I agree with everything you just said. I don't know why but they don't seem to train Bernie volunteers how to act or handle situations: I can imagine they've paid the price sometimes. Even a staffer here I was told said he wanted Hillary to be killed by ISIS, which the other staffers disagree with and have spoken to him about his behavior.
I am by no means a perfect canvasser or phone banker, but I always try to be polite and respectful. I don't know how much of an affect that has, but I feel it's important to always give people a good impression of the people who support Bernie.
We should try to be polite and respectful, because, at the end of the day, we should be wanting the same things. We just disagree on how best to achieve those ends. That kind of debate is totally helpful. And we can totally get bitchy about it...and that's fine.
When I switched to Obama's team in 2008. they had training meetings where they drilled over and over the importance of not being a dick. I think a lot of supporters, and I'll even through that on both sides to be fair, need "Don't be a dick training."
One thing that I think fuels it, and I'm probably not going to be popular for saying this, is the complete and total bullshit Bernie's campaign throws out there. We had the whole "Hillary's going to flood the caucuses with people from other states" conspiracy theory. We had the "Microsoft is going to try and steal it" conspiracy theory. We have every newspaper who endorsed Hillary is working against Bernie. Now we have the coin flip conspiracy theory." These take hold among some of the more...ardent supporters because (for some, DEFINITELY NOT ALL) it's become a cult. Like, Bernie is the way, the truth and the light, and since Hillary (and by extension Hillarybots) stand in his noble path, we're all shit.
Like, in the Iowa Caucus thread, some people were bitching about older people messing this up for Bernie. They were mostly tongue in cheek (I hope) but were literally saying "It doesn't matter they'll be dead soon." That's such the wrong way to approach this. If someone is not feeling your guy/girl, figure out why and try to find a point of consensus. Like Hillary said, maybe we can't get the person to agree on the huge things, but we can find some small thing and work from there. It's better than throwing everyone under the doubledecker bus.
And, to prove I'm honest, I went on a rant last night about Hillary declaring victory. Shit pissed me off. Big time.
Also, and I know this probably doesn't really matter to anyone, but how awesome is it that a woman finally won the Iowa caucus! Another crack in that highest glass ceiling.