I've worked up several posts, trying not to sound like a bigot. I totally support the trans community. If you identify as a certain gender, then that's who you are and I'll love you for that. You will never once see me doing anything to inhibit the LGBTQ community or their overarching agenda. I have never been with someone post op so I'm not going to say it's not totally out of the picture for me, but if you identify as a woman but have a penis...then for me it's just a matter of attraction. I will not love you any less, because you are who you are. I believe that everyone has a right to be happy and to be loved. Just at this moment, as I sit here, eating an entire row of Oreos, I am not sexually attracted to it. Like, I'm not going to look EXCLUSIVELY for a trans person to have sex with. But if I had been dating someone for a while, and I knew that I truly loved them, and they told me they were transgender, I would more than likely be open to the idea of sex. Because at that point, it's more than just sex for pleasure's sake. It's a matter of emotional intimacy. So who knows? Maybe y'all are right. I do not know for sure.
Does this make sense? I took a long ass time posting this cause I know how delicate of an issue it is and I wanted to get it right.