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No man, it's funny. Ha funny funny story. I mean that was the intention of course
"senpai notice me"
No man, it's funny. Ha funny funny story. I mean that was the intention of course
I've been talking this girl on tinder and asked her on a movie date, she said yeah. She asked me what film. Told her that I want to go split, the movie that's coming out tomorrow. She hasn't replied. So nothing.
Whatever, basically I was going to go by myself. But I was like why not.
- I have been talking to more women in person, small talk. But next. I need to ask some out and get more experience.
I want to have fun, No more desperation.
I asked the girl out to a movie and lunch, so we're watching Split.
Movie alone isn't a great date.
Just jaggin' ya bro. I asked 4 girls out this weekend. Let's see who says yes.Hopefully someone...
Good luck, let us know how it goes.
I though I was over with girls, but I just realized it was only because I was surrounded by guys all the time in engineering classes so girls never crossed my mind. There is a new girl were I work that has brought back old feelings. Damn it. Going to try to make sure I don't see her/look in her direction. Shes a 10, 0 chance for me.
Why anyone with the minimum care for their job would use their I'm to talk dirty is beyond me LOL. I mean, you know your company holds records of those convos right? Situations like those may sound funny, but imagine having a meeting with your boss, and that pops up. I can't be the only one scratching my head here.
Oh boyI though I was over with girls, but I just realized it was only because I was surrounded by guys all the time in engineering classes so girls never crossed my mind. There is a new girl were I work that has brought back old feelings. Damn it. Going to try to make sure I don't see her/look in her direction. Shes a 10, 0 chance for me.
Just ask her out already.No man, it's funny. Ha funny funny story. I mean that was the intention of course
Ah right, Vancouver. Thanks. Wonder if we have any people here with success stories from there
well it wasn't the only thing that I would have planned out. others things too but yeah
Zack, your using tinder, right ?
You won't know it's a 0 chance if you don't ask her out. Put yourself out there, and who knows, she might click. If she rejects, hey, you don't have to pursue her anymore, so you can move on with your life. Why make life difficult?I though I was over with girls, but I just realized it was only because I was surrounded by guys all the time in engineering classes so girls never crossed my mind. There is a new girl were I work that has brought back old feelings. Damn it. Going to try to make sure I don't see her/look in her direction. Shes a 10, 0 chance for me.
I use EVERYTHING
one turned out to be a hooker ( -_-)
I use EVERYTHING
one turned out to be a hooker ( -_-)
Better luck with Thai hookers than Chinese I hope?
They have the best stories Zackie.
First tinder meeting in like...6 months? I don't remember the last time.
It seemed to be going fine but then the guy bailed after 20 minutes lmao. 😂
So after going on a dozen (mixed results) tinder/okc dates and getting laid a few times, I really feel like I've gotten a lot of "stuff" out of my system.
I'm not feeling as lonely or disconnected anymore. I feel sexually gratified, and desirable. It's nice!
Now though I feel like I see people for what they are with more clarity. I can distinguish things I like about them from things I don't much more easily without the sex goggles.
So to those that are having trouble with dates, it's still a worthwhile adventure. Don't worry about landing a winner so much as allowing yourself to learn and grow from these experiences.
That happened to me once, it was lame as hell.
Woke up feeling like shit today. Had a dream with my ex, she was already seeing other people, all that jazz.
Ended a 5 year relationship two weeks ago. I could not see any future with her, disliked her family, was scared as fuck about having a kid too.
I know it was for the best, and I missed my freedom, but sometimes I get sad about the whole thing.
I wish I could simply find someone new to swoop my world, but dating, in many aspects is a numbers game and I'm gonna get stomped.
Damn bro. Your whole post has me questioning my entire life lol.How about no, she doesn't?
Yep. Hopefully rjc is still reading.
Might be she and her boyfriend aren't an item anymore. She is definitely interested in you.
WHY?
I don't think she is looking for friendship. I think 1- she didn't expect you to back off for real and that got her (more, if she was already) interested 2- it's not just you resigning that got her to make a move.
You shouldn't have apologized though.
Here's the rundown: when you made a move on her and she rejected you, once you handled it "like a boss" you ended up as the cool guy. She knew/felt this put her at a disadvantage so she brought you back to the starting point by guilt-tripping you, the most powerful most ancient way to passive-aggressively obtain something from anybody.
Basically she made it look like you backing off wasn't something that came to you naturally, but something you forced onto yourself in order to punish her. It makes no sense to apologize for something you didn't do: have you ever heard of someone accused of say, murder, going like "I didn't kill this guy but I'm sorry people think I did it"?
...you wanted to take her to see a movie about a guy who abducts women? on a first date? Movies are terrible first dates to begin with, and that choice made it worse.
I though I was over with girls, but I just realized it was only because I was surrounded by guys all the time in engineering classes so girls never crossed my mind. There is a new girl were I work that has brought back old feelings. Damn it. Going to try to make sure I don't see her/look in her direction. Shes a 10, 0 chance for me.
Have you guys had feelings for multuple people all at once? If so then what did you do because I'm going through that feeling confused right now
...you wanted to take her to see a movie about a guy who abducts women? on a first date? Movies are terrible first dates to begin with, and that choice made it worse.
I took my gf to see Don't Breathe on our second date. I wouldn't have if I looked up the synopsis or parental warnings...
Such a good movie though.
I took my gf to see Don't Breathe on our second date. I wouldn't have if I looked up the synopsis or parental warnings...
alright Gaf help a homeboy out. So i met this chick a 2 years ago but she had bf at the time i made it clear that was interested in her if she ever became single and we stayed friends for a while, but we ended up having to stop talking because her bf got jealous and that was the end of it in my mind. fast forward six months later and shes hits me up out of nowhere we start texting normally and then I ask her why shes texting me and she said things have changed. So im going to met her this sunday and I really dont know what to expect since im not even sure if shes single or if she just wants to reconnect as friends or if she actually likes me.
alright Gaf help a homeboy out. So i met this chick a 2 years ago but she had bf at the time i made it clear that was interested in her if she ever became single and we stayed friends for a while, but we ended up having to stop talking because her bf got jealous and that was the end of it in my mind. fast forward six months later and shes hits me up out of nowhere we start texting normally and then I ask her why shes texting me and she said things have changed. So im going to met her this sunday and I really dont know what to expect since im not even sure if shes single or if she just wants to reconnect as friends or if she actually likes me.
Just meet her and get the basics. Are you single? If yes, okay lets go on a date. If no, bye brah.
At this point just meet and asknfor what you want. Nothing more you can do.
Vancouver. Apparently everyone there's all coked up.
At minimum, low self-esteem. Leeness paints herself as some horrible lizard person, when gaffers who've met her describe her as quite nice.
Ah right, Vancouver. Thanks. Wonder if we have any people here with success stories from there
I've been talking this girl on tinder and asked her on a movie date, she said yeah. She asked me what film. Told her that I want to go split, the movie that's coming out tomorrow. She hasn't replied. So nothing.
Hello it's me again !
I have this "crush" that I liked a lot during high school but felt like she didn't click with me, now we are both in (different) college, but she seems like to appreciate me way more when we talk on facebook. Before I was always the one to start conversation and she feels like bored of me quickly. these last weeks that was really the opposite, we talked a lot and now, she asked if I can go to bowling or movies with her after the finals, the thing I don't know is that she is talking about seeing me alone or with her friends (because we talked about that just before) but if it isn't the case I think I will go to the movies with her and maybe settle things with her. But to be honest I've never "dated" someone in this situation so I don't know how it will work out. Well what do you think guys ?
Hello it's me again !
I have this "crush" that I liked a lot during high school but felt like she didn't click with me, now we are both in (different) college, but she seems like to appreciate me way more when we talk on facebook. Before I was always the one to start conversation and she feels like bored of me quickly. these last weeks that was really the opposite, we talked a lot and now, she asked if I can go to bowling or movies with her after the finals, the thing I don't know is that she is talking about seeing me alone or with her friends (because we talked about that just before) but if it isn't the case I think I will go to the movies with her and maybe settle things with her. But to be honest I've never "dated" someone in this situation so I don't know how it will work out. Well what do you think guys ?
Two different opinions hmmmmm
I think Miles and I gave you pretty similar advice. Ask her on a date.
I'm sorry, you can't just take the thread title and throw it in everyone's face. It's not like 95% of the issues people have can be solved with one simple line.
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I think Miles and I gave you pretty similar advice. Ask her on a date.
right but one miles says that I should said clearly to her this is date which is not your case haha
I'm sorry, you can't just take the thread title and throw it in everyone's face. It's not like 95% of the issues people have can be solved with one simple line.
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Sorry Kyne. I know I'm breaking the rules. I'll try to be more vague with my advice in future
Heard it's a good movie, I wanted to go see it. So like I said, I was going to go by myself and since she told me that she doesn't do much/ go out. I was like you want to go ? so yeah
I also wanted to go see la la land because that's also good, but would think that film would kinda be awkward with all the romance and split just seemed like a film that would be interesting and surprising being a thriller. But oh well, One ticket please...
So ive been seeing this girl now for a few weeks. Shes amazing, vibrant and cheerful lady. Im not a relationship kinda guy, but after meeting her a few months back i instantly knew this one lady is a keeper.
I even said to my friends as a New Years goal, that i would like to have a steady relationship with her. My friends thought i was crazy as i never spoke about women the way i do about her.
Today we were on a date and talking about serious stuff and told her how i really felt about her. She started hugging me and said she had something to share as well. She has cancer.
Im fkkn broken now, just needed to vent.
Dude I'm so sorry be with her still if you feel you can handle that. What type of cancer and what stage is it at?
So ive been seeing this girl now for a few weeks. Shes amazing, vibrant and cheerful lady. Im not a relationship kinda guy, but after meeting her a few months back i instantly knew this one lady is a keeper.
I even said to my friends as a New Years goal, that i would like to have a steady relationship with her. My friends thought i was crazy as i never spoke about women the way i do about her.
Today we were on a date and talking about serious stuff and told her how i really felt about her. She started hugging me and said she had something to share as well. She has cancer.
Im fkkn broken now, just needed to vent.