Dr_Boris_Goltz
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I need an emergency fun-date-idea in the LA/909 area for tomorrow.
Any suggestions good sirs?
Any suggestions good sirs?
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Girl/Dating Age Part 2: A combined effort to give advice for those in need
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Etrian Oddity
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So aside from that snafu with the cockblockage, I actually had a wonderful Friday. Came away with a shit-ton of confidence in myself and my game, even though I didn't get any numbers or action. Looking forward to next semester.
Just chill with her in coffee shops and other laid back environments, and start turning on the charm. Let your eye contact show your intentions. See how she reacts before thinking about making moves on her.
Regarding making a bad move, that's nothing to worry about, unless you are trying too hard. Tell yourself that you'll be OK with any outcome, and just enjoy yourself.
I don't know why...I've been thinking about my ex for passed few weeks....UGH!!!! I'm still not quite over it. I know I will be once I'm actually in a solid relationship once again.
In other news, a girl I saw a year ago go in contact with me again and wants to start talking/ seeing me again. I don't know what's gonna come from this
Oh, and my lady friend/ FWB/ we're pretty much a couple, but not really, and kinda sorta official but not really, girl and I doing well.
A few days ago I told her that I loooooooooooooove eating pussy (if you do it, and do it well, you will have her in the palm of your hand). I went on about how I prefer girls who take care of themselves and shave regularly. She then started teasing me about getting waxed and whatnot. I went over her place the other night. As usual, we start messing around. I slip my hands down south and discover that she's all smoov (v > th). My mouf (okay...I'll stop) started to water (seriously...I was salivating as if there was a slap of ribs down there). I wanted to go down on her so bad. But no. Ms. Evil wouldn't let me. She sent me home with even the slightest lick or nibble.
Anyway, to make a long story short, she wasn't so successful in denying me tonight. Just before I left, I got back on her bed, kissed down her chest and stomach. I pulled off her pants and panties, exposing her beautiful (and very wet) pussy. I was at the point of no return. I went down on that motherfucker like it was my last meal. It has been months since I've "tasted" a women. It was so good, it almost had me saying, "THIS IS DELICIOUS", like M. Bison from the Street Fighter cartoon.
And best part of it all, no odd after taste or remorseful guilt
In other news, a girl I saw a year ago go in contact with me again and wants to start talking/ seeing me again. I don't know what's gonna come from this
Oh, and my lady friend/ FWB/ we're pretty much a couple, but not really, and kinda sorta official but not really, girl and I doing well.
A few days ago I told her that I loooooooooooooove eating pussy (if you do it, and do it well, you will have her in the palm of your hand). I went on about how I prefer girls who take care of themselves and shave regularly. She then started teasing me about getting waxed and whatnot. I went over her place the other night. As usual, we start messing around. I slip my hands down south and discover that she's all smoov (v > th). My mouf (okay...I'll stop) started to water (seriously...I was salivating as if there was a slap of ribs down there). I wanted to go down on her so bad. But no. Ms. Evil wouldn't let me. She sent me home with even the slightest lick or nibble.
Anyway, to make a long story short, she wasn't so successful in denying me tonight. Just before I left, I got back on her bed, kissed down her chest and stomach. I pulled off her pants and panties, exposing her beautiful (and very wet) pussy. I was at the point of no return. I went down on that motherfucker like it was my last meal. It has been months since I've "tasted" a women. It was so good, it almost had me saying, "THIS IS DELICIOUS", like M. Bison from the Street Fighter cartoon.
And best part of it all, no odd after taste or remorseful guilt
In the last 5 days I've gotten 62 messages on OKC and 3 girls' phone numbers and several requests to meet up.
How did I do it? I took a female friend's advice on messaging. No secrets revealed, but this is the benefit of female friends.
P.S. the girls that are responding are all 9's and 10's IMO, if I were to use the douchebag ladies rating system. It has been an incredible confidence builder.
How did I do it? I took a female friend's advice on messaging. No secrets revealed, but this is the benefit of female friends.
P.S. the girls that are responding are all 9's and 10's IMO, if I were to use the douchebag ladies rating system. It has been an incredible confidence builder.
You are absolutely right about everything, but can it still be called a rebound after 9 months?
I agree I need to make some choices. I'm not gonna like this.
Time limits don't matter; it's all about what's going inside your head.
ConradCervantes
Banned
Ugh, one of my exes texted me today asking me exactly why I had blocked her on Facebook. I told her since the last time we spoke didn't go so well and she had told me to leave her alone, I'd honor that and completely remove her from my attention. She called it a juvenile move and said the only reason I did so was because I could get over her more easily. That set me off, and I said there was nothing about her worth looking at anyway. After a few choice words between us, she told me she was engaged now, and my response was asking her if she were pregnant again. She didn't take that too well.
I've been in a pissy mood ever since. I think I'll be changing my number soon so this kind of interaction can be avoided in the future. Shame, I've had my number ever since my very first cell phone.
I've been in a pissy mood ever since. I think I'll be changing my number soon so this kind of interaction can be avoided in the future. Shame, I've had my number ever since my very first cell phone.
I don't know why...I've been thinking about my ex for passed few weeks....UGH!!!! I'm still not quite over it. I know I will be once I'm actually in a solid relationship once again.
In other news, a girl I saw a year ago go in contact with me again and wants to start talking/ seeing me again. I don't know what's gonna come from this
Oh, and my lady friend/ FWB/ we're pretty much a couple, but not really, and kinda sorta official but not really, girl and I doing well.
A few days ago I told her that I loooooooooooooove eating pussy (if you do it, and do it well, you will have her in the palm of your hand). I went on about how I prefer girls who take care of themselves and shave regularly. She then started teasing me about getting waxed and whatnot. I went over her place the other night. As usual, we start messing around. I slip my hands down south and discover that she's all smoov (v > th). My mouf (okay...I'll stop) started to water (seriously...I was salivating as if there was a slap of ribs down there). I wanted to go down on her so bad. But no. Ms. Evil wouldn't let me. She sent me home with even the slightest lick or nibble.
Anyway, to make a long story short, she wasn't so successful in denying me tonight. Just before I left, I got back on her bed, kissed down her chest and stomach. I pulled off her pants and panties, exposing her beautiful (and very wet) pussy. I was at the point of no return. I went down on that motherfucker like it was my last meal. It has been months since I've "tasted" a women. It was so good, it almost had me saying, "THIS IS DELICIOUS", like M. Bison from the Street Fighter cartoon.
And best part of it all, no odd after taste or remorseful guilt
Anyone else think this is over the top/unnecessary/not abiding new Google rules/tmi for this thread?
I do.
Teach us your ways. Techniques are always welcome.
Engaged now? How long have you two been broken up?
Grimm Fandango
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Gee thanks for sharing :/
Why?
CherryWoodFuton
Member
I don't know why...I've been thinking about my ex for passed few weeks....UGH!!!! I'm still not quite over it. I know I will be once I'm actually in a solid relationship once again.
In other news, a girl I saw a year ago go in contact with me again and wants to start talking/ seeing me again. I don't know what's gonna come from this
Oh, and my lady friend/ FWB/ we're pretty much a couple, but not really, and kinda sorta official but not really, girl and I doing well.
A few days ago I told her that I loooooooooooooove eating pussy (if you do it, and do it well, you will have her in the palm of your hand). I went on about how I prefer girls who take care of themselves and shave regularly. She then started teasing me about getting waxed and whatnot. I went over her place the other night. As usual, we start messing around. I slip my hands down south and discover that she's all smoov (v > th). My mouf (okay...I'll stop) started to water (seriously...I was salivating as if there was a slap of ribs down there). I wanted to go down on her so bad. But no. Ms. Evil wouldn't let me. She sent me home with even the slightest lick or nibble.
Anyway, to make a long story short, she wasn't so successful in denying me tonight. Just before I left, I got back on her bed, kissed down her chest and stomach. I pulled off her pants and panties, exposing her beautiful (and very wet) pussy. I was at the point of no return. I went down on that motherfucker like it was my last meal. It has been months since I've "tasted" a women. It was so good, it almost had me saying, "THIS IS DELICIOUS", like M. Bison from the Street Fighter cartoon.
And best part of it all, no odd after taste or remorseful guilt
No lie I fapped to this lol
Anyways date was postponed (her kid was sick). No date set yet because I want her to set it instead of me. I offered to bring some cough syrup for him (since I'm a nurse and all). Did that seem like overkill? I'm naturally the type of person to do that whenever my friends are sick though....
Starting to catch slight feelings for this one girl I'm seeing. On one hand, I want her to ask to make things official, but on the other, I don't -- she'll (most likely) be moving in April and I don't want to do long distance. She keeps mentioning things we should do months down the line like she expects we'll still be seeing each other at that point, and has asked to meet my friends, so I'm guessing she sees potential in this. Still, I'm not going to bring our "status" up since I've just been enjoying things the way they are right now.
ConradCervantes
Banned
Three years. We still live in the same town, so we run into each other sporadically. A few weeks ago we saw each other at a Gamestop when Call Of Duty came out and agreed to go out for a drink and catch up. Bad idea. We ended up drunkenly arguing over old dumb shit, I went home and blocked her, then today's events.
I don't mind that she's engaged, but I think she was just saying that to make me feel bitter or jealous or something.
To be frank: she was. You need to stop talking to her. If you see her, be civil but don't extend/accept any invitations.
grap3fruitman
Banned
So I'm going to dinner with flower girl tomorrow. Not sure what to expect...
I think it's great advice that reminds to you to stay true to yourself. If you're happy with yourself, you shouldn't have to put on a front to get a girl -- otherwise you're just deceiving both you and her.
Well most people would interpret it as "Just stay the exact same way and you'll get girls eventually." And this is how I originally interpreted it.
A better piece of advice is to be the best YOU that you can be. As you experience life you need to grow and mature and develop yourself as a person. You can't just stay the exact same way and expect to get girls when it obviously hasn't worked.
It's bad advice in the sense that it isn't specific. It's like if i'm trying to get to the other side of a broken bridge and I ask for advice and the response is: Find a way to get across.
Yeah no shit sherlock thanks.
If you're not confident or happy with yourself, then "being yourself" likely isn't going to work -- like you said, that approach is just going to throw you in circles of disappointment.
I think you first have to come to point where you can realize that you don't need a girl to make you whole. The best advice I can give is to work on yourself until you can honestly believe that any girl would be lucky to have you, and then you won't be over-analyzing everything and letting your negative thoughts get the best of you. Hence "being yourself", it really just boils down to be not trying to be someone you're not, and being comfortable with yourself.
grap3fruitman
Banned
Agreed. There wouldn't be so many posts in here if simply "being yourself" wasn't an issue.
Yes i'm not saying the message itself is bad. I'm saying the way the advice is being conveyed is bad. You need to tell someone more than just "be yourself". It doesn't help the person improve on anything it isn't specific at all.
Be yourself in my eyes means the exact same thing as stay the exact same and keep doing what you do.
Yes that is true but there is obviously a flaw if the advice by itself in that phrasing will still not make any improvements in people.
The advice would work better if it was phrased in a different way. Like in the way I typed it. That is a much better way of putting out that same advice without any misinterpretation and it's honestly worded better.
ConradCervantes
Banned
I don't mean to come off as a little kid, but she started it. I didn't text her. Our last meeting was the last time I spoke to her until today. I said my piece, but she still pushed and pushed to get something out of me.
Going forward, just don't do it. Doesn't matter if she starts it, be the one to end it by either flat-out declining or avoiding indirect contact like text/FB/etc. You were smart to remove her from Facebook.
It sucks to be mean sometimes, but if you put things politely you'll have made your point like a boss; "I don't mean to be a dick, but we don't really have much else to discuss. You're getting married soon and it's a bad look to be talking to me, your ex. I also have moved on and don't really lavish the idea of tripping down memory lane only to end up arguing with you over forgotten quarrels. I wish you the best of luck in life." If she chooses to lash out after an honest and logical farewell such as that, she's a bitch -- plain and simple.
ConradCervantes
Banned
You and I are on the same wavelength, I just lost control at the end. With the shit I said to her, if I hear from her anytime soon, I'll be immensely surprised.
Jamesfrom818
Banned
First of all, 909 is not LA. The sooner you stop living this delusion, the better.
As far as a fun date in that area, I'd go with Speed Zone in Diamond Bar. Go karts and mini golf. There are also some good Asian dessert places nearby.
Rookje
Member
I need some advice.
Met this hottie in Newport on Friday. 100% my type. I was with my roommate, and she was with a friend. I felt I did everything right, and got her number pretty easily. Invited her to a party, she said words like "definitely." Was taking her home, and she said she wanted to eat. Went to norms (It was 2am), then dropped her off. I probably know more personal info on her from that night than my roommate.
Texted her saying I got home safe that night jokingly, no response. Sunday I asked her if she was up for dinner on Mon. No response.
What now?
My buddy who has no probs with girls says to *67 her. Its tempting, because if I get voice mail I'll feel fucked. But it could also be creepy.
Met this hottie in Newport on Friday. 100% my type. I was with my roommate, and she was with a friend. I felt I did everything right, and got her number pretty easily. Invited her to a party, she said words like "definitely." Was taking her home, and she said she wanted to eat. Went to norms (It was 2am), then dropped her off. I probably know more personal info on her from that night than my roommate.
Texted her saying I got home safe that night jokingly, no response. Sunday I asked her if she was up for dinner on Mon. No response.
What now?
My buddy who has no probs with girls says to *67 her. Its tempting, because if I get voice mail I'll feel fucked. But it could also be creepy.
Rookje
Member
Pics (of you)? Dating sites are 95% looks in pics in my experience.
luckyboyceo
Member
I think that's fine. As you said, it was a natural response so I don't see any problem in it. I doubt she read into it any more than you just being courteous.
Sounds like you know what you're doing. For what it's worth, I think that's a good call. Avoid the status conversation and just keep going with the flow. I suppose you'll have to make a decision on that eventually, but it can wait.
Honestly dude, I would just bail. If you continue to reach out to her you'll come off as desperate and definitely start to creep her out, regardless of how much you may have clicked that night.
It's her move now.
CF_Fighter
Member
It's not like any of us are going to come to your town and edge in on your territory, plus tastes vary here among what we consider attractive. Like others have said this is a thread to come into for help and if you have had success share with the others here who might need it. Not all of our female friends are as helpful or in tune with online dating as yours is.
What is the point of telling us this in a girl-help thread if your just gonna tease us with your monopoly on this information?
Bucket-o-roadkill
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Change your pics to a male model, say you won the lottery or on over a million a year wage packet. Hello 9s and 10s!
amirite
Not sure where the 909 area is, but when I used to live in LA, I would take girls to Santa Monica beach about an hour or two before sunset and walk along the beach, and then drive up to the mountains to watch the sunset. Cheap + romantic as balls.
Alright guys, so I did some dumb shit last Saturday. I drunk texted the girl I've been interested in for months now (we're close friends) telling her how I feel and that it's difficult to continue being close since I've developed strong feelings for her. We had a talk about it yesterday and she told me she doesn't really know how she feels and wants to spend some time thinking about us... She actually had no idea I was interested in her until I told her, which makes it understandable that she's confused. What is the best course of action here, GAF? I realized I did a lot of things wrong including not making my intentions known earlier in the game and sending a drunk text (I still feel shitty about sending that, I handled it poorly). However, until she figures out how she feels about me/us it seems like our relationship will be strained and awkward. Should I just carry on business as usual or try to distance myself a little?
Thanks!
Thanks!
"Be Yourself" means get your inner self together
grap3fruitman
Banned
No it doesn't. Why not just say that then? The words "be yourself" mean something completely different than what you're suggesting.
Just gonna bump my question here a bit, since got no responses : /
faulty_fork
Member
Carry on as usual, but don't try to press her on how she feels about you. Let her be the one to bring it up again and in the meantime just try and have a great time while she's around. Only becomes awkward if she noticies that you're uncomfortable about it.
Bucket-o-roadkill
Member
I've been myself all this time and managed to get not a particularly decent amount of women and lose the ones I have had a relationship with, including the love of my life! Could say that being myself is the problem, lol
CherryWoodFuton
Member
The only way to find out is to go on a date with her. You're not creating a sense of urgency to meet from what I gather so next time you text/call her schedule one.
CherryWoodFuton
Member
Be a better version of yourself then. It doesn't seem like you're comfortable in your own skin which is ok. Do whatever it takes to achieve that goal (hanging out with friends and family, learning a new skill/hobby, travel, therapy, etc.). What I like about Brent Smith's (Cubs lol) videos is the theme of always loving yourself first before you love someone else....
Thanks for your response. Yeah, I've went out with her twice some time ago and we both really enjoyed ourselves. The second time I went out with her I should have told her that I like her, but I failed to. And recently I have asked her out, but due to she genuinely can't due to circumstances. I guess just being very close, being really nice and having pet names is not enough basis to assume she likes me in any other way than a friend.
Anyone? Would really love to hear from someone who isn't relationshiptarded.
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