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[Danj]

People get messages on Facebook for dating? Are any of the FB dating apps any good?

 

[BocoDragon]

At New Year 2009/2010 a hot Korean girl hugged me and I got a boner. She looked at me, I said "that means you're beautiful" and she ran away embarrassed.

:/

I lolled. :lol

 

[The Elite]

People get messages on Facebook for dating? Are any of the FB dating apps any good?

I'm curious about this too.

 

[Ether_Snake]

Is there any site like OKCupid that is used in Canada? I'm in Montreal and only know of monclasseur.com but I hate the search options, the site is really poorly made.

 

[Aurora]

Y'all should just be proud everything is still in working order. See it as an evolutionary advantage. The faster you get things up to working speed, the faster you can spread your genes.

Yeah, because women are gonna want to fuck you when you get boners over holding hands.

 

[Acid08]

How do you guys get out and meet women? At least what kinds of things do you do? I always meet girls through mutual friends but I actually want to start going out and doing more. Problem is I'm 20 and options seem to be limited. The other thing is my friends are all recluses who hate going out.

 

[Barrage]

Is there any site like OKCupid that is used in Canada? I'm in Montreal and only know of monclasseur.com but I hate the search options, the site is really poorly made.

...OKCupid IS in Canada. When you make an account it'll ask for your area code, then find girls around your area for you.

As for the boner thing...

When hugging it can be awkward, because a lot of girls hug with zero romantic intention.

But when you're grinding while dancing? Fuck that, let your flag fly high.

 

[jon bones]

I am hopeless with women.

so why do you keep giving advice here?

This thread reminds me of a group of predators discussing tactics for their next hunt

good analogy

go get fed

And I almost want to go along with this and get married because then I will get to live on my own (first time in a long time) and my mom will give me money. She says she will buy me a car in India and possibly build me a house.

you should be ashamed of yourself... tired of these spineless brown people who won't push the envelope with their parents ESPECIALLY in something this serious.

I will report on the failing later tonight.

turtle and hare

buying her gifts

admitting defeat beforehand

god you are the worst

 

[Ether_Snake]

Ok great, but I can't think of a damn user name.

 

[Munin]

Is there way to completely block another person on OKCupid or to make your profile hidden from that person? I live in a particularly small country where the number of OKCupid users is pretty limited and there's a profile of a girl there that I hooked up with last year and I'd, well, rather not have her see me. :/

 

[BamYouHaveAids]

Ok great, but I can't think of a damn user name.

Name yourself Tummystabber, that way you can subtlety imply you have a big dick without being crude or obnoxious.

 

[Acid08]

Ok great, but I can't think of a damn user name.

UpInThemGuts

 

[The Elite]

Ok great, but I can't think of a damn user name.

Ether_Snake

 

[Barrage]

Ok great, but I can't think of a damn user name.

NookieMonster.

Nah, don't overthink it. Do you have any nicknames?

 

[Joel Was Right]

so why do you keep giving advice here?

Because sometimes I feel i have something to contribute

 

[Ether_Snake]

Ether_Snake

Solid_Snake

he he he

NookieMonster.

Nah, don't overthink it. Do you have any nicknames?

No.

 

[jamesinclair]

turtle and hare

buying her gifts

admitting defeat beforehand

god you are the worst

Im not admitting defeat at all. Look at the message I quoted. I expect things will go very well.

And it's not a romantic gift. Do you people not realize christmas is a few days away...? Stop being a bunch of scrooges and spread the present love.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Yeah, because women are gonna want to fuck you when you get boners over holding hands.

Depends on the size of the bulge.

That comment was made in jest of course though. Sometimes it's impossible to control your bodies reactions. If you get nervous about it, you'll only make it worse. It'll either lessen over time, or it will be with you forever. There's probably not much you can do about it.

 

[hydragonwarrior]

So last night I see a gal I know at the dance club. As she was moving to the dance floor with her friend, I tapped her and said "hey jaz!" (i was on her pathway) to get her attention - she stopped and here's what happened: her face was raised towards me, but her eyes weren't actually looking at me the whole time. I said hi twice, but nothing. Then she kept moving on.

I think she just pretended I wasn't there. I was completely ignored when I was dead on, in frnot of her, just saying hi.

I have to say, that just ruined my night. I know this girl and we've talked a lot in the past week (have her number and everything). Was surprised to see her at this club even. But this kind of brush off from someone just pisses me off - this felt way more hurtful then any kind of rejection could.

Alright, maybe she actually didn't see me despite being within arms length? Or maybe I didn't shout loud enough even though I was right in front of her... But even then, you don't just outright ignore someone you know when they say hi RIGHT in front of you. It's so fucking rude and disrespectful.

I'm not as upset as i was last night, but am I wrong to feel angry? Or not even that - I just FEEL angry and I want to know if this shit has happened to anyone?

 

[Joel Was Right]

So last night I see a gal I know at the dance club. As she was moving to the dance floor with her friend, I tapped her and said "hey jaz!" (i was on her pathway) to get her attention - she stopped and here's what happened: her face was raised towards me, but her eyes weren't actually looking at me the whole time. I said hi twice, but nothing. Then she kept moving on.

I think she just pretended I wasn't there. I was completely ignored when I was dead on, in frnot of her, just saying hi.

I have to say, that just ruined my night. I know this girl and we've talked a lot in the past week (have her number and everything). Was surprised to see her at this club even. But this kind of brush off from someone just pisses me off - this felt way more hurtful then any kind of rejection could.

Alright, maybe she actually didn't see me despite being within arms length? Or maybe I didn't shout loud enough even though I was right in front of her... But even then, you don't just outright ignore someone you know when they say hi RIGHT in front of you. It's so fucking rude and disrespectful.

I'm not as upset as i was last night, but am I wrong to feel angry? Or not even that - I just FEEL angry and I want to know if this shit has happened to anyone?

Would it be wrong to text her 'what happened last night?'. That brush off made no sense whatsoever

 

[Loki]

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[kuYuri]

I forgot to add some more context to my post.

Yes the grinding is from dancing. I was at a club for my brother's birthday and we ran into some friends of his (who are girls). Anyway, I got a little tipsy/drunk and started "dancing" (lol), which is something I don't really do. One of those girls started grinding on me which I'd never had done on me before and within a couple of minutes, I got a boner. I started to feel kind of embarrassed since I didn't know her that well and for getting one, so I started to back off.

So I should have just continued to let her grind me despite the boner?

Either way, thanks for the quick advice.

 

[Dragon]

Guys need advice.

Had a date last night and we totally hit it off. She comes back to my place we fool around. She tells me that she loves sex and needs to have it all the time. Only problem I'm a virgin and don't know what to do :lol . She was on her period so we didn't do anything.

So GAF do I tell her or just fumble my way around?

 

[Barrage]

I forgot to add some more context to my post.

Yes the grinding is from dancing. I was at a club for my brother's birthday and we ran into some friends of his (who are girls). Anyway, I got a little tipsy/drunk and started "dancing" (lol), which is something I don't really do. One of those girls started grinding on me which I'd never had done on me before and within a couple of minutes, I got a boner. I started to feel kind of embarrassed since I didn't know her that well and started to back off.

So I should have just continued to let her grind me despite the boner?

Thanks for the quick advice.

:lol Dude, you are not gonna know girls you grind with at clubs that well at all. You need to know her favourite colour before you can pop a boner? Let that chubby run free like at a chocolate factory. Seriously.

Guys need advice.

Had a date last night and we totally hit it off. She comes back to my place we fool around. She tells me that she loves sex and needs to have it all the time. Only problem I'm a virgin and don't know what to do . She was on her period so we didn't do anything.

So GAF do I tell her or just fumble my way around?

FUMBLE YOUNG MAN FUMBLE!

Nah seriously, do not sweat it dude. If you're in missionary and don't want to try to thread the needle yourself, take her hand and put it on your dick, and shé'll help you out. You can do that for any position. If you're both turned on, she'll just want to get the show on the road. Then let instinct take over.

 

[DualShadow]

Guys need advice.

Had a date last night and we totally hit it off. She comes back to my place we fool around. She tells me that she loves sex and needs to have it all the time. Only problem I'm a virgin and don't know what to do :lol . She was on her period so we didn't do anything.

So GAF do I tell her or just fumble my way around?

How old are you and how old is she?

If you think she will be cool with it then you could maybe tell her.

 

[Dragon]

Yeah I was thinking of fumbling...I'm 28 and so is she.

 

[sooperkool]

Yeah I was thinking of fumbling...I'm 28 and so is she.

Fumble a bit and then tell her, she's 28 so she should be flattered. You might even learn a thing or two.

 

[Ether_Snake]

There's no point in telling her really, it won't magically make things better. If you're not good and she likes sex she's gonna take control to make it good anyway.

Be more on the aggressive side as soon as you manage to get your dick inside. That way, if you're not doing really well at least she knows you really are hungry for sex too. Spank that ass and plunge your hand into her hair and hold her head back. If she's energetic she's gonna go on top when you're exhausted to let you catch your breath. Rinse repeat.

 

[jon bones]

Would it be wrong to text her 'what happened last night?'. That brush off made no sense whatsoever

surprise! more terrible advice

forget her, just put her on ice for 2 weeks and then maybe if you're bored text her something clever and random... rejection happens, take it in stride and just move on to the next one

 

[Dragon]

Thanks guys we'll see what happens. Appreciate the advice.

 

[The Elite]

After not dating anyone for about two years, I just went on a coffee date with a very cute girl. I plan to see her again after the holidays. I honestly wasn't expecting much. I just wanted to go on a date for the sake of going on a date. Seems like I've still got the magic though.

I think she may have been expecting a kiss (possibly on the cheek) but I balked and we just hugged. That might have been a misstep. Not going to second guess myself though and I don't plan to exclusively date her either. I just need to get back into the rhythm.

 

[Shawsie64]

Well date Friday night was an idiot, bailing out now nice and early Went to a party with her and the people there were absolute druggies.. anyone who hangs around those types is an idiot.

Also a woman who I was pursuing a few months ago who didnt respond to my texts or give me any play looked for me and added me on facebook yesterday..

Only after I completely ignored her for a month and through a coincidence and mutual friend she happened to come to my house..

After her seeing its a nice place and Iv got an expensive car THEN she wants to talk :lol

She can get fucked.

 

[DualShadow]

After not dating anyone for about two years, I just went on a coffee date with a very cute girl. I plan to see her again after the holidays. I honestly wasn't expecting much. I just wanted to go on a date for the sake of going on a date. Seems like I've still got the magic though.

I think she may have been expecting a kiss (possibly on the cheek) but I balked and we just hugged. That might have been a misstep. Not going to second guess myself though and I don't plan to exclusively date her either. I just need to get back into the rhythm.

DoctorWho
BOSS

Well date Friday night was an idiot, bailing out now nice and early

Also a woman who I was pursuing a few months ago who didnt respond to my texts or give me any play looked for me and added me on facebook yesterday..

Only after I completely ignored her for a month and through a coincidence and mutual friend she happened to come to my house..

After her seeing its a nice place and Iv got an expensive car THEN she wants to talk :lol

She can get fucked.

Like a boss :lol

Nicely played gentlemen.

 

[SmokeMaxX]

Yeah, seriously:
Fuck third wheels. Fucking cockblock POSs. kjihwigthaiughafjakfjhiewahguiahgkahjf;kadhgughuvhaikgfh;afhjdasfjkd;agjkahgahf;

 

[Ether_Snake]

Well date Friday night was an idiot, bailing out now nice and early Went to a party with her and the people there were absolute druggies.. anyone who hangs around those types is an idiot.

Also a woman who I was pursuing a few months ago who didnt respond to my texts or give me any play looked for me and added me on facebook yesterday..

Only after I completely ignored her for a month and through a coincidence and mutual friend she happened to come to my house..

After her seeing its a nice place and Iv got an expensive car THEN she wants to talk :lol

She can get fucked.

Good move.

 

[DualShadow]

Yeah, seriously:
Fuck third wheels. Fucking cockblock POSs. kjihwigthaiughafjakfjhiewahguiahgkahjf;kadhgughuvhaikgfh;afhjdasfjkd;agjkahgahf;

Need an explanation, sounds like an interesting story :lol

Spoiler

Paint picture for extra points

 

[Shawsie64]

Yeah im sick of women like that, been a bad year for me.. gotta stop dating/pursuing superficial females.

 

[george21000]

Decide to try OKC, shocked and proud I actually did to be honest. Followed advice in thread on how to create profile but now I'm at a lost on how to message my matches. how to differentiate myself from everyone else there...

 

[Miguel]

Did anyone ever end up linking their OKC profiles? I'll be the first sacrificial lamb if no one else wants to go first.

Not like I haven't had my pics photoshopped here before :lol (LastoftheMessicans.jpg)

 

[jas0nuk]

Got a girl's number (first time ever, in that context anyway, :lol) but everyone's now gone home for Xmas... will see what happens after exams (6 weeks away)

Next semester I'm going to seriously get my shit together.

 

[SephCast]

Got a girl's number (first time ever, in that context anyway, :lol) but everyone's now gone home for Xmas... will see what happens after exams (6 weeks away)

Next semester I'm going to seriously get my shit together.

Text a little bit to keep the oven pre-heated.

 

[-PXG-]

Text a little bit to keep the oven pre-heated.

This. Don't leave anything to chance. Take initiative.

 

[CommieCaptorS]

for those GAFfers who feel their charm could do with a bit of practice
http://arianeb.com/dateariane/default.htm

 

[SRG01]

So... I think this is the first year in a few years that I haven't had a "romantic interest" in play during Christmas. Not sure if it's a good thing or not, considering that I may need a break of some sort.

 

[José Mourinho]

for those GAFfers who feel their charm could do with a bit of practice
http://arianeb.com/dateariane/default.htm

Bitch complained when I tried to Kiss her and then when I tried to feel her up! There were no other options! :lol

 

[Ether_Snake]

for those GAFfers who feel their charm could do with a bit of practice
http://arianeb.com/dateariane/default.htm

That's bullshit.

1- Say something funny. She laughs.
2- Immediately compliment her about her clothes. She says "You're sweet! Thank you! How about a kiss?"

No girl would say that!

Bitch complained when I tried to Kiss her and then when I tried to feel her up! There were no other options! :lol

You had to kiss her cheek!

Anyway I ended up making out with her in the backyard tub but then she said it wasn't her thing. I didn't see an option to get out.

 

[jas0nuk]

Text a little bit to keep the oven pre-heated.

Good idea sir! Will do.

 

[CommieCaptorS]

okay the initial bit is a bit off, (where it checks whether you're over 18 or not) but past that it's surprisingly deep. Took the gal to a freaking art gallery. Didn't get any in the end, mind

 

[-PXG-]

for those GAFfers who feel their charm could do with a bit of practice
http://arianeb.com/dateariane/default.htm

Oops. Got her drunk :lol

 

[Relix]

Hey, I am starting to like the girl I date before. We've gone out like 3 times now and she's just too fucking cool and easy going. Plus.. she's smart. Really, surprisingly smart. I might just make a move for something else down the road, but I am pleasantly surprised. She's beautiful too