Before you can even think about getting a girl to like you and want to be with you, it's imperative that you work and improve yourself. The reason why I, and a bunch of other guys in this thread have dates this weekend, is because we love and believe in ourselves to a certain degree. We're confident. We have hobbies. We can hold conversations. We know how. to have fun. That's why we can talk to girls. That's why we can ask them out. That's why we get laid. There's nothing magical about it. You can do it too. Short, tall, skinny, fat, black, white, pale, tan, long hair, short hair, scruffy, clean shaven, small dick, huge dick. None of that matters. Your ability to be confident and to have a good time is all that really matters. That's what will get girls to like you.
I can safely speak for every guy in this thread, on GAF, the internet, as well as every guy on the face of the Earth, that not one of us was born with or has an innate ability to talk to women. We had to work for it. We had to practice. We are willing to face failure. We are willing to accept rejection. But we don't take it too much to heart. We convinced ourselves that every misstep and every mistake makes us stronger and smarter. Over time, we learn from our successes, as well as our fuck ups, and hone our craft. That's what makes you a fucking man: Being proud of yourself, being confident and stopping at nothing to get what you want. Money, bitches, power. Whatever. Again, there's nothing magical about it. It's pretty straight forward. If you practice at something, and are diligent and disciplined, you will get good at it. Sure, it's easier said than done, but it't not impossible.
However you won't be able to take a single step forward if you put up all of these barriers or make up excuses. Quit blaming others and sabotaging yourself. Stop eliminating yourself. Don't make things into self fulfilling prophecies. If you tell yourself you can do something and work hard enough at it, chances are, it will happen.
With that said, tell yourself you can do it, go out and do it, and keep on doing it until you get the results you want. Girls, friends, school, jobs, whatever. That's how things work.
She's pretty much laid it out that she's gonna suck my dick on Saturday (first date) and by Sunday, we're likely going to have sex. I have this girl in the palm of my fucking hand