Miles Quaritch
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There is this western themed card game called Bang! which I played with some friends. Its pretty fun. Maybe check that out
This one?
https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B001RU7UNW/
Thanks for the recommend, will check out out.
There is this western themed card game called Bang! which I played with some friends. Its pretty fun. Maybe check that out
I've actually been thinking about getting some board games, what is Secret Hitler like? Worth playing with a group of five?
What kind of social activities to meet others would people recommend if you like videogames but not board games?
I've played enough board games in my life to know that the fewer board games I play for the rest of my life, the better.
Yup that's the one.
I dont own it but those DC deck buiding games are fun if your friends like comic hero/villain stuff. I dont really like comics but I dunno, if you game you probably arent averse to it so it still is fun.
It's what's known as a hidden roles game. Every player is either a Liberal or a Fascist, and one of the Fascists is Hitler. Liberals are clueless and don't know who anyone is. Hitler doesn't know who is allies are either. But the Fascists know who the other fascists are, and most importantly who Hitler is. Liberals try to figure out who they can trust so they can stop Hitler's rise, Fascists try to sow discord.
I find it lots of fun, but it works best with larger groups (7-10). More people = more chaos!
Betrayal at House on the Hill and 7 Wonders might be worth looking at too.
Please let me know if you find out, I'm in the same situation and all the geeky meetups in town are just board games all day errday. I like the occasional board or card game, but the eight hour shit those people like to play drive me up a wall :|
I've tried going to video game things but I've found those cliquish to the point where I can't actually play any video games, lol. I just want to meet some nerds, darnit!
Please let me know if you find out, I'm in the same situation and all the geeky meetups in town are just board games all day errday. I like the occasional board or card game, but the eight hour shit those people like to play drive me up a wall :|
I've tried going to video game things but I've found those cliquish to the point where I can't actually play any video games, lol. I just want to meet some nerds, darnit!
Oh lord, that 'how busty are you' shit is amazing.
You have to wonder why he settled on that. Like did he think it sounded less creepy than 'what's your bra size'?
Tbh, other than board games or multiplayer videogames, do nerds do anything social? I guess LARPing or DnD. Not sure what you would want to do with nerds gathered in one place. And it must be unbearable as a woman. I've been some cons and gatherings, it's harrasment hell for single ladies.
I know this isn't friendship-age, but sweet christmas do I need to vent about this. That board game, Secret Hitler, is poised to split my board gaming group in two. Quote this to see the rest of it...warning, it's pretty fucked up.
So damn bizarre. The group met right off a college campus, which made it great for meeting women. Gained three platonic female friends and two now-ex's from there.
I know this isn't friendship-age, but sweet christmas do I need to vent about this. That board game, Secret Hitler, is poised to split my board gaming group in two. Quote this to see the rest of it...warning, it's pretty fucked up.
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So damn bizarre. The group met right off a college campus, which made it great for meeting women. Gained three platonic female friends and two now-ex's from there.
Sounds like you're in Trouble!
How about you try some Sorry?
I suspect that most straight guys in poly relationships get laid a lot less than do their partners.
Oh man, you guys wanna hear some Poly bullshit? I was just relayed this story this weekend.
About a year ago, a female friend of mine came out as Poly. A mutual male friend of ours (we hang out in a group) came to her, out of the blue, with an offer to go to San Francisco and try something. He forwarded her an article and brochure about the place. It was a sex cult. A literal sex cult. A woman and her boyfriend bought a warehouse and give classes on pleasing women. And he had wanted him to go, with her, as his partner. Bear in mind, they hadn't so much as dated, only hung out in a group. Apparently he though that Poly people are all into some kinky-ass shit (possibly even kinky ass-shit).
Another mutual friend and the female friend met up with him at a coffee shop, to use it as a teachable moment. Let him know how wrong it was, and tell him what polyamory is. He reportedly just told them he was being shamed for his kinks, and left.
This conversation came about because he had openly accused me of being a Nazi (and anti-semetic) on account of me owning the board game "Secret Hitler". I was venting to her, only to find out she had problems with him all her own.
People really don't understand how open and poly relationships work, like... At all. It's frustrating. I just told him next time, just tell them we're in an open relationship and don't bother with the details, too much trouble.
Please let me know if you find out, I'm in the same situation and all the geeky meetups in town are just board games all day errday. I like the occasional board or card game, but the eight hour shit those people like to play drive me up a wall :|
I've tried going to video game things but I've found those cliquish to the point where I can't actually play any video games, lol. I just want to meet some nerds, darnit!
So I want to ask out this girl I sit next to in my community college sociology class. She is very pretty, seems nice whenever I or anyone else talks to her, and will laugh at the jokes I say (not in a "I obviously like you kind of way" though). She is out of my league to be honest, but appears to be pretty quiet / shy so it's possible I have a chance here lol. It's possible she's just like that only in this class but I figure I gotta shoot my shot here regardless. Anyways...
I don't really know how to ask a girl out in this situation. The obvious nightmare scenario here is I ask her, she says no, and it's really awkward for the rest of the year. I'm in the mindset right now where I don't know if I should wait until later in the semester to ask her so there is less potential awkward classes if she says no and a hopefully better chance she will like me (I'm working out and doing other kinds of self improvement) but that also means I might wait too long and blow my shot.
If anyone has any experience with situations like this or any advice I would appreciate it a ton. I have tickets to a Chance the Rapper show in early June and want to take a date so I got a deadline here to find someone lol (and no I imagine I would not be taking someone on a first date to a concert).
Just ask her out. Why would it be awkward? If she says no you can find someone else.
Best case you have a date and someone to potentially take to this concert. Worst case nothing changes and you're still classmates.
Fuck if you can't find anyone, I'll go with ya. So there. No worries. Go ask her out.
I'm not really worried about asking her out beyond the general worries that come from stuff like that, I just have to sit next to her the rest of the semester and don't want to deal with that awkward tension that I imagine would come. I'm assuming it would be awkward, I've never asked out any girls I sat next to, and I don't think I have for any girls in my class at the time at all. There's a good chance I'm just inflating how awkward it would be and I'm just in my own head with this.
I'm not really worried about asking her out beyond the general worries that come from stuff like that, I just have to sit next to her the rest of the semester and don't want to deal with that awkward tension that I imagine would come. I'm assuming it would be awkward, I've never asked out any girls I sat next to, and I don't think I have for any girls in my class at the time at all. There's a good chance I'm just inflating how awkward it would be and I'm just in my own head with this.
Yes, it's in your head. Do you know how many times she's going to be asked out by guys this semester? A lot. Just ask her out, you're no worse off if she says no.
Its in your head. Play it cool like:
Hey! This concert is coming to town. You are pretty cool, ur up for it?
If she says no for whatever reason: ok no problem.
Just continue random conversation.
Dont make it a long story. Like hey one these band is here on blablabla and i was thinking do you want to join me.
an update to my previous post. http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showpost.php?p=233244628&postcount=9379
So this girl I went on a date with on Sunday is being extremely flirtatious like alluding to sexual advances via texts messages. I feel like shes messing around but I'm not sure really. I've never been in a situation like this before where someone talks like that. We're going out for dinner tomorrow and and shes coming over after that but idk whats going to happen.
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Also I just got back from my class and I'm disapointed with how I handled "asking out" the girl in my class. We only talk after class when walking to our cars but tonight she was talking with someone else and I decided not to intrude. I somehow got lucky that she parked next to me and we were able to chat for a bit but by then I internally felt like I missed my chance lol. I decided instead to ask her if she wanted to study together which she agreed to and gave me her number so I don't know what to do now. I seriously felt like every animu MC with how I handled this. ugghhhh
Hey, hold on now I didn't say I would ask her to the concert for the first date. Those tickets were like $300 and I at least want to make sure I will like the girl I'm going with. When I ask her out I'm just gonna be like "hey I was wondering if maybe you wanted to go out sometime?" and work out the details from there and go out to dinner or some other first date type of thing.
Unless you guys think I should ask her to the concert for the first date?
Tbh, other than board games or multiplayer videogames, do nerds do anything social? I guess LARPing or DnD. Not sure what you would want to do with nerds gathered in one place. And it must be unbearable as a woman. I've been some cons and gatherings, it's harrasment hell for single ladies.
Tournaments are how I do it, but they can be insular to a large extent. Sometimes people don't even play other games outside the one the tournament is meant for.
Also the tournament scenes skew highly in the male dominated range. To the point where most women get scared off by people making it weird when they try to enter.
However, arcade meetups / weekend evenings at my favorite arcades in LA have been a great way to meet some people. Everyone bonds over watching each other get better at DDR!
Yeah, this is what I'm having the most trouble trying to communicate. Like I don't want to say we're in an "open relationship" because that comes with the connotation that we aren't committed that strongly to each other, which we are. But if I say poly outright people start thinking I'm in a weird Mormon cult or something. Bleh. It's not that hard to understand if you just...think about it for a second or two.
I agree, not the concert it's too expensive for a 1st date.
When you ask her out you must be confident and specific not "hey I was wondering if maybe you wanted to go out sometime?" but "I'd like to take you out on a date for (specific activity) on (Specific time and day). If you are vague, she could be vague too with a "yeah, maybe" answer and then you don't know where you are.
Got it, this is good advice thank you
Do not study with her. Do not be her friend unless you want to be her friend. Don't text her. You can talk to her in person and ask her to grab a drink.
Don't forget to ask her how busty she is!
If this is a reference to a GAF post someone made I need a link ASAP.
Hilariously bad dating and relationship threads are the best threads.
I only texted her so far to verify that I got her number. This class is bullshit and I was serious about studying, but yea I see what your saying. I'll probably study with her and keep it focused on the work unless she wants to talk about other things. Thanks for your input.
I deleted myself on like 3 dating sites today. I'd rather know I'm not even on there then to check every now and then and getting nothing out of it anyway geez. Left only Tinder for now 'cause it's at least kinda fun, even when getting no matches at all. I'm really not made for online dating heh.
If I meet someone I will, if not I won't..Probably won't lol
This was me a year ago. I've worked out like crazy since then so I'm gonna give it another try soon.
But yeah, take a break if it fucks with your self confidence.
Not too bad! I've been out with 4 different girls since I've started dating again and I'm seeing 2 of them again. With one date tonight and the other tomorrow.By the way, how are your waves of multiple dates going?
I know this isn't friendship-age, but sweet christmas do I need to vent about this. That board game, Secret Hitler, is poised to split my board gaming group in two. Quote this to see the rest of it...warning, it's pretty fucked up.
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So damn bizarre. The group met right off a college campus, which made it great for meeting women. Gained three platonic female friends and two now-ex's from there.
Sounds like you're in Trouble!
How about you try some Sorry?
That awkward moment when a girl you're chatting to very nearly sends you something explicit meant for another guy she's about to fuck...
I should've clarified.How can she nearly send a message? She either did, or did not. Confused.
I really need to cut that number down...
We have a date arranged for Tuesday, but truthfully I'm treading incredibly carefully. She sounds quite nuts...
I should've clarified.
She sent me a message saying "I've got a free house tonight" and then sent me a panicked message 10 mins later asking what she sent me since one of the messages was for her "friend" and "quite personal".
She's away at her parents this week so it wasn't directed at me.
We have a date arranged for Tuesday, but truthfully I'm treading incredibly carefully. She sounds quite nuts...
I should've clarified.
She sent me a message saying "I've got a free house tonight" and then sent me a panicked message 10 mins later asking what she sent me since one of the messages was for her "friend" and "quite personal".
She's away at her parents this week so it wasn't directed at me.
We have a date arranged for Tuesday, but truthfully I'm treading incredibly carefully. She sounds quite nuts...
She can't even be bothered to text the right guy? Move on.
Yeah, I'm going to rethink the whole games night. Jesus Christ.
My personal trainer is setting me up on a date with one of her clients. Says she's very interested in getting coffee with me. No idea where this'll head, but it'll be fun.
Hey, don't blame the games! One may have started this, but it's a few core "friends" asshole-ness that got it to where it is.
She can't even be bothered to text the right guy? Move on.
Yeah. Like, if the roles were reversed and you sent her a text about being DTF meant for another girl, how would she react ? I don't think many girls would accept that.
She can bang whoever she wants so long as you're not in a relationship. She was probably excited to see that 'friend' and when she realised she fucked up, went into non-thinking panic mode. The asking you what she sent instead to checking the chat kinda supports that.
I have to disagree. Brother is going on a date. He isn't making her a wife. Who cares? Go on the date, have fun then evaluate from there. It's not like he has trouble getting dates. He has zero reasom to put huge stock in it as opposed to just having fun.