GAF, I almost started a new thread to kind of get this out there and hopefully get some input back, but I feel like this is a better place.
Politically, I'm pretty damn ignorant, and with the rise of the Trump candidacy on the Republican side, I feel like I had a pretty big and intense fire lit under my ass to get out and vote -- to prevent a Trump victory, not to enable it.
Growing up, neither of my parents nor many of my adult mentors exerted any obvious political alignments, so I never really adopted anything super identifiable as political. I did, however, grow up in a largely conservative voting neighborhood, but while there was never really any obvious calls to action or open endorsement of any particular candidate, those types of values were still kind of the visible norm. I don't think anything was overtly political for me growing up, but I do feel like my education provided at least a fundamental basis in reinforcing notions that all people are created equal, etc...
That led me to participate in a lot of behaviors I don't feel proud of nowadays. I held homophobic views based on nothing more than not knowing many members of LGBTQ and mystified, negatively-connotated notions about sex as an act of deviance. My first encounter with any type of LGBTQ person was when a long-time, close friend of mine came out as bisexual just as we were transitioning into high school, and my reaction at the time was to slowly avoid him, a move that I regret because I saw the way that it isolated him from everyone, and he very visibly went through a very tough period with his family, with me and the rest of our friends, and I saw him eventually go through some really hard mental health problems. I think it absolutely sucks that that was one of my major life lessons about acceptance of LGBTQ. He and I are still friends, and he's in a much better place mentally, but the fact that I had a hand in his suffering for some time is likely never to let me conscience be fully at ease. I also objectified women in a lot of ways I'm not proud of, though luckily most girls in high school were smart and avoided a person like me like crazy so I didn't have to actively hurt someone to learn about that, either. I really wish I had had the wisdom and foresight to be better when I was younger, but them's the brakes, that's the crap reality I have to live with about myself, but I'm determined to at the very least remain open to changing my perspective.
While my perspective did eventually change as I moved through college, I've yet to really actually get involved in actively doing any real political legwork. Obama's first bid for president was the first election I was old enough to vote in, and I was really inspired by Obama to get my vote in for him. I didn't show up again in 2012, though.
At best, I'll occasionally hit up a place like GAF and throw in to call out racism, sexism, and homophobia. I put up a fight on my Facebook feed a lot when I see something I don't agree with, and that usually goes pretty civil -- I tend not to exert my political views openly on a frequent basis, so I suppose the impression I leave on people completely outside of the political realm kind of makes them less combative with me. I tend to be pretty easy-going and tolerant, but if something really rubs me the wrong way, I'll call it out (non-combatively).
But this election cycle doesn't really have me budging or questioning liberal views. It has me wondering if I'm actually doing enough with my own life to actually make a difference. I feel like a big factor in Trump's success so far has perhaps been in large part due to complacent types like myself, but at the same time I doubt my actual pool of wisdom and knowledge when it comes to rightfully acting on the principles of contemporary American liberalism. That is to say, I fear that my entire life is so woefully behind on any political consciousness that I'm uncertain where I might step in so that I might actually get qualified to stand for the political platform with grace and not just basically be an armchair political talking head.
So, following that massive (and incomplete) background story, a few questions for fellow GAF:
1) Did you have to go through any sort of experiences to shift you to your political beliefs now? Or was it sort of just inherited from mentors growing up?
2) For those of you that are more politically involved, what kind of things did you go through to get there? I remember hearing stories from some politically involved college professors about particular life experiences that motivated them to step up, but nothing so simple as fear of a particular candidate threatening their ideals of the country -- usually far more intimate experiences.
3) Any of you found a way to cope with being surrounded by people that openly oppose your political views? I work in law enforcement as a police dispatcher, it's a very conservative environment. I really respect and admire the police's role in contemporary society (the "protect & serve" ideal), but I feel like the tone of discourse will lead to my social estrangement if I speak up. Dallas shootings in particular got me all torn up, as I am sympathetic to Black Lives Matter, but I also don't want cops to lose positive connections with their communities. Publicly, my agency has largely been silent, but privately many of my coworkers here in this agency are very adamant Blue Lives Matter stancers.
EDIT: sorry if anything here is incoherent, kind of typed it out in different mini sessions and didn't make much of an effort to edit -- typed it out in bouts of downtime at work.