Here's something you all should absorb:

She complimented me on the fact that I actually called her and didn't try texting or Facebooking. When you're just getting to know each other, anything electronic is just too impersonal and leaves room for a lot of misunderstandings. Avoid that stuff until you're at least a few dates in.

 

[Loki]

2) I am rarely wrong about anything, ever.

:lol

 

[erpg]

It's. Being. Kept. From. Me.

This is the most fucking stupid attitude to have. I'm not surprised you have no game and no luck.

 

[Russell]

This is the most fucking stupid attitude to have. I'm not surprised you have no game and no luck.

You don't know what you're talking about, do you.

 

[jon bones]

What a bunch of horseshit.

That I'm not a DJ, or rock climber, or artist, or writer, or movie producer, or whatever the fuck, does not make me any less attractive to women. Their social skills are no more advanced than mine, that's for sure.

In truth and in fact, there's no reason why women shouldn't find me attractive or interesting.

Again -- and this needs to be very clear -- I am no less deserving than those individuals who are experiencing it.

well the bolded is straight up fact. your social skills suck. i mean, you clearly don't understand a thing about what would make a woman want to put your dick in her mouth. on top of that, you're certainly not making any friends around these parts.

but why are you even posting here? to play the victim? to be so stubborn in your shitty non-sex having ways that you refuse to listen to the ton of advice in here?

how old are you, btw? if you're like 15 or something then i completely apologize - hardly anyone knows anything at 15.

 

[captmcblack]

everyone who ever had sex and found dates/girlfriends/boyfriends/spouses is obviously wrong

it's natural, so finding someone should happen in a different way than every single other person who's ever had sex and found dates/girlfriends/boyfriends/spouses by working at it, being interesting, improving themselves, being confident and actually talking to people you're interested in

 

[WyndhamPrice]

What a bunch of horseshit.

That I'm not a DJ, or rock climber, or artist, or writer, or movie producer, or whatever the fuck, does not make me any less attractive to women. Their social skills are no more advanced than mine, that's for sure.

In truth and in fact, there's no reason why women shouldn't find me attractive or interesting. That I'm a healthy human being, is enough.

Again -- and this needs to be very clear -- I am no less deserving than those individuals who are experiencing it.

So why are you attractive or deserving? You keep saying you are but have provided us with no other information. Do you actually go after women or are you just waiting for them to come to you?

 

[erpg]

You don't know what you're talking about, do you.

I've only been in ~6 romantic relationships, and in my current one for three years. Nope. Nothing it at all. There must be something keeping me from knowing what I'm talking about. Some weird external magical force that is preventing me from understanding.

Damn voodoo.

 

[Russell]

well the bolded is straight up fact. your social skills suck. i mean, you clearly don't understand a thing about what would make a woman want to put your dick in her mouth. on top of that, you're certainly not making any friends around these parts.

but why are you even posting here? to play the victim? to be so stubborn in your shitty non-sex having ways that you refuse to listen to the ton of advice in here?

how old are you, btw? if you're like 15 or something then i completely apologize - hardly anyone knows anything at 15.

Fact: You are wrong in your evaluation of me.

You don't know what you're talking about because you simply don't know me.

You are no more socially skilled than I am.

And my age? You're wrong again, boy. I'm much older than you think.

 

[Alucrid]

Fact: You are wrong in your evaluation of me.

You don't know what you're talking about because you simply don't know me.

You are no more socially skilled than I am.

And my age? You're wrong again, boy. I'm much older than you think.

You're hilarious. :lol

 

[WyndhamPrice]

Stop telling us we're wrong and tell us why we're wrong.

It's being kept from you? Is your princess in another castle or something?

 

[_Alkaline_]

Russell please stop ruining a good thread.

 

[SmokeMaxX]

Fact: You are wrong in your evaluation of me.

You don't know what you're talking about because you simply don't know me.

You are no more socially skilled than I am.

And my age? You're wrong again, boy. I'm much older than you think.

You know what? If you're not getting pussy, there IS something wrong with you. That's just a straight up fact. Drug dealers get pussy. Guys missing leg get pussy. Guys with 2 inch penises get pussy.

Hell, even when I had low ass self esteem I had three girlfriends and after our relationships ended, they all wanted to get back together with me at some point in time.

You don't seem to be having that problem do you? And don't try to tell me I'm better than or worse than you because I can list a dozen ways I'm better than you and a dozen ways I'm probably not better than you. It's never been about who thinks they're better. It's always about who GIRLS think are better.

You can be the worst guy on the planet, but if you go to a party, are able to talk to everyone and have a shitload of fun, girls will be attracted to you. If you can look them in the eye, smile, and say some stupid ass shit that makes them smile, they'll be attracted to you.

Just live life and stop being a b****. Complaining's never helped anyone. Instead of hating all of us, you should be asking why you're not successful. As others have stated, it's probably your garbage attitude.

 

[Magik]

Fact: You are wrong in your evaluation of me.

You don't know what you're talking about because you simply don't know me.

You are no more socially skilled than I am.

And my age? You're wrong again, boy. I'm much older than you think.

Well, then tell us about yourself. Its rather difficult to offer any advice if you aren't willing to at least tell us about yourself and then proceed to get angry and state nobody knows you thus they cannot criticize you.

Going back to your previous posts:

"...taking chances and getting hurt..."? That's gotta be a fucking joke.

How is it a joke? Anytime a person tries something new whether it be dating, a new hobby etc. they are risking the chance of failure and thus risking the chance of getting hurt physically or mentally. People aren't perfect right from the get go. It's a fact of life.

I know for a fact that the only thing that can set me free from this empty prison, is to have someone. And I feel like it's being kept from me. And that's the only reason why I feel such intense rage.

It's. Being. Kept. From. Me.

The only person that is preventing you from finding that person is you. You are the one that is prevent yourself from succeeding. You have to be the one that is out there taking chances in meeting women. The chances of it being handed to you is very low.

 

[Alucrid]

Okay Russell, you sad sack. If you want that intimate contact you so long for, stop wallowing in that shallow pool of self pity and do something about it. Are those people who actually get girls worthy of it? Yes, because they aren't posting on the internet complaining about how they don't get any despite being worthy of it. Clearly you're not. Your little temper tantrums in the few posts you've made reveal quite a lot about you. Go listen to some Linkin Park, then when you feel better come back and learn how to better yourself. Step one would be to stop making excuses and putting the blame on other people. No other-worldly force is keeping sex from you, just you, your attitude and your outlook on life. Pathetic.

 

[djtiesto]

I don't know why people even bother responding to this guy anymore. We've given him TONS of useful advice every time he pops up with his canned "wah I get so angry when I see people with hot girls. I deserve a hot girl just because!" stuff.

You can't expect cute women to fall on your lap, you gotta make the effort to work at it. You're over 30, right? Isn't it obvious that just waiting around instead of being proactive hasn't worked yet? Will it take you another 30 years to realize that?

 

[ShOcKwAvE]

I don't know why people even bother responding to this guy anymore. We've given him TONS of useful advice every time he pops up with his canned "wah I get so angry when I see people with hot girls. I deserve a hot girl just because!" stuff.

You can't expect cute women to fall on your lap, you gotta make the effort to work at it. You're over 30, right? Isn't it obvious that just waiting around instead of being proactive hasn't worked yet? Will it take you another 30 years to get that?

This. You HAVE to pursue somehow.

 

[SmokeMaxX]

I don't know why people even bother responding to this guy anymore. We've given him TONS of useful advice every time he pops up with his canned "wah I get so angry when I see people with hot girls. I deserve a hot girl just because!" stuff.

You can't expect cute women to fall on your lap, you gotta make the effort to work at it. You're over 30, right? Isn't it obvious that just waiting around instead of being proactive hasn't worked yet? Will it take you another 30 years to realize that?

Probably complains just because it's easier or he doesn't have critical thinking skills. I was reading a thread on another website where a guy was complaining about black guys taking all the hot white women :lol . That was hilarious how much the guy raged and he couldn't figure out why people called him a racist even though he said all white women who went out with black guys were either ugly or whores.

 

[Veelk]

I hope Russell hangs around here a while. His posts are making me feel better about myself, which boosts my confidence.

 

[SRG01]

The one thing I learnt the hard way is that merely being a nice guy is not enough. It's the same thing for women too; just because a girl is nice doesn't mean you're attracted to her.

Think of it this way: What are you looking for in a girl? Interests? Personality? Physical Appearance? Those things, including nicety, all contribute to whatever chemistry happens to be there. I've met all sorts of girls who were, by any standard, nice girls and would perhaps be a good girlfriend. But simply being nice wasn't enough for me to date them. There was absolutely no attraction.

The above also applies to guys. Does that make sense?

 

[JumpJeff84]

I just moved. I'm gonna spend a fair bit of time and money turning my new room into a pimpsquisite lair of awesomeness. I'll have to have my PC and music gear out, but other than that I'm gonna turn it into a room that women will fucking love.

Any tips on how to pimp a bedroom? I've got a sweet bed being delivered soon enough. What else?

 

[squall211]

Fact: You are wrong in your evaluation of me.

You don't know what you're talking about because you simply don't know me.

You are no more socially skilled than I am.

And my age? You're wrong again, boy. I'm much older than you think.

Wow. I'm in the same boat you are, but man, I'm thankful I don't have the bitterness, anger & rage that you apparently have over it.

 

[WyndhamPrice]

I hope Russell hangs around here a while. His posts are making me feel better about myself, which boosts my confidence.

Hell yeah, at least you're making an effort. Makes you far more deserving.

 

[sooperkool]

I just moved. I'm gonna spend a fair bit of time and money turning my new room into a pimpsquisite lair of awesomeness. I'll have to have my PC and music gear out, but other than that I'm gonna turn it into a room that women will fucking love.

Any tips on how to pimp a bedroom? I've got a sweet bed being delivered soon enough. What else?

Keep it clean and smelling nice. Goes for the bathroom too, clean that shit every single time you expect company and make sure you have good sheets.

 

[jon bones]

I just moved. I'm gonna spend a fair bit of time and money turning my new room into a pimpsquisite lair of awesomeness. I'll have to have my PC and music gear out, but other than that I'm gonna turn it into a room that women will fucking love.

Any tips on how to pimp a bedroom? I've got a sweet bed being delivered soon enough. What else?

things i love in my bedroom:
-two very, very old wooden chests that i use for storage/atmosphere. on top of them i keep some art books, coffee table books, my red wine and scotch.

-i use an old piano bench as a coffee table/storage

-a large (and surprise! very old) bookshelf filled with (derrr) old books :lol

or buy a James Jean painting and be G up

 

[-PXG-]

/rant

A lot of these guys in here think that dating is like some romatic comedy. A fabulous woman will just fall into their laps, or someone will just happen to notice the awesomeness that they are hiding beneath a shy quiet exterior or some bullshit like that. We're animals and all throughout the animal kingdom you see that mates are won. Either by the flashiest or the the most skilled at something.

If you want a woman, you have to go and get her. You need to make yourself attractive to yourself and then attractive to another human being. Do those things and you will find somebody. I honestly don't see how some of you can say that you've tried but have never had any physical or emotional contact with the opposite/same sex.

its simply not possible. You're not trying hard enough, I'll say it again a mate has to be won. its survival of the fittest at its basic level, you are not entitled to a mate regardless of what your mother told you and you are not special enough to have one unless you can prove it.

/rant off.

Spot fucking on.

Opportunity ain't gonna come knocking at your door. You have to create it yourself. How? Take initiative. Get up, and go out there. DO! You get shit done and make progress by DOING. Fell down? Stumble? Get your ass back up and try again. Feeling sorry for yourself and and being upset won't get you anywhere. Nut the hell up and keep on trying until you get what you want. But be sensible at the same time. No matter how hard you try, you can't always get what you want. Some things are just never meant to be.

However, let's try to remain civil and not talk too much shit or hurt anyone's feelings. You can be honest and keep things real without being rude.

 

[sooperkool]

Yep. I just had to get that out of my system. Carry on.

 

[MustacheBandit_]

I don't know what to tell y'all, that never happens to me. When I went out with my boys last week I went and stepped to a group of like 6 chicks by myself and brought all of em back to the VIP booth with me. None of them said nothing sideways of try to come off reckless to me. Like I said I very rarely run into that shit with women.

Well, I'm sure if you hung out with them afterward, they would have done it. It is a mechanism that pretty much all women use.

I was in Vegas a couple weeks back and I pulled 4 girls to another club. They were all incredibly awesome and fun to hang out with. I ended up ditching some friends to hang out with them. Super chill girls. Anyways, toward the end of the night one of them asks me, "aren't you going to buy us drinks?" (this is a shit test). I said, "sure" and took them to the bar. I ordered 4 waters, with lemon. They were shocked, ended up laughing, got the hottest girls number (I'm in a relationship...just wanted to see if I could...).

Girls do shit tests to qualify men, to weed out the weirdos from the confident, secure males. They do it without knowing.

EDIT: They may not have done the shit tests because you were taking them to VIP plus you seem like a pretty secure, confident dude.

 

[Mr.Squirrel]

Okay, I have to admit something right now. This thread is getting me really, really, REALLY fucking pissed. In fact, I wish I hadn't seen it. Why? I've never experienced a single moment of intimate physical contact, and I've always, always, always longed for it. There is no fucking way I'm any less desireable -- or worthy -- or deserving than those who ARE experiencing it. No. Fucking. Way.

Edit:
Fuck. I need to calm down.

Tell em why you mad son

 

[Mr.Squirrel]

Well, I'm sure if you hung out with them afterward, they would have done it. It is a mechanism that pretty much all women use.

I was in Vegas a couple weeks back and I pulled 4 girls to another club. They were all incredibly awesome and fun to hang out with. I ended up ditching some friends to hang out with them. Super chill girls. Anyways, toward the end of the night one of them asks me, "aren't you going to buy us drinks?" (this is a shit test). I said, "sure" and took them to the bar. I ordered 4 waters, with lemon. They were shocked, ended up laughing, got the hottest girls number (I'm in a relationship...just wanted to see if I could...).

Girls do shit tests to qualify men, to weed out the weirdos from the confident, secure males. They do it without knowing.

EDIT: They may not have done the shit tests because you were taking them to VIP plus you seem like a pretty secure, confident dude.

Lol I don't hang out with em after the club.

And Russell is the best thing to happen to this thread since the achievement list :lol

 

[-PXG-]

Before you can even think about getting a girl to like you and want to be with you, it's imperative that you work and improve yourself. The reason why I, and a bunch of other guys in this thread have dates this weekend, is because we love and believe in ourselves to a certain degree. We're confident. We have hobbies. We can hold conversations. We know how. to have fun. That's why we can talk to girls. That's why we can ask them out. That's why we get laid. There's nothing magical about it. You can do it too. Short, tall, skinny, fat, black, white, pale, tan, long hair, short hair, scruffy, clean shaven, small dick, huge dick. None of that matters. Your ability to be confident and to have a good time is all that really matters. That's what will get girls to like you.

I can safely speak for every guy in this thread, on GAF, the internet, as well as every guy on the face of the Earth, that not one of us was born with or has an innate ability to talk to women. We had to work for it. We had to practice. We are willing to face failure. We are willing to accept rejection. But we don't take it too much to heart. We convinced ourselves that every misstep and every mistake makes us stronger and smarter. Over time, we learn from our successes, as well as our fuck ups, and hone our craft. That's what makes you a fucking man: Being proud of yourself, being confident and stopping at nothing to get what you want. Money, bitches, power. Whatever. Again, there's nothing magical about it. It's pretty straight forward. If you practice at something, and are diligent and disciplined, you will get good at it. Sure, it's easier said than done, but it't not impossible.

However you won't be able to take a single step forward if you put up all of these barriers or make up excuses. Quit blaming others and sabotaging yourself. Stop eliminating yourself. Don't make things into self fulfilling prophecies. If you tell yourself you can do something and work hard enough at it, chances are, it will happen.

With that said, tell yourself you can do it, go out and do it, and keep on doing it until you get the results you want. Girls, friends, school, jobs, whatever. That's how things work.

 

[GiJoccin]

Spot fucking on.

Opportunity ain't gonna come knocking at your door. You have to create it yourself. How? Take initiative. Get up, and go out there. DO! You get shit done and make progress by DOING. Fell down? Stumble? Get your ass back up and try again. Feeling sorry for yourself and and being upset won't get you anywhere. Nut the hell up and keep on trying until you get what you want. But be sensible at the same time. No matter how hard you try, you can't always get what you want. Some things are just never meant to be.

However, let's try to remain civil and not talk too much shit or hurt anyone's feelings. You can be honest and keep things real without being rude.

I've noticed that I've slowly been losing my inhibitions about chatting girls up. It's as big of a deal as you make it out to be. Where I used to be scared and feel sick when thinking about asking a girl out, lately I've been asking girls out without a second thought. And I'm slowly but surely reaching the point where walking up to a girl I have never talked to before and chatting her up isn't such a big deal. Exciting times Of course it's not always "yes", but it's not "no" as much as I'd thought it would be. All it takes is a few laughs and "Hey, do you want to hang out sometime?"

*edit* I'm thinking about taking this girl to a bowling alley for a first date. Would you guys try to fit dinner in there or just bowling? The bowling alley has SOME food, but it's probably kinda trashy. I was thinking just bowling to keep it light hearted though..