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[soultron]

Depends. If you just want to bang her tonight and never see her again, then you might as well just ask her back to yours. If she reacts in horror, throws a drink in your face and runs off crying then it was never going to happen anyway.

But if you want to actually date her, then there's probably no real harm in not taking her home right now. You'll have plenty of opportunity for that later anyway. If she really wants to come home with you, it'll probably end up happening anyway. You'll know when to ask because you'll both be all over each other.

In your case on NYE, she was NEVER, EVER going to abandon her friend. Her friend took her out of the mood and she was never coming back. I wouldn't take it personally. Events just sometimes transpire against you.

Makes sense. Thanks for the response.

Yeah, I wasn't torn up about it. Just really the first time I've wanted to and actually felt like it could've happened. I joked around with her and had a good time at breakfast.

Don't really feel like dating her. My friends keep telling me that she's not the dating type either which is why they want me to hook up with her. (they just want me to buy them pizza.) I don't really need them egging me on though. Girl used to be a dancer so that's all the convincing I need.

 

[Burai]

I was in a similar situation a few years back. I met this girl, we just clicked, danced all night, I asked her back, she agreed, we walked out into the street to get a cab, she spots her ex in the queue to get in, they argue for about 10 minutes, then she starts crying and ends up kissing him and I'm getting a cab back home by myself.

Sometimes shit just happens. :lol

 

[soultron]

Haha. I hear you. Still, thanks for the advice. I'll try to gauge the situation appropriately and choose which approach works best, like you said.

 

[Bleepey]

I texted and called the hot mxied race girl, she has not returned my call. Ahh well time to remove the number and move on.

 

[hellclerk]

I texted and called the hot mxied race girl, she has not returned my call. Ahh well time to remove the number and move on.

Eh, give it another few days. You shouldn't call her again, but give her some time to think about it/get back to you. Alternately, keep it around and give her a call in a few weeks to see a movie/show that everyone else may or may not have bailed on you over, though to be honest, I've never tried this one...

 

[MarkMan]

With the girls that regularly show up in photos in your thread, I seriously hope you're not complaining. It almost seems like you are.:lol

It's probably a mix of what burai said, and simply that after a little while of avoiding love, you're now sending out vibes that you're back in the game again or something like that.

I'm not complaining about the girls (well, not that much), but you can tell some of them are young and all the other negative stuff that goes with young. lol. I had to grow up fast.

It still works for you though. Women value maturity no matter what their age. You probably won't get past fooling around, but you seem happy enough with that! :lol

I have yet to find one that I'd like to marry without worry, but that is why we keep searching.

 

[Mangoverboard]

Your friends sound like dicks!

Keep us posted.

Yeah :/ I said it to one of them and he agreed they were really going too far. Like I said, I don't mind, but it obviously bothered her.

Anyway, I was talking to her earlier and casually asked if she'd like to meet up during the week. She said she'd like to but would have to see depending on her work. Seems fair enough. She works in a chinese restaurant and said she should definitely be free around wednesday/thursday.

So I'm just texting her now and I'm mentioning how some buds (different ones) are trying to get me out tonight for a few drinks. So she replied that she was tempted to go out as well. So I asked if she'd like to come with us. That was bout 10 minutes ago and no reply yet. She is at work though and could possibly be texting her friends to come out too.

I think things are looking good haha.

 

[JasoNsider]

Some people fill absence with attention and affection from other places. And while i'm sure some may consider this a sexist generalization, I find that many girls have the emotional attention span of an infant when they are in their early 20's and below. They are like emotional leeches and not having a constant source to feed on will make them find a new source to suck off (hehe). It's not true with every female and im sure some people dont agree but I have found that it has applied in my life more often than not and that almost every girl I've dated who was in her early 20's or younger (and a few that were older as well) were like a puppy who wanted to get pet by the first person to pay attention to her or feed her. And if that person started ignoring her and someone else offered to pay attention, she'd go right ahead and run over to him (or her).

To be fair life is way too short to have your romance tied to someone who is not there all that often.

While I'd normally agree about it being an age thing, I've found this to even be the case with the person I'm seeing recently and she's 32 years old. In general it's probably just a personality thing on both ends here. Otherwise you've essentially nailed exactly what the symptoms are there.

I was in a similar situation a few years back. I met this girl, we just clicked, danced all night, I asked her back, she agreed, we walked out into the street to get a cab, she spots her ex in the queue to get in, they argue for about 10 minutes, then she starts crying and ends up kissing him and I'm getting a cab back home by myself.

Sometimes shit just happens. :lol

WTF!? This sounds straight out of a romantic comedy movie or something :lol. Damn, life is just simply ridiculous sometimes.

 

[PoliceCop]

When dealing with chafed penis, how does one know whether to moisturize or dry with a product such as Gold Bond Healing Ultimate Powder?

 

[hellclerk]

When dealing with chafed penis, how does one know whether to moisturize or dry with a product such as Gold Bond Healing Ultimate Powder?

Just put some in your hand, rub it in after a shower, and let it be.

 

[Danj]

Since people have been recommending it in this thread, I went and created myself an OkCupid profile. There's still a couple of sections that I'm not sure what to put in yet, but I like very much that their Match Questions mostly seem to be questions that I can actually answer. That's always been one of the major problems I've spotted when I've looked at other online dating sites - I've never dated or had a relationship before so there's a lot of questions I don't know the answer to.

Just out of curiosity, of people who've met/dated people on OkCupid, what sort of match percentage did they have with you and how well did you get on with them? Because the highest I'm seeing seems to be like 70% or so... is that good?

 

[Burai]

WTF!? This sounds straight out of a romantic comedy movie or something :lol. Damn, life is just simply ridiculous sometimes.

That's not even the best story I have of that nature... This one time a girl I was seeing got me to pay for a taxi with her into town where she met some other guy she was seeing and told me to go fuck myself or else he'd beat me up. The whole thing was pre-planned by her.

The best thing was that he was so shocked by what happened that he ran after me as I was going to the bus stop and apologised and offered to buy me a beer to make up for what a bitch she'd been. She had to phone her father to come pick her up from town after we both abandoned her. The other date and I are good friends now.

But that's dating for you. If you do enough of it, you meet the worst the female race has to offer.

 

[The Elite]

Despite having a great time, the second girl I met from okCupid isn't interested in a second date. I was a bit surprised. She really seemed to enjoy herself. Oh well. I think I'm going to take a couple of days before looking for someone else. I also have to work on meeting people IRL.

Since people have been recommending it in this thread, I went and created myself an OkCupid profile. There's still a couple of sections that I'm not sure what to put in yet, but I like very much that their Match Questions mostly seem to be questions that I can actually answer. That's always been one of the major problems I've spotted when I've looked at other online dating sites - I've never dated or had a relationship before so there's a lot of questions I don't know the answer to.

Just out of curiosity, of people who've met/dated people on OkCupid, what sort of match percentage did they have with you and how well did you get on with them? Because the highest I'm seeing seems to be like 70% or so... is that good?

Make sure to answer a lot more questions. My highest match percentage is apparently 99% but I've never met anyone higher than 95%. I've got along with the women I've met with just fine (only met a couple and I started in December) but neither has developed until anything more yet. But, considering I started about a week into December, having two dates isn't a terrible start. Especially over the holidays.

EDIT: I'm a 79% match with you.

That's not even the best story I have of that nature... This one time a girl I was seeing got me to pay for a taxi with her into town where she met some other guy she was seeing and told me to go fuck myself or else he'd beat me up. The whole thing was pre-planned by her.

The best thing was that he was so shocked by what happened that he ran after me as I was going to the bus stop and apologised and offered to buy me a beer to make up for what a bitch she'd been. She had to phone her father to come pick her up from town after we both abandoned her. The other date and I are good friends now.

But that's dating for you. If you do enough of it, you meet the worst the female race has to offer.

Crazy story. :lol

 

[hellclerk]

Despite having a great time, the second girl I met from okCupid isn't interested in a second date. I was a bit surprised. She really seemed to enjoy herself. Oh well. I think I'm going to take a couple of days before looking for someone else. I also have to work on meeting people IRL.

Yeah, well that's online dating for ya. My guess is that she has some other guy she likes better or something. I was talking with a girl over aim last night, she dropped off due to connection issues or something, got back to me when I wasn't paying attention and hasn't answered any messages since. Cute Orthodox chick though, hope she doesn't keep it up.

 

[Xun]

Alright guys, my friend had organised a date for tomorrow but he's now unable to do so due to relatives coming over. What's the best way to tell a girl and relocate it?

 

[JasoNsider]

That's not even the best story I have of that nature... This one time a girl I was seeing got me to pay for a taxi with her into town where she met some other guy she was seeing and told me to go fuck myself or else he'd beat me up. The whole thing was pre-planned by her.

The best thing was that he was so shocked by what happened that he ran after me as I was going to the bus stop and apologised and offered to buy me a beer to make up for what a bitch she'd been. She had to phone her father to come pick her up from town after we both abandoned her. The other date and I are good friends now.

But that's dating for you. If you do enough of it, you meet the worst the female race has to offer.

Wow, these are some intense stories. What kind of human being pre-plans something like that? What did you do to her, exactly? Haha! Gotta say - absolutely amazing that the guy just said "nuh-uh, fuck this" and went to you instead. That's an amazing test of character right there.

 

[Eggo]

So I have a question. I was at a place tonight and there was this fairly hot girl. However, it seemed she was with a guy. For most of the night I was 50/50 on if he was a boyfriend/husband or not(note: The place I was at seemed to be FULL of couples). So what's the go with something like that? Go in anyway and see how it turns out?

Oh and for the record. She was single and the guy was just a friend. Yeah, kinda blew that one.

This is fundamentals. You talk to them. "So how do you two know each other?". Ideally, you talk to the guy and befriend him first. If he is just a friend, you'll need his approval before spending time alone with her. If he's a boyfriend, he can introduce you to someone else if he considers you cool. If you try talking to the girl while ignoring her friend(s), you're setting yourself up for failure.

 

[hydragonwarrior]

She had to phone her father to come pick her up from town after we both abandoned her.

Bitch got what she deserved - good call.

 

[Burai]

Wow, these are some intense stories. What kind of human being pre-plans something like that? What did you do to her, exactly? Haha! Gotta say - absolutely amazing that the guy just said "nuh-uh, fuck this" and went to you instead. That's an amazing test of character right there.

Some people are just shits. She saw me as someone she could exploit and didn't think she'd get called out for it. She thought her shit didn't stink and that he'd appreciate the gesture. He didn't. She's probably done it before and gotten away with it.

And that's why it pays to date as much as possible. It gives you perspective. Back in my early 20's when I was rarely dating, I'd have taken that incredibly personally, wondered what the hell I'd done wrong and sobbed about it like those guys currently crying about gold diggers who want assholes in the photo thread.

 

[Otheradam]

OK, so I really don't know what to do with this one. Here is an abridged version-

Towards the end of summer 2 of my coworkers (1 male, 1 female, you know where this is going) and I started hanging out a lot. The girl came back from a trip and had broken up with her BF. Like a day after that my male coworker, lets call him Bob, slept with the female (Jen).

Bob had slept/fooled around with 3 other girls from work before- we work at a retail clothing store with semi-high turnover and good looking girls. He's the kind of guy that acts like a fool when he gets drunk and says a lot of nothing, and the girls eat it up. I am not like that and don't have it in me to keep trying to "1-up" him. I mean, I can hold my own but i don't care enough to try to outdo him. Anyway, so Bob is sleeping with Jen and but at the same time, we all became really good friends over the course of a few weeks. I think I had started to develop feelings for her but not enough to do anything about it since she was sleeping with Bob. At the same time this is happening Jen would always ask me to hang out, sometimes alone and we get along great. I'm a good cook and have made some meals for us on the fly, not planned. She's into it. In Sept, she went abroad to go to school. We talked over skype once and sometimes on FB chat.

She came back last week and Bob had a party. Jen came over to my place early to catch up and then we head to Bobs. At the end of the night, everyone leaves and Jen stayed. That's when I realized I sorta of have feelings for her, or just want to sleep with her. This entire week I have been ignoring her. She txt me at the beginning of the week to hang out and I never responded, turns out she went over to Bob's that night.

Today she txted me asking when I am free next week to have dinner. She really wants me to make her dinner and has said so before. But now I want to sleep with her and I don't think she feels the same way. She's getting her sexual needs from Bob and then comes to me for emotional needs- thats the way I see it. I don't know what to do, she is going back abroad in 2 weeks and I can either just ignore her to the best of my abilities until she leaves or tell her...something.

 

[Aesius]

OK, so I really don't know what to do with this one. Here is an abridged version-

Towards the end of summer 2 of my coworkers (1 male, 1 female, you know where this is going) and I started hanging out a lot. The girl came back from a trip and had broken up with her BF. Like a day after that my male coworker, lets call him Bob, slept with the female (Jen).

Bob had slept/fooled around with 3 other girls from work before- we work at a retail clothing store with semi-high turnover and good looking girls. He's the kind of guy that acts like a fool when he gets drunk and says a lot of nothing, and the girls eat it up. I am not like that and don't have it in me to keep trying to "1-up" him. I mean, I can hold my own but i don't care enough to try to outdo him. Anyway, so Bob is sleeping with Jen and but at the same time, we all became really good friends over the course of a few weeks. I think I had started to develop feelings for her but not enough to do anything about it since she was sleeping with Bob. At the same time this is happening Jen would always ask me to hang out, sometimes alone and we get along great. I'm a good cook and have made some meals for us on the fly, not planned. She's into it. In Sept, she went abroad to go to school. We talked over skype once and sometimes on FB chat.

She came back last week and Bob had a party. Jen came over to my place early to catch up and then we head to Bobs. At the end of the night, everyone leaves and Jen stayed. That's when I realized I sorta of have feelings for her, or just want to sleep with her. This entire week I have been ignoring her. She txt me at the beginning of the week to hang out and I never responded, turns out she went over to Bob's that night.

Today she txted me asking when I am free next week to have dinner. She really wants me to make her dinner and has said so before. But now I want to sleep with her and I don't think she feels the same way. She's getting her sexual needs from Bob and then comes to me for emotional needs- thats the way I see it. I don't know what to do, she is going back abroad in 2 weeks and I can either just ignore her to the best of my abilities until she leaves or tell her...something.

This girl will never, ever have sex with you. Ignore her.

 

[siddx]

She's getting her sexual needs from Bob and then comes to me for emotional needs- thats the way I see it. I don't know what to do, she is going back abroad in 2 weeks and I can either just ignore her to the best of my abilities until she leaves or tell her...something.

Yes. Correct.
There are some instances where certain girls will sleep with you once or twice to keep you around as the emotional garbage dump if they feel its the only way to keep you in the game, but far more often they will just seek out someone else.

 

[Burai]

This girl will never, ever have sex with you. Ignore her.

Don't ignore her if you can help it. Stay friends and go into it that you'll only ever be friends. If she changes her mind later on you'll be in the pound seats. If not, you have a friend. And don't forget that friends have friends too. Some of the best girls out there are friends of friends. So many girls I've dated have been friends that failed dates have recommended me to because I'm "a very sweet and nice guy but not what I'm looking for". You'll come highly recommended based on your story.

Just don't pine and obsess. See other girls too. Having other female attention will make her jealous and if it doesn't, you've lost nothing because you're dating other people anyway.

 

[siddx]

Don't ignore her if you can help it. Stay friends and go into it that you'll only ever be friends. If she changes her mind later on you'll be in the pound seats. If not, you have a friend. And don't forget that friends have friends too. Some of the best girls out there are friends of friends. So many girls I've dated have been friends that failed dates have recommended me to because I'm a very sweet and nice guy but not what they are looking for. You'll come highly recommended based on your story.

Just don't pine and obsess. See other girls too. Having other female attention will make her jealous and if it doesn't, you've lost nothing because you're dating other people anyway.

Well it depends on what he wants. If he can't handle being around her while bob is stuffing her full of his meat rocket he should bail before he makes an ass out of himself. If he CAN handle it, yeah, stick around and chat up some of her female friends.

 

[The Elite]

Some people are just shits. She saw me as someone she could exploit and didn't think she'd get called out for it. She thought her shit didn't stink and that he'd appreciate the gesture. He didn't. She's probably done it before and gotten away with it.

And that's why it pays to date as much as possible. It gives you perspective. Back in my early 20's when I was rarely dating, I'd have taken that incredibly personally, wondered what the hell I'd done wrong and sobbed about it like those guys currently crying about gold diggers who want assholes in the photo thread.

Good way of looking at it #4.

 

[Berkoff]

Gaf consensus needed on a tired old question....

I started seeing somebody who is 19 nearly 20, but im 24... Is that too weird? She's in her second year at uni and i just graduated a few months ago (i went quite late). So on those terms our lives aren't really that far apart. Every now and then i suddenly feel.. wrong :lol

halp.

 

[The Elite]

Gaf consensus needed on a tired old question....

I started seeing somebody who is 19 nearly 20, but im 24... Is that too weird? She's in her second year at uni and i just graduated a few months ago (i went quite late). So on those terms our lives aren't really that far apart. Every now and then i suddenly feel.. wrong :lol

halp.

Nah. Go for it.

 

[RefigeKru]

I've come to the conclusion that I'll never have any sexual interaction again.

3 reasons for this;

1) I don't attract girls, I attract guys. I'm not sexually attracted to males so naturally this is a problem.

2) The girls I do manage to attract are typically going out with one of my friends or just in a relationship, I've been a bad person twice in my life and succumb to these girls. I've been cheated on and I know how much it hurts, as I was the one who was single I thought I'd be guilt-free but it's a terrible fucking thing to do, and currently the only girl/s with interest in me are in relationships.

3) I'm great with social interaction; I'm most comfortable with my friends, over family or being alone, I'm a very social person BUT I'm not an outgoing person. Basically I'm shy. Being shy means that unless I'm incredibly fucked I won't make a move on a girl. I also don't know if a girl likes me.

I've been told that I'm too nice, I won't go for what I want and that I'll let people do as they please.

Fuck 'em.

 

[soultron]

Gaf consensus needed on a tired old question....

I started seeing somebody who is 19 nearly 20, but im 24... Is that too weird? She's in her second year at uni and i just graduated a few months ago (i went quite late). So on those terms our lives aren't really that far apart. Every now and then i suddenly feel.. wrong :lol

halp.

Nothing wrong with that. Just be ready for some crazy sex and a girl who might not yet know what she wants in life, relationship, or both! (She very well might be "grown up" and have herself figured out, but that'd be like winning the lottery with a girl of her age.)

Strap in and enjoy the ride!

 

[soultron]

Refige, you seem like a cool guy with good looks. Use that to your advantage. Don't hinge on us or anyone else telling you that in order to take action, though.

You just have to try to get out of your skin a little bit. I used to be a really shy guy in the beginning of high school, so I know how it can be. But now, at 22, I'd kick the shit out of younger me for not realizing how easy things can be.

Just start chatting up girls. Make it a mission to ask for 1 number a month, perhaps. (That's not that bad, right?) If you talk to enough girls in a month, chances are there will be a few situations where you feel good enough to ask for the number.

The key thing is just to try. Make small steps if you have to, like I mentioned above.

It takes time. I'm still learning.

 

[JasoNsider]

Some people are just shits. She saw me as someone she could exploit and didn't think she'd get called out for it. She thought her shit didn't stink and that he'd appreciate the gesture. He didn't. She's probably done it before and gotten away with it.

And that's why it pays to date as much as possible. It gives you perspective. Back in my early 20's when I was rarely dating, I'd have taken that incredibly personally, wondered what the hell I'd done wrong and sobbed about it like those guys currently crying about gold diggers who want assholes in the photo thread.

Excellent views here. Definitely agree on all accounts. It even works the other way too, in that you know a really GOOD quality when you see it. Go through enough relationships with people who never admit their wrong, for instance, and you'll immediately recognize that quality in someone the moment they fess-up in a budding relationship.

 

[jamesinclair]

Gaf consensus needed on a tired old question....

I started seeing somebody who is 19 nearly 20, but im 24... Is that too weird? She's in her second year at uni and i just graduated a few months ago (i went quite late). So on those terms our lives aren't really that far apart. Every now and then i suddenly feel.. wrong :lol

halp.

Weird?

That should be your goal in life.

Doesnt matter if youre 23, 29, 41 or 57....

Always date 19 year olds.

 

[JasoNsider]

I've come to the conclusion that I'll never have any sexual interaction again.

3 reasons for this;

1) I don't attract girls, I attract guys. I'm not sexually attracted to males so naturally this is a problem.

2) The girls I do manage to attract are typically going out with one of my friends or just in a relationship, I've been a bad person twice in my life and succumb to these girls. I've been cheated on and I know how much it hurts, as I was the one who was single I thought I'd be guilt-free but it's a terrible fucking thing to do, and currently the only girl/s with interest in me are in relationships.

3) I'm great with social interaction; I'm most comfortable with my friends, over family or being alone, I'm a very social person BUT I'm not an outgoing person. Basically I'm shy. Being shy means that unless I'm incredibly fucked I won't make a move on a girl. I also don't know if a girl likes me.

I've been told that I'm too nice, I won't go for what I want and that I'll let people do as they please.

Fuck 'em.

This sounds way out in left field but it works for you and works for ALL those who have trouble meeting new people in social scenarios that aren't drunk off their ass - Go to dance lessons. There's a local swing dancing lesson here and I went there to get over my fear of dancing and let me tell you...girls absolutely notice a guy brave enough to go out and look like a fool (just like them) in order to be their partner. You'll meet tons of new girls in one night and even have exclusive 4 minutes of talk-time with them while dancing if you happen to hit it off.

Cannot recommend that enough. I met my girlfriend there and the place was absolutely packed to the rafters with single girls out to have fun and maybe meet guys like you.

 

[Otheradam]

Well it depends on what he wants. If he can't handle being around her while bob is stuffing her full of his meat rocket he should bail before he makes an ass out of himself. If he CAN handle it, yeah, stick around and chat up some of her female friends.

My mantra going into this year is "I don't need anymore friends that are girls". I have a great social circle and a ton of friends that are girls. I don't need anymore. The other thing is that there is like a 8 year age difference between us. I'm not looking for a serious relationship with her, I know it wouldn't work. I guess I'll try not to do anything and try to ignore her til she goes back abroad.

 

[woodchuck]

Weird?

That should be your goal in life.

Doesnt matter if youre 23, 29, 41 or 57....

Always date 19 year olds.

:lol so true

 

[Aesius]

Ended up staying the night at this girl's house for NYE. She played with my weiner, and I played with/sucked on her spectacular breastses. Her body is absolutely amazing.

We're supposed to hang out again tomorrow. Wish me luck GAF. I may finally end my 7 month dry spell.

 

[woodchuck]

Ended up staying the night at this girl's house for NYE. She played with my weiner, and I played with/sucked on her spectacular breastses. Her body is absolutely amazing.

We're supposed to hang out again tomorrow. Wish me luck GAF. I may finally end my 7 month dry spell.

wtf. how did you not end your dryspell NYE after sucking on her tits and her playing with your dick

 

[JasoNsider]

Ended up staying the night at this girl's house for NYE. She played with my weiner, and I played with/sucked on her spectacular breastses. Her body is absolutely amazing.

We're supposed to hang out again tomorrow. Wish me luck GAF. I may finally end my 7 month dry spell.

I mean absolutely zero disrespect when I say I always laugh at posts like this. See, to me, that IS already the golden fields! Haha! If I was just making out or doing a tiny bit of fooling around with a girl I really like, it could go on for hours and not care if it goes further.

That being said, both girls I'm with are supremely good kissers... hmmm!

Side note: I'm actually in a poly relationship so I'm with two girls... I should post the pictures of the other girl in the picture thread some time. The funny thing is I invited them BOTH to the office christmas party but one of them had to bail. In my head the line "you only live once" kept repeating over and over Anybody else in poly relationships here? Curious to see what other people's experiences are...and of course more than happy to share my limited experience if anybody's curious!

 

[Aesius]

wtf. how did you not end your dryspell NYE after sucking on her tits and her playing with your dick

She wouldn't let me go any further.

 

[Berkoff]

Weird?

That should be your goal in life.

Doesnt matter if youre 23, 29, 41 or 57....

Always date 19 year olds.

:lol

I think i feel strange wondering what my ex would think of it. She was my age so if she found out i was dating a 19 year old she would probably think it was a pretty scummy move. She's now dating a 28 year old though... so thats the same age difference but in the other direction.

I should probably just stop imagining what my ex would think anyway.

 

[Xun]

Would anyone mind looking at my OkCupid profile and giving me advice? PM me and I'll send it to you.

It would be greatly appreciated!

 

[siddx]

Never date 19 year olds.

They have too much energy but not enough technique in bed
They whine and bitch and moan constantly
They are flaky as fuck
They are dumb as fuck
They are boring as fuck
They can't hold a conversation unless its about the most meaningless trivial bullshit in the world like juicy fucking couture or the latest lady gaga song
What they are doing, thinking, feeling, knowing, learning, being, and wanting changes on a second to second basis in such drastic ways that it's like dating a mental patient with multiple personality disorder.

Fuck them if you can only because I believe in having a wide range of sexual experiences but never ever ever date one.

 

[Mr.Squirrel]

So I kinda fucked shit it with this older broad I met. I didn't care when I kept her out my crib on NYE, but I kinda miss her now I think. She was the first girl I actually LIKED in years. Only problem is she has a kid 6 years younger than me, is 41, and is a super christian and always tells me I need to get saved. But dammit she can suck a dick like a damn porn star. My God on Friday her mouth game was just.......Jesus, that's all i've been thinking about since Friday.

I know I don't want her as a gf, but I wanna have her on my team for at least a couple months. Her hyper sexuality got me fiending like a crackwhore. Ima try to get back in good graces with her. :lol she was pissed as fuck, but I know my game is tight enough to get shorty back.

 

[Bleepey]

The mixed race girl texted me back. It was just the usual i got back alright. Now i just need to see how and if i can develop something with her.

 

[-PXG-]

Got back from my date about an hour ago....Both of us had a genuine, good ass time. Typical movie/ dinner bullshit, but we hit it off. Tons of kino and physical contact going on. We held hands and kissed through out the whole date. We're planning another date later this week. She said she really likes me and definitely feels great chemistry

 

[SRG01]

Weird?

That should be your goal in life.

Doesnt matter if youre 23, 29, 41 or 57....

Always date 19 year olds.

Would I be weird if I disagreed? :lol I can't stand 18-19 year olds... One of them constantly hits on me during dance class and she has a boyfriend.

Never date 19 year olds.

They have too much energy but not enough technique in bed
They whine and bitch and moan constantly
They are flaky as fuck
They are dumb as fuck
They are boring as fuck
They can't hold a conversation unless its about the most meaningless trivial bullshit in the world like juicy fucking couture or the latest lady gaga song
What they are doing, thinking, feeling, knowing, learning, being, and wanting changes on a second to second basis in such drastic ways that it's like dating a mental patient with multiple personality disorder.

Fuck them if you can only because I believe in having a wide range of sexual experiences but never ever ever date one.

hi5

 

[Solideliquid]

So I kinda fucked shit it with this older broad I met. I didn't care when I kept her out my crib on NYE, but I kinda miss her now I think. She was the first girl I actually LIKED in years. Only problem is she has a kid 6 years younger than me, is 41, and is a super christian and always tells me I need to get saved. But dammit she can suck a dick like a damn porn star. My God on Friday her mouth game was just.......Jesus, that's all i've been thinking about since Friday.

I know I don't want her as a gf, but I wanna have her on my team for at least a couple months. Her hyper sexuality got me fiending like a crackwhore. Ima try to get back in good graces with her. :lol she was pissed as fuck, but I know my game is tight enough to get shorty back.

How old are you? What would be a dealbreaker in terms of age difference? 5 years older than you? 10?

Would anyone on here date a girl 10 years older than you?

 

[Solideliquid]

Got back from my date about an hour ago....Both of us had a genuine, good ass time. Typical movie/ dinner bullshit, but we hit it off. Tons of kino and physical contact going on. We held hands and kissed through out the whole date. We're planning another date later this week. She said she really likes me and definitely feels great chemistry

Was this a first date?

 

[Mr.Squirrel]

How old are you? What would be a dealbreaker in terms of age difference? 5 years older than you? 10?

Would anyone on here date a girl 10 years older than you?

She's 41, I'm 28, so 13 years. I don't really care about the age difference personally (as long as she looks good, and shorty looks like she's 25 max). She said she couldn't get over the fact how close in age I was to her daughter. She kept telling me she didn't want to fuck me and that I was too young, then she gave me the greatest compliment I've ever received...she said I talked her out of her panties :lol

Made me feel like King Dingaling

All I know is I will NEVER drink vodka around a girl again. It makes me angry and pissed off for some reason

 

[-PXG-]

Was this a first date?

Mhmmm. Planning the second one for Wednesday or Saturday.