I'm not defending the position. But I am saying that the difference between a pro-life Republican governor and a pro-life Democratic governor, especially in a red state, is that one will actively restrict and punish women and cut funding for their health care, and the other will not.
This isn't a real choice though!
The only sort of grey area I see are legacy Dems who have run on a specific position over their career and have been in power on such positions, given the parties eventual coalescing around this firm position. And even there, I really think the party should push these people to change their position or cut off funding.
Its a basic human right. The opposite position is fundamentally sexist.