I dont handle break ups very well, even if it's not concerning myself...I just found out that the gf of my older brother broke up with him. she was the sweetestI'm really sad that she won't be part of our family now. it was totally his fault though, I can see why she did it. still sad. love is a lie ;_;
not every man is like this and there are even reverse situations, I'm aware of that. but a lot of guys act like this. might be the way society thinks men should be raised and thus not allowing them to be able to show their senstive side when it comes to emotional issues..or something like this. I just experience this apathetic behaviour over and over and it's sad.
_/¯always!
yeah it just makes it so much harder to find someone who's not been fooled by all this crap.It's definitely not country limited then because that sort of mentality is prevalent over here as well. The "macho man" mentality is shoved down guys throats as they are growing up. Often if guys show emotion or compassion they are made fun of for being weak.
"Oh, you're girl's got you pussy whipped." "Shit man, who wears the pants in that relationship?" "Wow, I can see your vagina from here"
It's shitty, and you're right, a lot of guys don't grow beyond that. One of my best friends is like that with some girls, but I know it's just a facade to keep up appearances. He's a sweetheart deep down. One of the problems I know of, and have personally run into, is that a lot of girls will actually expect that. And if you don't treat them that way they actually do think you're a pussy. Ultimately it just comes down to finding compatibility I guess?
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Not really anything to do with that.
It's definitely not country limited then because that sort of mentality is prevalent over here as well. The "macho man" mentality is shoved down guys throats as they are growing up. Often if guys show emotion or compassion they are made fun of for being weak.
"Oh, you're girl's got you pussy whipped." "Shit man, who wears the pants in that relationship?" "Wow, I can see your vagina from here"
It's shitty, and you're right, a lot of guys don't grow beyond that. One of my best friends is like that with some girls, but I know it's just a facade to keep up appearances. He's a sweetheart deep down. One of the problems I know of, and have personally run into, is that a lot of girls will actually expect that. And if you don't treat them that way they actually do think you're a pussy. Ultimately it just comes down to finding compatibility I guess?
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Not really anything to do with that.
It's definitely not country limited then because that sort of mentality is prevalent over here as well. The "macho man" mentality is shoved down guys throats as they are growing up. Often if guys show emotion or compassion they are made fun of for being weak.
"Oh, you're girl's got you pussy whipped." "Shit man, who wears the pants in that relationship?" "Wow, I can see your vagina from here"
It's shitty, and you're right, a lot of guys don't grow beyond that. One of my best friends is like that with some girls, but I know it's just a facade to keep up appearances. He's a sweetheart deep down. One of the problems I know of, and have personally run into, is that a lot of girls will actually expect that. And if you don't treat them that way they actually do think you're a pussy. Ultimately it just comes down to finding compatibility I guess?
¯\_(ツ
This thread always sounds so depressing when talking about relationships.
This thread always sounds so depressing when talking about relationships.
It usually feels like such a "Why me" thing.This thread always sounds so depressing when talking about relationships.
But Jobbs
This thread always sounds so depressing when talking about relationships.
Not anymore.
You'd best start believing in thirst threads, Prophet Steve...
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This thread always sounds so depressing when talking about relationships.
[SPOILER]https://www.humblebundle.com/gift?key=B2PWqMKTzZscGqhE[/SPOILER]Thank you! I need to check what games I still have extra copies of with HB.
Yep agreed. It's not about the doom and gloom of everything ending, it's about being rational and using that to make the most of whatever happens. Letting things develop without an end goal.
