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[Leeness]

just judging his capacity to be an axe murderer

meh, maybe he just gets bored/drunk and shoots the shit hoping you respond.

Well, he doesn't have my number or where I live, so hoping nothing else will come of it other than internet stalking.

And I doubt it. He sends "why are you ignoring me", "why", "why", types of messages. For a while, he pretended like we hadn't met before, like I'd hopefully forgotten him so I'd respond again? I don't know. But now he's back to "why", "why". I'm sure if I said WHY, it would turn into "well why are women such bitches", so I'm not going to be telling him "why".

 

[Advocatus Diaboli]

Well, he doesn't have my number or where I live, so hoping nothing else will come of it other than internet stalking.

And I doubt it. He sends "why are you ignoring me", "why", "why", types of messages. For a while, he pretended like we hadn't met before, like I'd hopefully forgotten him so I'd respond again? I don't know. But now he's back to "why", "why". I'm sure if I said WHY, it would turn into "well why are women such bitches", so I'm not going to be telling him "why".

I'm going to steal that dude's string of messages, file off the serial numbers, and put it in the next OT. More people need to adopt the "one and done; but in rare cases, maybe twice is nice" mentality.

Just read the fucking signals correctly, am I right?

 

[WolfeTone]

Well, he doesn't have my number or where I live, so hoping nothing else will come of it other than internet stalking.

And I doubt it. He sends "why are you ignoring me", "why", "why", types of messages. For a while, he pretended like we hadn't met before, like I'd hopefully forgotten him so I'd respond again? I don't know. But now he's back to "why", "why". I'm sure if I said WHY, it would turn into "well why are women such bitches", so I'm not going to be telling him "why".

It sucks that you're still going through this. You're definitely handling it the right way. Just continue to block him and never engage. At this point he's just looking for any kind of attention.

 

[Leeness]

I'm going to steal that dude's string of messages, file off the serial numbers, and put it in the next OT. More people need to adopt the "one and done; but in rare cases, maybe twice is nice" mentality.

Just read the fucking signals correctly, am I right?

I haven't kept most of them, I don't keep the screenshots because they're not funny There's today's though, and if you scroll back on FB to last month, I probably sent you one then.

It sucks that you're still going through this. You're definitely handling it the right way. Just continue to block him and never engage. At this point he's just looking for any kind of attention.

Block, report, block, report. :/

 

[LordKasual]

Well, he doesn't have my number or where I live, so hoping nothing else will come of it other than internet stalking.

And I doubt it. He sends "why are you ignoring me", "why", "why", types of messages. For a while, he pretended like we hadn't met before, like I'd hopefully forgotten him so I'd respond again? I don't know. But now he's back to "why", "why". I'm sure if I said WHY, it would turn into "well why are women such bitches", so I'm not going to be telling him "why".

Damn. rough.

my gut tells me you were like the first date he's had in [forever] and he wasn't prepared for the rejection

but im not smart enough to analyze psychos, so i got nothing lol. just keep ignoring him i guess : /

Edit:

Ok GAF. Thread contribution.

so some chick came into my office last week. I draw blood, and she was a particularly hard stick. I'm searching for veins on her arms, not much luck. You kind of have to keep it funny around people when you're poking them with needles. Eventually, she subtly drops a sexual joke, which I laugh at. I think nothing much of it, until she makes another, at which point I start playing along. I finish up, she leaves, we joke, blah blah. Leaves, comes back with a sheet of paper with her number on it. Boom.

PLOT TWIST she's like 40 years old. She wants to go on a date...like, a legit date. This week.

I kind of don't want to? Not really my type. Would smash? But not really? But I guess?

Anyway, seeing as she's nearly 15 years older than me....uh, am I missing anything? Other than the obvious? No husband, but 3 kids.

Should I just go with my gut and abort? Or see how deep the rabbit hole goes?

 

[Advocatus Diaboli]

She clearly wants to smash. You don't. I feel like this has resolved itself.

 

[Megalosaro]

Don't do anything youre not comfortable with. You are both consenting adults. You have the right to say no.

If you want to bone, then bone. But be honest with her about what you want. Let her know.

You should try hanging out with an older woman though. Trust me, it's nice.

 

[Advocatus Diaboli]

Don't do anything youre not comfortable with. You are both consenting adults. You have the right to say no.

If you want to bone, then bone. But be honest with her about what you want. Let her know.

You should try hanging out with an older woman though. Trust me, it's nice.

Agreed with all this.

Except the older woman thing. Just not for me -- I can't do older than me (but hey, I'm old). And hey, more for you guys.

 

[WolfeTone]

I'm down to date older, but the opportunities rarely arise. Oldest is maybe 3 years older than me.

Sounds like you're not into her though. Which is the essential thing in all these age related discussions (baring legal issues obviously.)

 

[Subpar Scrub]

I'm down to date older, but the opportunities rarely arise. Oldest is maybe 3 years older than me.

Yeah, oldest I've even had interest from is like 6 years older than me and 99% of them have kids or are way too pedantic about what they're after in a relationship.

 

[Thorgal]

One observation I made while using Tinder:

Apparently every single girl in my vicinity Is obsessed over Sushi.

 

[gaiages]

Here is a question for you guys.

How acceptable is it to discuss personal finances with your SO?

Things are moving in a direction where I feel the topic should come up. We have a few things in the works that requires financial planning and I kind of want to get her involved because

A-She's an accountant so money advice is appreciated
B-I want her to know more about me
C-I want to plan in a fiscally responsible and sustainable fashion.

At 4 months, is it kosher to show her my excel budget?

Sure, but I can tell you first hand not all accountants know how to budget personal expenses.

Trust me, I work with a shitton of them.

I'm going to steal that dude's string of messages, file off the serial numbers, and put it in the next OT. More people need to adopt the "one and done; but in rare cases, maybe twice is nice" mentality.

Just read the fucking signals correctly, am I right?

Dating GAF |OT7| Just read the fucking signals already

 

[Advocatus Diaboli]

One observation I made while using Tinder:

Apparently every single girl in my vicinity Is obsessed over Sushi.

Plus brunch, dogs, vino, and squad goals. 🤷

I like basic bitches. What can I say? Blasting T-Swift while apple picking sounds fantastic to me.

 

[Ozorov]

Going to a date today with a girl that deleted me on tinder before (We had semi-plans on meeting that time) without saying anything, haven't asked her about that and I don't think tonight will be a good time either. We matched again a couple of days ago and she started to write and added me on snap etc. Let's see how this goes.

 

[MogCakes]

Well, he doesn't have my number or where I live, so hoping nothing else will come of it other than internet stalking.

And I doubt it. He sends "why are you ignoring me", "why", "why", types of messages. For a while, he pretended like we hadn't met before, like I'd hopefully forgotten him so I'd respond again? I don't know. But now he's back to "why", "why". I'm sure if I said WHY, it would turn into "well why are women such bitches", so I'm not going to be telling him "why".

Dude sounds like a real creep and dangerous. I have no doubt he is trying to fish out your real information too. I'm sorry you have to deal with this.

 

[jessicar]

Going to a date today with a girl that deleted me on tinder before (We had semi-plans on meeting that time) without saying anything, haven't asked her about that and I don't think tonight will be a good time either. We matched again a couple of days ago and she started to write and added me on snap etc. Let's see how this goes.

This could get awkward fast.

 

[Megalosaro]

Girl wants me to come with her on a family weekend getaway coming up, but I feel pretty guilty because I don't want to distract from her bonding time with her family.

Should I go?

 

[Ralemont]

Girl wants me to come with her on a family weekend getaway coming up, but I feel pretty guilty because I don't want to distract from her bonding time with her family.

Should I go?

If you want to go and she wants you to go, you should go. It's her family; she doesn't need bonding time. Plus she probably wants to show you off.

 

[Megalosaro]

They already know me lol. Apparently the mom and sister adore me and think I'm the best boyfriend shes ever had.

Regarding the bonding time. I'm not sure I agree. Their grandmother died a month c ago, so they are mourning her.

 

[LucidMomentum]

Girl wants me to come with her on a family weekend getaway coming up, but I feel pretty guilty because I don't want to distract from her bonding time with her family.

Should I go?

Breh, maybe she wants you to be part of the family eventually.

If you're down and she's down, go for it.

 

[gaiages]

They already know me lol. Apparently the mom and sister adore me and think I'm the best boyfriend I've ever had.

Regarding the bonding time. I'm not sure I agree. Their grandmother died a month c ago, so they are mourning her.

Hmmmmm

 

[Puck Beaverton]

if she wants you to go you should go

 

[WolfeTone]

Girl wants me to come with her on a family weekend getaway coming up, but I feel pretty guilty because I don't want to distract from her bonding time with her family.

Should I go?

Yeah you should go if you want to go. She's trying to include you in family events because she cares deeply about you.

 

[TheLostBigBoss]

Hmmmmm

the first rule of dating is to make sure you love thyself

 

[Leeness]

Dude sounds like a real creep and dangerous. I have no doubt he is trying to fish out your real information too. I'm sorry you have to deal with this.

It's all good. I'm sure it'll be fine, it's just kind of annoying/a bit disturbing. :/

 

[LordKasual]

She clearly wants to smash. You don't. I feel like this has resolved itself.

Right??

But i was just trying to talk myself into thinking it would be a "worth it" experience. I was hoping someone could peer pressure me into it lol....

Sounds like you're not into her though. Which is the essential thing in all these age related discussions (baring legal issues obviously.)

But you're right, it has already resolved itself. I'm not going to.

Don't do anything youre not comfortable with. You are both consenting adults. You have the right to say no.

If you want to bone, then bone. But be honest with her about what you want. Let her know.

You should try hanging out with an older woman though. Trust me, it's nice.

...Thinking about it, all of the women i'm close to are older than me by a minimum of 3 years. Also grew up in a house (and extended family) full of women, I got maybe 2 male relatives close to me in age, and again, that's a minimum of 3 years apart.

I guess the problem isn't really her mental age...she's actually quite attractive in conversation. It's just the fact that i'm not really physically attracted to her.

Oh well.

This could get awkward fast.

Nah, it's fine.

He literally has no reason to bring it up.

Just be honest. Or don't.

The girl who took my virginity had no idea (I think).

Man...The girl who took my virginity (freshman year in college, late bloomer????) was some chick i was crushing on suuuuuuuuper hard. (roommate's girlfriend's best friend)

But I had anxious dick, and couldn't finish, and had no real idea if I was doing it right, so i just kind of pretended like I finished and stopped and we went to sleep.

Learned from her friend that she thought I wasn't enjoying it or something, and wanted to sleep over again that night. (an ego thing on her end, apparently. )

It was at that point that she told her that I was a virgin, and apparently was like "Ohhhhhh." Like the whole experienced clicked. She didn't think I would have been a virgin.


She'll probably know.

 

[dreamcastmaster]

Hmmmmm

Apart from the typo, sounds like asian family marrage pressure!

 

[artsi]

Going to a date today with a girl that deleted me on tinder before (We had semi-plans on meeting that time) without saying anything, haven't asked her about that and I don't think tonight will be a good time either. We matched again a couple of days ago and she started to write and added me on snap etc. Let's see how this goes.

If you matched again she didn't unmatch you, she deleted her profile and registered again.

Had that happen and did it myself many times.

 

[Ozorov]

If you matched again she didn't unmatch you, she deleted her profile and registered again.

Had that happen and did it myself many times.

Okey I see.

 

[Thorgal]

Second observation I made on tinder:

Almost Every girl uses the dog snapchat filter.

 

[PancakeBurglar]

Second observation I made on tinder:

Almost Every girl uses the dog snapchat filter.

Hate that filter with a passion.

 

[Jintor]

Second observation I made on tinder:

Almost Every girl uses the dog snapchat filter.

i don't understand this at all

it looks like a dog

 

[Raptomex]

Second observation I made on tinder:

Almost Every girl uses the dog snapchat filter.

Yeah, I remember when this started.

 

[Beren the Empty-Handed]

Second observation I made on tinder:

Almost Every girl uses the dog snapchat filter.

Yeah it was slightly interesting the first time. Seeing it for the 100th time not so much.

 

[Alpende]

i don't understand this at all

it looks like a dog

Don't they use it to hide their nose or something like that. I don't like it either.

 

[Megalosaro]

I hate it too. It's not cute. It's annoying

 

[PancakeBurglar]

How often do you guys text girls you've gone out on a few dates with and have had sex with? While I agree to keep texting to making plans before you meet, at this point would texting everyday or every other day be cool or too much.

 

[Megalosaro]

Rule of thumb when texting:

If you have something interesting to say, text her. If you dont, don't text her.

Early on, I let her make the first moves when texting. I always wanted to text her bit knew that was a bad idea. We would still text every day.

 

[smisk]

Second observation I made on tinder:

Almost Every girl uses the dog snapchat filter.

Don't understand this at all. I thought it was a furry thing when I first saw it. But I swear every other girl uses it.

 

[PancakeBurglar]

Rule of thumb when texting:

If you have something interesting to say, text her. If you dont, don't text her.

Early on, I let her make the first moves when texting. I always wanted to text her bit knew that was a bad idea. We would still text every day.

I never text things like hey or sup. I figure its nice to just let the other person you are thinking of them though.

 

[Advocatus Diaboli]

Rule of thumb when texting:

If you have something interesting to say, text her. If you dont, don't text her.

Early on, I let her make the first moves when texting. I always wanted to text her bit knew that was a bad idea. We would still text every day.

Mega is gonna help write the next OT. This is good stuff.

 

[Dylan Sexbang]

Grill coworker invited me to her book club after we had to cancel hike plans. She seemed pretty determined to make it happen, even tempting me with my sweet love of beer. but like- going to a book club with a bunch of people I don't know, for a book I'm not reading, with a girl I've only gone out once with seemed kinda- I dunno. What's the word? Awkward. I think she's cute, but I'd rather just like push it off until next time. The plan totally doesn't work with my subpar social skills either. Feels bad.

Faux edit: and I have a cousin coming into town after a 12 hour drive tonight, maybe that'll get me a pass on this idea for now.

 

[gaiages]

Grill coworker invited me to her book club after we had to cancel hike plans. She seemed pretty determined to make it happen, even tempting me with my sweet love of beer. but like- going to a book club with a bunch of people I don't know, for a book I'm not reading, with a girl I've only gone out once with seemed kinda- I dunno. What's the word? Awkward. I think she's cute, but I'd rather just like push it off until next time. The plan totally doesn't work with my subpar social skills either. Feels bad.

Faux edit: and I have a cousin coming into town after a 12 hour drive tonight, maybe that'll get me a pass on this idea for now.

Why not trying to read some of the book?

 

[Dylan Sexbang]

Why not trying to read some of the book?

Think I'm going to, I turned her down tonight- but tomorrow when I see her at work I'll try to reschedule it, and find out what book it is! I can catch up no matter how far they are in a week. And then we have a hike planned for Wednesday, and I think her book club meets Tues/Thurs- so that way I can arrange something that's her plans too! IF everything goes according to plan!

 

[vern]

How often do you guys text girls you've gone out on a few dates with and have had sex with? While I agree to keep texting to making plans before you meet, at this point would texting everyday or every other day be cool or too much.

After you've had sex the only time you should be texting her is to arrange the next time for sex... unless you actually like her and wanna date or something crazy like that.

 

[duxstar]

You were all right ..... im on the back end of a crazy episode with this girl. The sad part is i tried my hardest to make it work, probably too hard. Im just tired of dating and want the next stage of my life

 

[LookAtMeGo]

Yo Leeness. Next time I go to the mainland I'll let you know and then you can set up a date with stalker dude and then you can just let me know where and when to meet him.

Spoiler

i dont want to die

 

[Llyranor]

Ffs people, don't lust after your pretend "best friend" for years on end.

 

[Mr Solo Dolo]

I ain't saying go out and get tattooed, but damn it's crazy the amount of matches I've gotten on Tinder after taking some decent pics where you can see my arm tattoos.

 

[Leeness]

Yo Leeness. Next time I go to the mainland I'll let you know and then you can set up a date with stalker dude and then you can just let me know where and when to meet him.

Spoiler

i dont want to die

Okay :O

Spoiler

You won't die.

...and we won't actually do this. Lol.