Don't forget also, on paper, the RT and memory bandwidth advantages, for the XsX. That's not totally negligible.... on paper.
The problem is that most of the game runs at locked 30 or 60 fps, and like hitman 3 or control, we don't really know how these consoles can really go over these caps.
For control, it is possible that most of the time the XsX has higher framerate than PS5, but for some reasons, can drop clearly higher than PS5, more often below the caps. I remember some games that was running with higher fps average with one GPU/system than another but with clearly worst 1% or 5% low fps.
That give a system with better overall level of performances with the game but a worst gaming experiences when these drops appeared too much.
Another thing that clearly surprises me with XsX are those
drops that appeared with some text, alpha effects etc... That's the case with Hitman 3, Control, Destiny 2, ACV for example. I was watching the video about The division 2 and for example, we have a drop with such effect when level up:
That's really curious.