I'm sorry, but your view here is the academic one. The Palestinians themselves are the ones who are living their lives in the occupation and having their territory taken over inch by inch no matter what they do. It's academic to say "it's not worth it, save your lives, your home is unimportant."
Oppressed people are angry. Telling them to calm down has rarely, if ever, succeeded in ending their oppression. Usually it just intensifies it.
In the end, if you're not angry at what Israel is doing I just don't even know what to tell you. It doesn't matter what happened before, in 1948, 1967, 1993, or 2006. It doesn't matter what Egypt, Jordan, Syria, or Iran want. What Israel has been doing, especially by continuing the settlements, is wrong, and is a fundamental cause of the continuation of this conflict. Be angry at Hamas too, but if your answer to this is to ask Hamas to stop fighting back, well, history suggests that gets you nothing but being stomped out.