I just came out to somebody for the first time today. I told one of mt friends who I trusted the most and he was cool with it, as I thought he would be, but it was still really weird saying the words out loud. I'm still kinda shaking thinking about it now - I mean, it wasn't a huge deal, but now it feels like a momentous change for some reason. I don't know, fuck it, I'm gonna sleep on it all - just wanted to put my thoughts down in writing somewhere. But I think it's gonna be a while before I have that conversation with someone else.
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RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
shoutout to this tab i've open for months
what is this
Henchmen21
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I don't have a problem with older dudes dating younger boys. as a young lad I was going for them daddy types too. :3
the annual tickle olympics.
the annual tickle olympics.
Male bonding.
Thequietone
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I just saw that bisexual thread being locked in off topic. I can help prove bisexuals exist 
Men and women are yum yum.
Men and women are yum yum.Thequietone
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I actually didn't check to see why it was locked, I just assumed someone shitted up the thread. (I know you were just joking but yes I do get equal genital arousal from both genders.
)Henchmen21
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Since when has Necro bumping been worthy of thread locking? Didn't we have a thread recently where someone necro bumped a 10yr old thread?
My mind, body, and soul are at war with one another. There's a complete disconnection between the three and a sense of irregularities. This vessel can only take so much.
I wonder if my soul wishes to be free, to wander in the ever expanding universe and become one with it. Perhaps it wishes to rest and be awakened again to move on the next vessel within a millenia.
I would hope when the time comes my mind trancends with enough insight, and finally being able to have audience with the great ones. But this vessel can only take so much.
I wonder if my soul wishes to be free, to wander in the ever expanding universe and become one with it. Perhaps it wishes to rest and be awakened again to move on the next vessel within a millenia.
I would hope when the time comes my mind trancends with enough insight, and finally being able to have audience with the great ones. But this vessel can only take so much.
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To be clear, moving on from your vessel doesn't mean suicide, does it?
What is suicide but the act of killing oneself? For we're always killing ourselves, just slowly. Every actions and decisions, for as small as they may be, have an impact on our overall well-being. We forget that our bodies are in constant gradual decay. We age, we decay. The food that we eat, how we're sleeping, how much we sleep, what we do and don't do, all of this and many more things slowly kill us for we're always in decay. We're the product of our own actions - of the things we did and didn't do. We're always killing ourselves by our own choices. A vessel can only take so much before shattering to the ground.
Thequietone
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*fist bump*
unity of the void
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I've always told people I can't wait for the sun to supernova and turn the world to dust and then everyone can be space ghosts! Think of the outfits!
I'm not sure it's been mentioned, and I'm sorry to bring you down, but I feel like posting it.
A few days ago there was a pride parade in Jerusalem. For the past 10 years it went without a hitch, but this time an idiot decided to act, and stabbed 6 participants.
Yesterday, one of the wounded, a 16 years old girl, passed away from her wounds.
I don't know her, and I usually don't care too much when I read about other people, but this one just hit me, and it gets worse the more I think about it. It's a 16 year old girl, who did nothing but walk in order to support equal rights for people, and she dies for it...
Absolutely ridiculous :/
A few days ago there was a pride parade in Jerusalem. For the past 10 years it went without a hitch, but this time an idiot decided to act, and stabbed 6 participants.
Yesterday, one of the wounded, a 16 years old girl, passed away from her wounds.
I don't know her, and I usually don't care too much when I read about other people, but this one just hit me, and it gets worse the more I think about it. It's a 16 year old girl, who did nothing but walk in order to support equal rights for people, and she dies for it...
Absolutely ridiculous :/
RatskyWatsky
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it's some organized event though right?
aha typical Rob po--teething on what tho
Wait a minute!
Let us take a moment to consider all the accidental erections that must happen during an event like this.shoutout to this tab i've open for months
Whoo! Born in '94, still 20! Birthday not for a few months. We're the best year.
Congratulations, that's a huge step! It feels amazing to be able to tell someone!
Monocle
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Social judgement is such a pain. That's why in real life I don't really talk about who I'm into with strangers and casual acquaintances. It's not creepy yet but the clock is ticking. Stupid aging.Yeah, I mean nothing wrong with that obviously. Thing is that I guess LGBT+ men and even straight men are self conscious about the age thing. Even women, and I imagine it must be even more difficult for women. Mostly because anything perceived as negative is usually blamed on the older individual (i.e. being accused of corrupting the younger one's mind - or sucking the life out of them). My grandma, who's close to being 60, has gotten some backlash from my family because she's into guys in their 20's. She's a cougar.
My life goal is to be a mysterious, dashing middle aged gentleman who's pursued by questioning jocks for discreet midnight rendezvous. I'll let you know how it goes.
Embrace the thirst! It's what he's there for. That, and being super trustworthy and helpful. The kind of guy you can depend on to strip down just as he hears you entering the gym.
I don't know what's happening but I approve and I want this.shoutout to this tab i've open for months
Somebody pls pin me down. o_o
Fun trick: Take any Tumblr image link and replace the numbers before the image extension with 1280 (or 500 if it's a gif) to check for a full size version. Taking your image, for example:
Orig: https://36.media.tumblr.com/e53e845a0b8c3709b9f33093ed55e1ee/tumblr_nm7q3fk02z1tbycouo1_540.jpg
Modified: https://36.media.tumblr.com/e53e845a0b8c3709b9f33093ed55e1ee/tumblr_nm7q3fk02z1tbycouo1_1280.jpg
You go from this:
To this:
Henchmen21
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aha typical Rob po--
Wait a minute!
Let us take a moment to consider all the accidental erections that must happen during an event like this.
Accidental...more like intentional.
Monocle
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You mean that's not the purpose of an event where a shirtless man straddles you on the ground?
Sports are weird.
Henchmen21
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Greco Roman wrestling done in the traditional style mmmmhhhhmmmm.
Monocle
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The Olympics aren't what they used to be, huh?
Henchmen21
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We must campaign!
I thought nobody died, oh damn, that is horrible.
The thing is, that guy (who is seemingly deranged and very hateful against queer people) already did the same thing a couple of years ago. And then he gets released and does the same again, which makes me think that they obviously didn't fix his damn head, they didn't change him in the slightest. So why release him?
That's awful. I thought everyone had only minor injuries
I thought nobody died, oh damn, that is horrible.
The thing is, that guy (who is seemingly deranged and very hateful against queer people) already did the same thing a couple of years ago. And then he gets released and does the same again, which makes me think that they obviously didn't fix his damn head, they didn't change him in the slightest. So why release him?
I think there's still someone at the hospital, so other than her, I guess it's not all minor injuries :\
Yup, that's fucked up. I think it was about 10 years ago since the last incident, and it's the same guy. Mere weeks after he got released he does it again, only this time he managed to kill someone. At least keep an eye on him...
kitchenmotors
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You can buy soda at Starbucks? Also, I'm not picky with food but I wouldn't eat thawed chicken nuggets.
Down, your diet would wreak havoc on my body.
I don't have a job. I don't have a house either. I don't even have a complete car.
Just the trunk with the hindwheels of a car wich I pull with a rope. I live in that thing.
Warning: This is going to be very explicit sooooo... yeah
So I've hooked up with three guys for the past two weeks (... I know) and for everyone of these guys I haven't been able to cum. Well the first guy I didn't even take off my pants I just sucked him off but for the other two it was like hot heavy action but no real penetration. It's not an issue of getting hard since I was hard like the majority of the time but I don't think I was even close to ejaculating.
The second guy I hooked up with had like this weird taste in his mouth and we were in his car so that might of had something to do with it. The third was this super hot older guy. Like he was super muscular and built and *shudders* he was amazing. I made him orgasm twice but I couldn't really spurt anything. He was super fun though we made out for like two hours he was so into me. Like I was relatively attracted to all of them but I just couldn't get myself to orgasm. I can do it fine when I masturbate maybe it just takes me a very long time??? I don't know this is kind of freaking me out.
The second guy I hooked up with had like this weird taste in his mouth and we were in his car so that might of had something to do with it. The third was this super hot older guy. Like he was super muscular and built and *shudders* he was amazing. I made him orgasm twice but I couldn't really spurt anything. He was super fun though we made out for like two hours he was so into me. Like I was relatively attracted to all of them but I just couldn't get myself to orgasm. I can do it fine when I masturbate maybe it just takes me a very long time??? I don't know this is kind of freaking me out.
Dead Prince
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try playing guile theme in the background to set the mood.
also RIP gaf rainbow logo.
also RIP gaf rainbow logo.
RatskyWatsky
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I'm not really all that experienced but I have been told I'm a good kisser
. I was thinking that too but I've never done anal before and I didn't really have any condoms on me the last few times. The second guy gave really fucking good head and I might have been close to orgasming but I didn't. I guess I'll try it with my next hook up who is hopefully willing to meet up soon.
Definitely don't freak out. I was the same way. Most of my hook-ups
and even sex while in a relationship
Wow you have a good memory! Yeah, I came to GAF when I was 13 or 14 so I was always pretty young compared to everyone else
Wanted to share something positive I've noticed lately. I've started a new job recently and it's my first foray into the 'corporate' world here in London, whereas previously I was lab based (research scientist). I usually let the subject of my sexuality come up naturally, i.e. if someone asks me a question about who I live with or something like that, I'm honest and don't feel the need to lie. I'm used to a brief pause at the 'revelation', and then people usually treat me like normal, but some people (guys usually) can be a bit different when they find it out and it reminds me of the tougher time I had with stuff like this growing up.
But my experience lately at the new job has just been amazing. No-one gives a shit. No awkward moment of reaction, avoiding me or weird questions etc.
I guess this is my long winded way of saying that I think I've finally experienced complete acceptance in a workplace, and it is awesome. I never really thought such a thing would mean anything to me, but it's so nice to be working with people from all over the world and I don't feel like I'm being held with kid gloves or treated weirdly. It makes me happy for the queer kids growing up now that they will grow up in a more accepting world, just like I grew up in a more accepting time than my forebears.
Even better if it's with a guy who will take the time to 'help' you. I've also known some guys who said that they couldn't cum from oral.
But my experience lately at the new job has just been amazing. No-one gives a shit. No awkward moment of reaction, avoiding me or weird questions etc.
I guess this is my long winded way of saying that I think I've finally experienced complete acceptance in a workplace, and it is awesome. I never really thought such a thing would mean anything to me, but it's so nice to be working with people from all over the world and I don't feel like I'm being held with kid gloves or treated weirdly. It makes me happy for the queer kids growing up now that they will grow up in a more accepting world, just like I grew up in a more accepting time than my forebears.
Hey Ratsky baby, how've you been?
Found the perfect cock yet? XD
My first ever hookup was through gay.com, I made so many noob mistakes on that one. Years later he messaged me on Grindr and I didn't even reply, that was not an experience I wanted to repeat. I think brute forcing dick pics at everyone was less of a thing back then, ha!
In my experience, having deflowered quite a few guys in my time, is that some guys need to get used to cumming with someone else. Some guys have the opposite problem and cum too fast they're so excited. Both problems are settled with experience. Sometimes just masturbating with another guy can help, so start off with something you're comfortable with. I would also say not to read too much into your early experiences, our sexual awakening doesn't happen overnight, just enjoy the ride.
Even better if it's with a guy who will take the time to 'help' you. I've also known some guys who said that they couldn't cum from oral.
At least that was before they met me. makeup.gif
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Idk what you mean but I hope it's good
When you put it that way...
Yeah man. Orange Cream soda, Lemon Ale, and Ginger Ale
What could be more fun than your body and mind falling victim to entropy?
You could treat your own senescence as an analogue to the inevitable heat death of the universe.
What mirth.
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have you ever been in a trusting relationship? if yes, how was it there? I have the same "problem" as you, but it doesn't bother me. it could be a self-esteem issue. think about how you do it to yourself and how it's different from those encounters. they all sound like quickies and maybe you just need a very long time to get your engines running.
I hate those, who race you to the finish line, sometimes I fake it to end it. lol
also, don't underestimate long foreplay, that usually helps a lot.
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