I just named some of the ONLY third person shooters available. The only major ones I'm missing are Uncharted which I haven't played yet and Binary Domain which is also better than The Order but I forgot about it until this post. And yes I'd argue that ME3 is a better overall gameplay experience than The Order.
I just don't see the point in having a sequel where it's clear they don't understand what good gameplay entails. Like okay great shooting feels nice too bad there isn't a single other remarkable thing about the gameplay. They tied rolling to a QTE for only one enemy for crying out loud. I thought that long fight against the Rebels with the marquis might have had infinitely respawning enemies because it dragged on for so long and you could clearly see the enemies coming out of their spawn points again and again. There's a gif floating around that shows this. When the frequency of encounters is as low as it was it's just hilarious that the few encounters that exist are mostly poor.
I just feel it excels in it's fundamentals. The cover based shooting just works, it works as well as anything I've ever played. There isn't much else to it, there's no real emphasis on verticality or mobility (like you'd see in a Vanquish, or even in an Uncharted). There's one combat encounter in-particular, that was spectacular, it's in either penultimate or final chapter, a medium sized room underground with pillars from the floor to the ceiling all over. It was just great fun, managing your Black-sight, constantly on the move from either flanks or new spawns, as well as just utilizing the aiming and shooting that feel masterclass. The feedback you get on enemies makes it just as much as weapon feel, the way the bodies take hits and blow apart really helps elevate those core fundamentals.
It's not the best third person shooter ever. But I had a really great time, and I'd love to see that series continue and evolve. It's got so much potential, some great fundamental gameplay and an incredible graphics engine. I'd welcome another game with open arms.