We struggle, even years later, to come to grips with our new phyisques. It doesn't matter if we even get to being on stage in bb/fitness/physique... we still look at ourselves as fat and gross some days.
I realize everyone is like this to an extent, but obese people spend nearly their whole lives thinking about one thing that makes them look like crap. So when you get rid of that one thing... you just find something else to obsess over. It's a frustrating thing and I still struggle with it.
Learning to be happy and alive right now is very difficult, it is incredibly easy to lapse into bad habits of living in the past and regretting or living in the future and being anxious. We can only be at peace in this moment. We all struggle with this issue of perception regardless of the ideals at hand, be them body image, career, finances, love, etc.
This might sound kind of pithy but I really love this quote "Life is not a having and a getting, but a being and a becoming". You can only choose to be happy now, you never acquire happiness or hit it like a plateau where you can then put your life on cruise control to "enjoy the scenery". Enjoy it now, if nothing else because it will look substantially different tomorrow!
Also we all have huge fucking legs. Damn. Though I still haven't seen someone top me yet!
I'm working on it, mainly because it is easier to take your 8's to a 10 then it is to take your 3's to an 8. Go team squat booty!
I don't think that it's wise to encourage someone to maintain an addiction to nicotine with electronic cigarettes to avoid doing any cardio.
I understand this perspective and was hesitant to post it considering this type of response, but having been on the wrong side of a 2 pack a day red habit for the better part of a decade I was trying to be realistic. If he can quit smoking and keep jogging then obviously he will be better off, although in my personal anecdotal experience and that of the vaping community, switching immediately to vaping is generally a better idea than continuing to struggle with quitting via other methods. What if, god forbid, he goes out for a run to squash the cigarette craving and finds that half an hour after showering and settling down it returns with a vengeance? It's just not that simple one way or another, so I figured I would present an option which nobody else would, having been there and done that.
Stereotypes suck but some simply ring true. People into anime don't give a shit about anything else. lol
I disagree, although I would say the statement is accurate had you said "obsessed". You can be into a lot of different things, but when one takes up a disproportionate amount of your focus, time and energy then you have a problem.
But they give him shit too for not hanging out and eating chicken wings with them cause he goes to the gym on a schedule instead of playing magic the gathering for 6 hours straight.
Not related but it really annoyed me.
It is honestly hard to find quality friends who legitimately care about your mental and physical health as an individual, not simply valuing your presence in a specific social circle or context.
Pics of some go-go dancer style club costumes from the last few months, I will link them instead of inlining, for the children's sake. Keep crushing it, you are all very inspirational and I appreciate being a part of this community, even if I don't participate very frequently.
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