I generally agree with this. If you're new to a fight and still learning it, if you're not confident, dpsing as a healer probably isn't the best idea. Especially in DF.
Once you're used to a fight, it's easy enough to adjust as needed depending on amount of new people and amount of stupidity in a DF group.
I don't like this excuse at all. We wiped 6 or so times and by that point, people should have been adapting already. I always try to get some dps in even as an Astrologian. Usually, I put in a few Malefic II and then combust II, combust, Aero, and then disable. Even if I am new to a fight, I always incorporate stance dancing in my playstyle. If you want to sit there and be a lazy healer who won't dps the heart because 2 or more people in the party are dead, it is going to be a wipe even when you focus on raising. At that point, people shouldn't be complaining at all. Healing comes first but healers can do some good dps and people are just afraid to do it in a new fight. Learn the pattern and adapt and after 6 or so wipes it shouldn't be hard to know when to dps or not. I can't imagine how boring healing is without stance dancing, actually. When I'm using my SCH, I always dps and heal at a equal amount.
I kind of feel that people in the df don't know how to make their jobs useful sometimes. You always get that one healer that likes to stand there and wait for tank hp to go down before putting another heal up.
First attempt today and already people abandoned. Sighhhhh