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Girl/Dating Age Part 2: A combined effort to give advice for those in need
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TurboLibre
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siddx said:
Change "love" with "care", does that still deserve a kick to the face?
Bam Bam Baklava
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SephCast said:
Yeah, I do. Seemed pretty accurate for your post.
Tkawsome said:
I care about 95% of the women I slept with. If you are willing to fuck someone, you usually at least care about them. Love comes after a very long time and is very very very very very rare. I firmly believe that majority of "love" is really just lust or like between people. Having love be a pre-requisite to fucking is like saying I need to be able to drive an F1 car before I can drive my own car on the road. You are going to waste so much time trying to fall in love/master the f1 racer, that you may never actually achieve sex/the ability to drive a car.
Tkawsome said:
I know. Its kinda fun in a way, makes things a bit challenging even if the outcome is still the same, but the wait and the stupid moves kinda get boring after a while.
On a sad note a good friend of mine went with his girl and another couple to stay in a hotel. He thought he was finally getting laid. Result? He ended up drinking outside because the other guy scored a threesome. Poor guy :lol
The Shadow
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Relix said:
I honestly can't fathom how something like that could happened. What actions, choices, and things did he say that lead up to that conclusion? GD...
He should be on suicide watch.
JimiNutz
Banned
Relix said:
Holy shit that would scar me for life :lol
So let me get this straight.
He took a girl to a hotel (which is about as obvious as the girl saying 'please bang me').
They get to the hotel and his girl goes off with another couple (who he knows) to have a threesome AND THEY MAKE HIM WAIT OUTSIDE DRINKING BY HIMSELF.
Holy shit.
Game over!!!
I'm pretty thick skinned (I think) but that is as good as rape.
They raped his soul.
Edit:
Honestly I am still shocked by this story.
I have never met the dude but I feel so sorry for him. So sorry the thought alone is making me depressed.
Holy shit.
Next time you see him, tell him NutJobJim is sorry for his loss
:lol :lol :lol
We initially laughed but then we found out he was really depressed. He told us he drank for 6 hours straight until they had to pull him back inside into the room. It will make for a great future drunk story!
And I would also be on suicide-watch. How does that happen I have no freaking idea. Other guy must have been James Bond or some shit because damn :lol
We initially laughed but then we found out he was really depressed. He told us he drank for 6 hours straight until they had to pull him back inside into the room. It will make for a great future drunk story!
And I would also be on suicide-watch. How does that happen I have no freaking idea. Other guy must have been James Bond or some shit because damn :lol
Dear god. I wouldn't know what to do with myself. I would need that sunshine of the spotless mind memory removal shit just to get by after that. NO level of natural memory suppressant would hold that down.
Relix. Get a girl to hit on him, to throw herself at him. Do whatever you have to do - pay her if necessary, goddamn.
Relix. Get a girl to hit on him, to throw herself at him. Do whatever you have to do - pay her if necessary, goddamn.
industrian
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Relix said:
That other guy is either a god amongst men or a major violator of the bro code. Two sides of the same coin.
JimiNutz
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industrian said:
A God among men would have bitch slapped the girl that wanted a threesome and picked up another girl (that wasn't there with his friend) instead.
Seriously, at the very least he should have convinced the two girlies to let his buddy have sloppy seconds :lol
Deep down I know I would have probably gone with the threesome as well, but I would have also tried to hook my friend up afterwards rather than leave him crying into an empty bottle outside by himself on New Years :lol
I really want to know what the hell he did, and how much he fucked up in order to end up where he did. I mean damn son. The other dude could have at least hooked him up with the other girl. It was cold of him to keep that much pussy to himself. At least offer sloppy seconds :lol Holy shit.
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I can only imagine the girl wanted to get laid but wasn't REALLY into him, and then she realized he was already super drunk so she just bailed on him and went with her friend and the dude. She felt safer going with her girl friend, and thought she'd have more fun, than with the drunkard. She must be the kind of girl who isn't really confident so she just followed along until she was like "oh fuck no I really don't want to be with this guy".
Nexus Zero
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Man I was so depressed today about myself that this story has actually made me feel happier. That's like smiling during 9/11.
oddworld18
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*rapid topic change from left field, as ridiculous as that threesome story was*
so, long-term-relationship-GAF/married-GAF:
been dating a girl for two years. it's really great, first serious relationship out of college - for her, too. going strong, definitely. But we're in our mid-20s now, and a lot of our friends are starting to settle down, move in together, etc. it's definitely on our minds, the "what's our future" question. and we're pretty good at talking about things, and so far have seen eye to eye on pretty much everything.
some days i can see it going places. most days, even. but how did you guys get rid of that "but what about all those other girls out there" impulse?
i still carry some baggage about one of my best friends in college, but she and i have both sort of evolved past it and now we really do have just a strong caring friendship. some days though i still wish we had a second chance. does stuff like that ever go away? or do you just sort of learn to deal with it?
i know this isn't par for the course in the dating age threads, but i'm still a junior so i can't start my own quarterlife-crisis-relationship-age post
so, long-term-relationship-GAF/married-GAF:
been dating a girl for two years. it's really great, first serious relationship out of college - for her, too. going strong, definitely. But we're in our mid-20s now, and a lot of our friends are starting to settle down, move in together, etc. it's definitely on our minds, the "what's our future" question. and we're pretty good at talking about things, and so far have seen eye to eye on pretty much everything.
some days i can see it going places. most days, even. but how did you guys get rid of that "but what about all those other girls out there" impulse?
i still carry some baggage about one of my best friends in college, but she and i have both sort of evolved past it and now we really do have just a strong caring friendship. some days though i still wish we had a second chance. does stuff like that ever go away? or do you just sort of learn to deal with it?
i know this isn't par for the course in the dating age threads, but i'm still a junior so i can't start my own quarterlife-crisis-relationship-age post
Sounds like you need to play the field more. Experience life, try other girls, have a threesome. It's hard to settle down when you haven't done that beforehand. You don't want to get trapped in a marriage before you realize you want to go out and be adventuresome but never got the chance.oddworld18 said:*rapid topic change from left field, as ridiculous as that threesome story was*
so, long-term-relationship-GAF/married-GAF:
been dating a girl for two years. it's really great, first serious relationship out of college - for her, too. going strong, definitely. But we're in our mid-20s now, and a lot of our friends are starting to settle down, move in together, etc. it's definitely on our minds, the "what's our future" question. and we're pretty good at talking about things, and so far have seen eye to eye on pretty much everything.
some days i can see it going places. most days, even. but how did you guys get rid of that "but what about all those other girls out there" impulse?
i still carry some baggage about one of my best friends in college, but she and i have both sort of evolved past it and now we really do have just a strong caring friendship. some days though i still wish we had a second chance. does stuff like that ever go away? or do you just sort of learn to deal with it?
i know this isn't par for the course in the dating age threads, but i'm still a junior so i can't start my own quarterlife-crisis-relationship-age post
Aesius
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Shiiiiiiiit.
I think I really did blow it this time with OKCupid girl. She replied to me yesterday (4th message back and forth), and I decided to go balls out and give her my number. One of her "likes" in her profile was texting, so I referenced that in the message.
No response today. She had just asked for my name in the previous message, so maybe I went for it a little too soon. Or maybe some girls just like keeping guys in cyberspace limbo forever, and once the real world enters the picture they bail. Oh well.
On to the next one.
I think I really did blow it this time with OKCupid girl. She replied to me yesterday (4th message back and forth), and I decided to go balls out and give her my number. One of her "likes" in her profile was texting, so I referenced that in the message.
No response today. She had just asked for my name in the previous message, so maybe I went for it a little too soon. Or maybe some girls just like keeping guys in cyberspace limbo forever, and once the real world enters the picture they bail. Oh well.
On to the next one.
Fuck no, fffuuuuuck, I would start rampaging if anyone would remind me of that shit. Fuck that's a horrible story. A horror story you tell at campfires holy fuck. And duh, of course the guy is depressed.Relix said:
C'mon don't leave us hanging man, who was the girl? Was it his GF, fling he picked up? Did he knew the couple well? Details man, details, they matter!
Is this petty?
Girl who fucked me up last year and put me in friend zone who now has a BF but still wants to be friends (were really close) with me keeps showing up in photo memories and posting on my status with her new BF in the display pic.. Thinking about removing her off my friends list, she'd be pretty sad. Should I? or just ride it out until im completely over her? Everytime I think im over her I see a pic or something on facebook that sends me back.
Also I forgot to tell my story on NYE. Got German girl into bed with me but was so drunk passed out, woke up face first on bed vomiting, she by some grace of god sleeps through it while im trying to clean the bed stealth.. she didn't wake up, i had the worst hangover and she made me soup and cleaned my house. Bullet dodged. anyways got dinner with her tonight but she goes back to Germany next week so dont have any expectations.
Girl who fucked me up last year and put me in friend zone who now has a BF but still wants to be friends (were really close) with me keeps showing up in photo memories and posting on my status with her new BF in the display pic.. Thinking about removing her off my friends list, she'd be pretty sad. Should I? or just ride it out until im completely over her? Everytime I think im over her I see a pic or something on facebook that sends me back.
Also I forgot to tell my story on NYE. Got German girl into bed with me but was so drunk passed out, woke up face first on bed vomiting, she by some grace of god sleeps through it while im trying to clean the bed stealth.. she didn't wake up, i had the worst hangover and she made me soup and cleaned my house. Bullet dodged. anyways got dinner with her tonight but she goes back to Germany next week so dont have any expectations.
DualShadow
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Shawsie64 said:
You have to teach her what an "Aussie kiss" is :lol
DualShadow
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Shawsie64 said:
I plan on using it when I travel next month :lol
DualShadow
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Shawsie64 said:
Yeah can understand not wanted to get attached but no harm in some fun before she leaves
Good luck mate.
entremet
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Man, I keep getting friendzoned. Kind of sick of it, honestly. It usually starts like this. This is all texting:
Me: Hey, what's up?
Her: What's up?
Me: Wanna hang out this Saturday?
Her: Sure.
Me: When and where do you want to meet?
Her: Lemme check when I'm out.
Her: We are hanging out as friends, right!
FML
Me: Hey, what's up?
Her: What's up?
Me: Wanna hang out this Saturday?
Her: Sure.
Me: When and where do you want to meet?
Her: Lemme check when I'm out.
Her: We are hanging out as friends, right!
FML
DualShadow
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entrement said:
Maybe try something a bit more forward then "hang out", to me that's something that friends do. Try suggesting something "Do you wanna do X on Saturday?"
Just an idea. No idea what your relationship to this girl is already.
The Shadow
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Aesius said:
Dude, you need to relax. In general, do you find that your mood fluctuates from very high to very low in the course of one day? Do things like a check out girl winking at you make your day, or a co-worker/student being rude to you ruin your day?
entrement said:
Be honest, you've probably known her for a few weeks and never gave her the impression that you were interested in her beyond friendship.
The Shadow
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entrement said:
Well, I meant that as a question, not a statement. Sorry about the misunderstanding.
People get friendzoned because they don't show any interest. That's the cause. Fix it by showing your interest. Don't be scared of "offending" her, or rejection, or whatever else might be holding you back. If you're interested in a girl who's single, you need to let her know immediately.
grap3fruitman
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Your next response should be "Fuck no bitch, and I'm sticking it in you afterwards." Works sixty percent of the time, all the time.
The Shadow
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Door2Dawn said:
She got pregnant from the 3-way but he's the one that took her to Planned Parenthood and popped the question right after the appointment. The baby needs a dad after all.
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