Astral Dog
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So what does everybody here think of adopting children?
Or Settle down and having a big adorable Baby 👶
Or Settle down and having a big adorable Baby 👶
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Monocle
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I think it's great, but honestly I'm attached to the idea of having my own biological kids.
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Haha that wasn't a practice show! that was at a casinoBut I've sung that song for years, so I'm definitely comfortable with it
Haha it is a play on words to Xanadu, but it's not related at all, plot-wise!
You're too kind! But my voice was definitely not as experienced in 2011!! I wish it was!! LOL!
Umm by anxiety i mean just the general anxiety of missing him/him being way. it gets really difficult sometimes for me. I don't know if having anxiety disorder is contributing to that, but I feel like it probably might be X_X haha..
Haha great minds think alike! The SP was so nice looking!!!
Ah, I meant the opposite: "shows" as a verb, as in, "it's very clear you've practiced a lot!"
About the anxiety: I see. It seems like you're quite attached to him. I see how that would be difficult, but hopefully you can spend as much time as possible with him when he gets back.
Escape Goat
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Doesanyone want to adopt me?
Not me.
Escape Goat
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Astral Dog
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Aww, raising a family seems like a beautiful thing.
Not for me, given all psychological issues to solve first i rather just try to help people in other ways, i dread to think how i could not provide a child a proper life, and then if he turns out unhappy i just failed him,dreadful. Children get the burden of worse flaws of their parents and im not good material.
not like i can get married either ;P
DOWN
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I don't care about biological kids or the race of my kid at all if I have one tbh. I think I'd prefer adoption but would cave in if my future husband wanted biological. I don't get the need for biological and it seems super irrelevant to being family. I don't know anyone adopted personally but it just seems like I don't think about dna at all when I think of family unless I'm literally just considering the process but I don't think "oh that's why I care about these people and was raised with them." Nah, for me it just seems like if you decide as a couple to be the parents, you're family through and through and share an experience that sounds about the same as any other baby or kid would share about being raised
So for me, adoption seems lovely for giving an already on the way or young kid the family they deserve, but I guess I acknowledge I don't get why other gays would need the dna factor via surrogate so I wouldn't fight someone who felt that need on the subject knowing that there might be some element of it I just don't feel
So for me, adoption seems lovely for giving an already on the way or young kid the family they deserve, but I guess I acknowledge I don't get why other gays would need the dna factor via surrogate so I wouldn't fight someone who felt that need on the subject knowing that there might be some element of it I just don't feel
You Know Nothing
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Your fetish is reading fetish threads on GAF.
Yeah why not, there is a lot of hot people here on GAF so I wouldn't mind going at it with one.
Interface23
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So I decided I'm going to do this Pizza thing because I gotta get on with my life even if I'm still friends with Canada and I can't just hope she decides that I'm worth the distance.
Spiritreaver
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There are definitely a few gaffers I find pretty dreamy.
You Know Nothing
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You have low standards...
jk, I agree. Somewhat.
Should have left it without the spoiler.
Go all in.
That's what he said.
You Know Nothing
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BlueBadger
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Ah, I meant the opposite: "shows" as a verb, as in, "it's very clear you've practiced a lot!"
About the anxiety: I see. It seems like you're quite attached to him. I see how that would be difficult, but hopefully you can spend as much time as possible with him when he gets back.
ohh!!! i'm so sorry!! i misunderstood
yeah.. i do like him. he really misses me too, it seems. it just sucks when it happens earlier on in a relationship.. i think we both feel vulnerable as a result. we'll get through it X_X
My parents threw a graduation party for me yesterday and so many distant relatives came. It was great. Here are the highlights:
Uncle: Ya'll better grab some Hee-jawbs because Obama is turning this country into sharia law.
Great Aunt: Obama has filled the white house with muslims, and Hillary Clinton is just going to do the same thing.
Great Uncle: I might not vote for Donald Trump but at least he is speaking the truth!
(Other) Great Aunt: We need Ted Cruz to save this nation!
Great Aunt: Hey, Veeboy, you've been quiet about all this. You know its been a while since I've seen you at church. You're not converting to a muslim on us are you? (Editor's Note: this was said sincerely).
Great Aunt: I haven't seen you with a girlfriend in a while (Editor's Note: I have never had a girlfriend). Why is that? You're such a handsome young man (Editor's Note: no i am not) you ought ta have a fiance by now. You know your cousin got married just a few months ago.
Me:
Other than that it was fun. Just not a fan of some of my extended family.
Uncle: Ya'll better grab some Hee-jawbs because Obama is turning this country into sharia law.
Great Aunt: Obama has filled the white house with muslims, and Hillary Clinton is just going to do the same thing.
Great Uncle: I might not vote for Donald Trump but at least he is speaking the truth!
(Other) Great Aunt: We need Ted Cruz to save this nation!
Great Aunt: Hey, Veeboy, you've been quiet about all this. You know its been a while since I've seen you at church. You're not converting to a muslim on us are you? (Editor's Note: this was said sincerely).
Great Aunt: I haven't seen you with a girlfriend in a while (Editor's Note: I have never had a girlfriend). Why is that? You're such a handsome young man (Editor's Note: no i am not) you ought ta have a fiance by now. You know your cousin got married just a few months ago.
Me:
Other than that it was fun. Just not a fan of some of my extended family.
Well congrats on your graduation!
Yeah, but I only see these people (besides my uncle) at funerals and occasional events like this so I just grin and bear it.
Thanks
Mostmanlyman
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Yeah that probably is the best thing to do.
Congrats graduating
ugh i would never sleep w/ a gaffer
disgusting trash people!!!
weirdly enough, i didn't really feel comfortable enough to actually post in there, but reading it has been interesting!
disgusting trash people!!!
weirdly enough, i didn't really feel comfortable enough to actually post in there, but reading it has been interesting!
truth.
umop_3pisdn
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TheAbsolution
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Ugh, it sucks that your extended family feels that way. I empathize.
Congrats on your graduation though.
If you remember, I was talking last week about a guy I had a crush on who I managed to talk to at the last social, and that I added him on facebook and we talked all day, and I asked him if he wanted to go for a coffee/drink some time and he said he couldn't...
welll, i was talking to my gay friend at work, and I was thinking of messaging him today just to say hi and to keep me in his mind you know? and he told me to just not be so worried and just go for it, it's worth a shot.
So I messaged him earlier today, and we started talking, and I must admit, I was starting to panic thinking that I sounded really incredibly boring talking about work and christmas and all that, and I made one last ditch effort to keep the conversation going, asking "do you have any new years resolutions?"
He started talking about needing to get back to the gym, which led to us talking about gyms, which led to us talking about gym showers, and I said that I don't mind showing off a bit, and he was surprised and started getting a bit flirty with winky faces and stuff, and said that I should show off for the social group sometime.
After deliberating for a few minutes I replied back with "I probably wouldn't be allowed to do that"... "but I wouldn't mind showing off for you "
He seemed a bit taken aback at first and said it sounds interesting, I mentioned that I was trying to be more confident and that I was sorry if I was being too forward, and he replied back with:
"Haha, maybe I like the idea of you showing off"
and when I mentioned that I made some Xtube videos he seemed very interested.
SOOO, all those glances across the table at the social WERE flirty, he IS attracted to me, praise be to yevon. and I would say that this date is very likely to happen now.
I finally had some confidence for once and it paid off. FUCK YEAH.
welll, i was talking to my gay friend at work, and I was thinking of messaging him today just to say hi and to keep me in his mind you know? and he told me to just not be so worried and just go for it, it's worth a shot.
So I messaged him earlier today, and we started talking, and I must admit, I was starting to panic thinking that I sounded really incredibly boring talking about work and christmas and all that, and I made one last ditch effort to keep the conversation going, asking "do you have any new years resolutions?"
He started talking about needing to get back to the gym, which led to us talking about gyms, which led to us talking about gym showers, and I said that I don't mind showing off a bit, and he was surprised and started getting a bit flirty with winky faces and stuff, and said that I should show off for the social group sometime.
After deliberating for a few minutes I replied back with "I probably wouldn't be allowed to do that"... "but I wouldn't mind showing off for you
"He seemed a bit taken aback at first and said it sounds interesting, I mentioned that I was trying to be more confident and that I was sorry if I was being too forward, and he replied back with:
"Haha, maybe I like the idea of you showing off"
and when I mentioned that I made some Xtube videos he seemed very interested.
SOOO, all those glances across the table at the social WERE flirty, he IS attracted to me, praise be to yevon. and I would say that this date is very likely to happen now.
I finally had some confidence for once and it paid off. FUCK YEAH.
If you remember, I was talking last week about a guy I had a crush on who I managed to talk to at the last social, and that I added him on facebook and we talked all day, and I asked him if he wanted to go for a coffee/drink some time and he said he couldn't...
welll, i was talking to my gay friend at work, and I was thinking of messaging him today just to say hi and to keep me in his mind you know? and he told me to just not be so worried and just go for it, it's worth a shot.
So I messaged him earlier today, and we started talking, and I must admit, I was starting to panic thinking that I sounded really incredibly boring talking about work and christmas and all that, and I made one last ditch effort to keep the conversation going, asking "do you have any new years resolutions?"
He started talking about needing to get back to the gym, which led to us talking about gyms, which led to us talking about gym showers, and I said that I don't mind showing off a bit, and he was surprised and started getting a bit flirty with winky faces and stuff, and said that I should show off for the social group sometime.
After deliberating for a few minutes I replied back with "I probably wouldn't be allowed to do that"... "but I wouldn't mind showing off for you
He seemed a bit taken aback at first and said it sounds interesting, I mentioned that I was trying to be more confident and that I was sorry if I was being too forward, and he replied back with:
"Haha, maybe I like the idea of you showing off"
and when I mentioned that I made some Xtube videos he seemed very interested.
SOOO, all those glances across the table at the social WERE flirty, he IS attracted to me, praise be to yevon. and I would say that this date is very likely to happen now.
I finally had some confidence for once and it paid off. FUCK YEAH.
I had forgotten that the guy you mentioned was gay so there was no need to worry about whether he was straight or nonstraight and so on... So that's good, at least you knew beforehand.
Congrats and best of luck!
It amazes me that razmos can be shy yet he's quite the exhibitionist
A while from now?
I like a new thread every new year because people post hot pics in Real Pic January. Best month on gaf!
Henchmen21
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Why did that last one sound like she was trying to hook you up with your cousin?
User 73706
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Is this another one of your fetishes?
Haha no thx
RatskyWatsky
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expand on this more please. what was his stance
slow down thar whippersnapper
Aeriscloud
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Bleh, I tried to come out to my father today but failed. He liked my earrings though, so that's a plus.
In other news, I finally get to meet my guy on the 2nd of Jan. Sooooooo Excited!!!!!
In other news, I finally get to meet my guy on the 2nd of Jan. Sooooooo Excited!!!!!
Aarglefarg
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Woooo!
TheAbsolution
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Aarglefarg
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If only there was some form of private messaging feature on
I remember you posting about it at the time.
Thanks for the grats! At least the worst is over for now. Politics usually don't show up at Christmastime.Ugh, it sucks that your extended family feels that way. I empathize.
Congrats on your graduation though.
Congrats on the successful flirting. I would not have that kind of confidence, haha.
I don't think she was. I hope she wasn't.
I do live in the south though, so its possible.
It'll happen in time. So, no need to linger on the coming out just focus on the future.
CornBurrito
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It doesn't. It sounds like "similar age family member is married and so should you"
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