You're still dodging my counterexamples.
The panels from Action Comics #1 were misleading and disingenuous. You haven't admitted that.
The scene from Superman II in the bar doesn't have Superman intentional hurt someone or destroy their livelihood. They hurt themselves and he only embarrasses the guy.
Richard Donner's cut of Superman II has Zod alive. The version I saw as a child had Zod getting arrested (I'm not from the US; Europe got a different ending). The only version where Zod possibly dies (which is implied but not confirmed) was by a director who was brought on board after Donner was fired and who put in a LOT of scenes that didn't fit the character or tone of the other scenes or previous movie.
You want a Superman that's a violent, killing psychopath? I'm actually all for it.
Great story. Best DC comic series in ages. Really does a good job showing what Superman would be like if he eventually did start letting go of his morals, one by one.