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Sibylus

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Pamplemousse said:
This sounds really beautiful to me. I don't think I could be a part of anything like it since I'm pretty self conscious about my body.
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I was really down on my body a few years ago, transition has turned me into an urban farmgirl who loves to show off skin and tease.

And such a relationship may not be for you if you're wanting sex from many parties all the time, lol. Are you content being with one partner for long stretches and gradual exploration with good people?

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Haly said:
Sounds satanic and communist!
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Well, I am Canadian.
 
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Mostmanlyman

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I got invited to watch the super bowl today with some friends that i kinda know, like i wanted to go but i was so tired from this weekend and just kinda done with social stuff for this weekend. I had met so many people this weekend and going to the concert that it all drained me.
This probably one of the first years where i havent watched the superbowl in a long time, i dont really care about sports that much anymore.
 
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CornBurrito

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Pamplemousse said:
Enjoying solitude does not make you a lazy coward! If you need to talk just PM me, and I can make you feel better when I visit Ohio.
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No the issue goes far deeper than that. I think it stems as far back as 5th grade.

Until 5th grade, I had a very close knit group of friends. We hung out at recess, played yugioh, played video games, ate lunch together. It was all very good. Then puberty starts to hit. Their interests shift away from those things. To girls, guitar, football. 3 things I never really developed any interest in. I was all noticeably smaller and weaker than the rest of the guys in class. I think that took quite a toll on my self confidence. And until 7th grade I really had no close friends. Then in 7th grade I developed a close friendship with two girls. One of the girls ended up falling in love with me which really made the friendship super awkward and bad. But the main point is that I went from having a solid group of male friends, to two female friends. And both of those girls were fairly unpopular. Never got invited to parties really. So I think I ended up becoming a bit socially stunted. I never really developed the skills to handle larger groups of people. Or even medium groups of people.

And I realize this, but I don't have the work ethic to fix it. Or I'm too much of a coward to fix it. I could force myself to go to bars and clubs, but I just can't do it. Not alone I don't think. But the problem is I can't make a friend that will do that stuff with me. Or at least not a friend in this area. And then I fear if I make a friend willing to do that, they'll discover what a loser I am. Like I went to get drinks/dinner with my coworkers after work. I ended up asking some question and then one of them asked me how many people I've slept with. I told them it wasn't their business and they said "that means zero." And then I said some low but nonzero number. Which I mean is still in loser territory but them thinking it was zero would have been worse. But the fact that they even asked that means that just from a single dinner they could tell there was something faulty with me.

And then if all that doesn't turn someone away, and I make a friend willing to go out into the world with me, that person basically would be a security blanket. Which would almost certainly turn them away. Because nobody wants someone to have to practically cling to them in order to be able to go to some large party.

Idk... I want to go out. I want to travel. I want to see the world. But I'm too big a coward to do it alone, and too lazy/scared to take the steps necessary to change that.
 
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Pamplemousse

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Sibylus said:
And such a relationship may not be for you if you're wanting sex from many parties all the time, lol. Are you content being with one partner for long stretches and gradual exploration with good people?

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Those are some nice legs. 😋
I would be comfortable letting my SO maybe be with another person if he truly loved that other person, but I can't imagine myself with anyone, let alone multiple ppl.
Mostmanlyman said:
I got invited to watch the super bowl today with some friends that i kinda know, like i wanted to go but i was so tired from this weekend and just kinda done with social stuff for this weekend. I had met so many people this weekend and going to the concert that it all drained me.
This probably one of the first years where i havent watched the superbowl in a long time, i dont really care about sports that much anymore.
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I've literally never watched the Pooper Bowl, so don't feel bad. ;-)
 
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Veeboy

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Everybody is downstairs watching the Superbowl and I'm just upstairs in my room crying after finishing Life is Strange for the first time.
CornBurrito said:
No the issue goes far deeper than that. I think it stems as far back as 5th grade.

Until 5th grade, I had a very close knit group of friends. We hung out at recess, played yugioh, played video games, ate lunch together. It was all very good. Then puberty starts to hit. Their interests shift away from those things. To girls, guitar, football. 3 things I never really developed any interest in. I was all noticeably smaller and weaker than the rest of the guys in class. I think that took quite a toll on my self confidence. And until 7th grade I really had no close friends. Then in 7th grade I developed a close friendship with two girls. One of the girls ended up falling in love with me which really made the friendship super awkward and bad. But the main point is that I went from having a solid group of male friends, to two female friends. And both of those girls were fairly unpopular. Never got invited to parties really. So I think I ended up becoming a bit socially stunted. I never really developed the skills to handle larger groups of people. Or even medium groups of people.

And I realize this, but I don't have the work ethic to fix it. Or I'm too much of a coward to fix it. I could force myself to go to bars and clubs, but I just can't do it. Not alone I don't think. But the problem is I can't make a friend that will do that stuff with me. Or at least not a friend in this area. And then I fear if I make a friend willing to do that, they'll discover what a loser I am. Like I went to get drinks/dinner with my coworkers after work. I ended up asking some question and then one of them asked me how many people I've slept with. I told them it wasn't their business and they said "that means zero." And then I said some low but nonzero number. Which I mean is still in loser territory but them thinking it was zero would have been worse. But the fact that they even asked that means that just from a single dinner they could tell there was something faulty with me.

And then if all that doesn't turn someone away, and I make a friend willing to go out into the world with me, that person basically would be a security blanket. Which would almost certainly turn them away. Because nobody wants someone to have to practically cling to them in order to be able to go to some large party.

Idk... I want to go out. I want to travel. I want to see the world. But I'm too big a coward to do it alone, and too lazy/scared to take the steps necessary to change that.
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Your story doesn't sound too dissimilar from mine honestly. I can't honestly say much in the way of 'it gets better' since I just recently started going to therapy, but I can say that this type of thinking:

Like I went to get drinks/dinner with my coworkers after work. I ended up asking some question and then one of them asked me how many people I've slept with. I told them it wasn't their business and they said "that means zero." And then I said some low but nonzero number. Which I mean is still in loser territory but them thinking it was zero would have been worse. But the fact that they even asked that means that just from a single dinner they could tell there was something faulty with me.
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is the kind of stuff that can lead us to become walled up within ourselves. I spent my entire time in college without making any friends because I was always so concerned with exactly that thought. If I let someone into my world they will see just how sheltered or stupid or socially uncoordinated I I am. Its difficult to combat that kind of thinking because when we keep telling ourselves that while walling ourselves off from others we only have our own voice to listen to and we are forced to believe the harsh words we tell ourselves. I'm not going to pretend that no one is going to care about your lack of social graces and experience (real or imagined), but we have to realize that we're imperfect and no one expects us to be perfect.

I don't know what I'm trying to say really and maybe my post is filled with meaningless sentimentalisms, but I guess if you ever need to talk about anything you can always message me.
 
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RatskyWatsky

Hunky Nostradamus
CornBurrito said:
Like I went to get drinks/dinner with my coworkers after work. I ended up asking some question and then one of them asked me how many people I've slept with. I told them it wasn't their business and they said "that means zero." And then I said some low but nonzero number. Which I mean is still in loser territory but them thinking it was zero would have been worse. But the fact that they even asked that means that just from a single dinner they could tell there was something faulty with me.
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Fake it till you make it.

Idk... I want to travel. I want to see the world. But I'm too big a coward to do it alone, and too lazy/scared to take the steps necessary to change that.
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Give me your credit card # and I'll buy you a single - non refundable - plane ticket to Paris. From there, you can trek across Europe and you'll be forced to talk to people in order to survive.
 
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Deleted member 465307

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CornBurrito said:
No the issue goes far deeper than that. I think it stems as far back as 5th grade.

Until 5th grade, I had a very close knit group of friends. We hung out at recess, played yugioh, played video games, ate lunch together. It was all very good. Then puberty starts to hit. Their interests shift away from those things. To girls, guitar, football. 3 things I never really developed any interest in. I was all noticeably smaller and weaker than the rest of the guys in class. I think that took quite a toll on my self confidence. And until 7th grade I really had no close friends. Then in 7th grade I developed a close friendship with two girls. One of the girls ended up falling in love with me which really made the friendship super awkward and bad. But the main point is that I went from having a solid group of male friends, to two female friends. And both of those girls were fairly unpopular. Never got invited to parties really. So I think I ended up becoming a bit socially stunted. I never really developed the skills to handle larger groups of people. Or even medium groups of people.

And I realize this, but I don't have the work ethic to fix it. Or I'm too much of a coward to fix it. I could force myself to go to bars and clubs, but I just can't do it. Not alone I don't think. But the problem is I can't make a friend that will do that stuff with me. Or at least not a friend in this area. And then I fear if I make a friend willing to do that, they'll discover what a loser I am. Like I went to get drinks/dinner with my coworkers after work. I ended up asking some question and then one of them asked me how many people I've slept with. I told them it wasn't their business and they said "that means zero." And then I said some low but nonzero number. Which I mean is still in loser territory but them thinking it was zero would have been worse. But the fact that they even asked that means that just from a single dinner they could tell there was something faulty with me.

And then if all that doesn't turn someone away, and I make a friend willing to go out into the world with me, that person basically would be a security blanket. Which would almost certainly turn them away. Because nobody wants someone to have to practically cling to them in order to be able to go to some large party.

Idk... I want to go out. I want to travel. I want to see the world. But I'm too big a coward to do it alone, and too lazy/scared to take the steps necessary to change that.
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What is up with that bolded part? Did you ask them a similar question? Or make some comment about sex that they then took as a sign of ignorance? Because that question is a weird one and really needs the proper context for that to be okay. I hope you're imagining the fact that they'd see virgins as "losers" because I can't imagine wanting to be friends with or work with people who see that in that way. Based on your story, I'd say your coworkers really suck, but I don't have the full story, so I'll hold off on that judgment.

As for everything else, I'd say start with small steps. Focus on making a close friend or two first, and if you fail in the beginning, don't take it as a sign that you always will.

If someone genuinely cares about you and can understand your situation, I think they'll be willing to help you to some degree with going out. I mean, I would. The phrase that comes to mind is "Kindness begets kindness." But first, I think you should start with making some close friends and then go from there, trying not to assume how people will act. What you're hoping to achieve could naturally develop once things get moving.
 
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CornBurrito

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kirbyfan407 said:
What is up with that bolded part? Did you ask them a similar question? Or make some comment about sex that they then took as a sign of ignorance? Because that question is a weird one and really needs the proper context for that to be okay. I hope you're imagining the fact that they'd see virgins as "losers" because I can't imagine wanting to be friends with or work with people who see that in that way. Based on your story, I'd say your coworkers really suck, but I don't have the full story, so I'll hold off on that judgment.

As for everything else, I'd say start with small steps. Focus on making a close friend or two first, and if you fail in the beginning, don't take it as a sign that you always will.

If someone genuinely cares about you and can understand your situation, I think they'll be willing to help you to some degree with going out. I mean, I would. The phrase that comes to mind is "Kindness begets kindness." But first, I think you should start with making some close friends and then go from there, trying not to assume how people will act. What you're hoping to achieve could naturally develop once things get moving.
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Yeah. They made some hand gesture that I was pretty sure was "fingering a vagina" or something, and then asked for confirmation.

I dont think they realize I'm gay.

I also don't know how/where to make a close friend. I work full time. I dont think I'll get close to coworkers.
 
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Pamplemousse

Member
CornBurrito said:
I ended up asking some question and then one of them asked me how many people I've slept with. I told them it wasn't their business and they said "that means zero." And then I said some low but nonzero number. Which I mean is still in loser territory but them thinking it was zero would have been worse. But the fact that they even asked that means that just from a single dinner they could tell there was something faulty with me.
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First of all, my cutiepie CornBurrito, it sounds like that guy is a total asshole. Anyone who would look down on you for the number of sexual encounters you've had isn't someone you want to befriend. Nothing is "faulty" with you. Don't be so quick to blame yourself! Waiting for the right guy to be intimate with is the smart choice.

It sounds to me like you just can't find the right people to be friends with, and trust me when I say that in your entire lifetime you might be lucky to have one or two REALLY good friends. Don't worry about it. I'm a bit of a misanthrope, so I find few if any ppl who I would ever consider befriending. Most ppl aren't worth it, and finding the few diamonds in the rough is difficult.
 
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MetalGearZed

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CornBurrito said:
No the issue goes far deeper than that. I think it stems as far back as 5th grade.

Until 5th grade, I had a very close knit group of friends. We hung out at recess, played yugioh, played video games, ate lunch together. It was all very good. Then puberty starts to hit. Their interests shift away from those things. To girls, guitar, football. 3 things I never really developed any interest in. I was all noticeably smaller and weaker than the rest of the guys in class. I think that took quite a toll on my self confidence. And until 7th grade I really had no close friends. Then in 7th grade I developed a close friendship with two girls. One of the girls ended up falling in love with me which really made the friendship super awkward and bad. But the main point is that I went from having a solid group of male friends, to two female friends. And both of those girls were fairly unpopular. Never got invited to parties really. So I think I ended up becoming a bit socially stunted. I never really developed the skills to handle larger groups of people. Or even medium groups of people.

And I realize this, but I don't have the work ethic to fix it. Or I'm too much of a coward to fix it. I could force myself to go to bars and clubs, but I just can't do it. Not alone I don't think. But the problem is I can't make a friend that will do that stuff with me. Or at least not a friend in this area. And then I fear if I make a friend willing to do that, they'll discover what a loser I am. Like I went to get drinks/dinner with my coworkers after work. I ended up asking some question and then one of them asked me how many people I've slept with. I told them it wasn't their business and they said "that means zero." And then I said some low but nonzero number. Which I mean is still in loser territory but them thinking it was zero would have been worse. But the fact that they even asked that means that just from a single dinner they could tell there was something faulty with me.

And then if all that doesn't turn someone away, and I make a friend willing to go out into the world with me, that person basically would be a security blanket. Which would almost certainly turn them away. Because nobody wants someone to have to practically cling to them in order to be able to go to some large party.

Idk... I want to go out. I want to travel. I want to see the world. But I'm too big a coward to do it alone, and too lazy/scared to take the steps necessary to change that.
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CB you're making me want to spill my story of social inadequacy.
but gaf will have to drag it out of me
i do feel you though. i wish people wore more of their heart on their sleeves but....idk. im too young to give you the proper advice

Seath said:
I thought his wall was on fire.



FOMO?

When in doubt, challange your crush to fighting game match. Particularly mortal kombat.
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FOMO--->Fear Of Missing Out
i would but i never solidified our friendship (we were like 80% there) while we had class together to begin with. now i wish i reached out to him more knowing what i know now. i dont know if he's gay but i stalk him pretty hard on social media
and a little bit irl
and he's never seemed to have with a girl or a guy. but it doesn't matter because im in 12th hes in 11th and im never gonna see him again.😑
 
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CornBurrito said:
Yeah. They made some hand gesture that I was pretty sure was "fingering a vagina" or something, and then asked for confirmation.

I dont think they realize I'm gay.

I also don't know how/where to make a close friend. I work full time. I dont think I'll get close to coworkers.
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Was it the classic *index finger going through circle made with other hand*? I think I first encountered that on a TV show as a euphemism for sex, but I don't know if I've ever seen anyone do it in real life unironically.

Probably not. Woo heteronormativity.

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My suggestions would be:

1) Give your coworkers a chance and see if things improve.
2) If you give your coworkers enough of a chance that you meet their friends, maybe one of them is cool.
3) Find an activity to do on weekends that involves people. This could be sports leagues, hobby groups and clubs, church, etc.
4) Reconnect with old elementary/middle/high school or college acquaintances in your area and see where that leads.
5) Think of something else that I can't (e.g., networks local to your area, past groups you've been a part of) and try those leads.
 
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Mostmanlyman

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kirbyfan407 said:
What is up with that bolded part? Did you ask them a similar question? Or make some comment about sex that they then took as a sign of ignorance? Because that question is a weird one and really needs the proper context for that to be okay. I hope you're imagining the fact that they'd see virgins as "losers" because I can't imagine wanting to be friends with or work with people who see that in that way. Based on your story, I'd say your coworkers really suck, but I don't have the full story, so I'll hold off on that judgment.

As for everything else, I'd say start with small steps. Focus on making a close friend or two first, and if you fail in the beginning, don't take it as a sign that you always will.

If someone genuinely cares about you and can understand your situation, I think they'll be willing to help you to some degree with going out. I mean, I would. The phrase that comes to mind is "Kindness begets kindness." But first, I think you should start with making some close friends and then go from there, trying not to assume how people will act. What you're hoping to achieve could naturally develop once things get moving.
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Yeah thats a pretty mean thing to say. I hate when you dont want to answer something and then they got to be assholes and do stuff like that. I usually defend people when others start doing that to them, because it is a really annoying and shitty thing to do and its happen to me so i know how it feels.

Yeah i never really get why some people hold sex as such a high level and base how they see other on it. Like i WAY rather actually find some that i have legit feelings than just having sex with some one. Like thats another reason why im taking the who dating thing slowly.
 
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CornBurrito

Member
kirbyfan407 said:
Was it the classic *index finger going through circle made with other hand*? I think I first encountered that on a TV show as a euphemism for sex, but I don't know if I've ever seen anyone do it in real life unironically.

Probably not. Woo heteronormativity.
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No. More like flicking a clitoris I think?
 
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umop_3pisdn

Member
CornBurrito said:
No the issue goes far deeper than that. I think it stems as far back as 5th grade.

Until 5th grade, I had a very close knit group of friends. We hung out at recess, played yugioh, played video games, ate lunch together. It was all very good. Then puberty starts to hit. Their interests shift away from those things. To girls, guitar, football. 3 things I never really developed any interest in. I was all noticeably smaller and weaker than the rest of the guys in class. I think that took quite a toll on my self confidence. And until 7th grade I really had no close friends. Then in 7th grade I developed a close friendship with two girls. One of the girls ended up falling in love with me which really made the friendship super awkward and bad. But the main point is that I went from having a solid group of male friends, to two female friends. And both of those girls were fairly unpopular. Never got invited to parties really. So I think I ended up becoming a bit socially stunted. I never really developed the skills to handle larger groups of people. Or even medium groups of people.

And I realize this, but I don't have the work ethic to fix it. Or I'm too much of a coward to fix it. I could force myself to go to bars and clubs, but I just can't do it. Not alone I don't think. But the problem is I can't make a friend that will do that stuff with me. Or at least not a friend in this area. And then I fear if I make a friend willing to do that, they'll discover what a loser I am. Like I went to get drinks/dinner with my coworkers after work. I ended up asking some question and then one of them asked me how many people I've slept with. I told them it wasn't their business and they said "that means zero." And then I said some low but nonzero number. Which I mean is still in loser territory but them thinking it was zero would have been worse. But the fact that they even asked that means that just from a single dinner they could tell there was something faulty with me.

And then if all that doesn't turn someone away, and I make a friend willing to go out into the world with me, that person basically would be a security blanket. Which would almost certainly turn them away. Because nobody wants someone to have to practically cling to them in order to be able to go to some large party.

Idk... I want to go out. I want to travel. I want to see the world. But I'm too big a coward to do it alone, and too lazy/scared to take the steps necessary to change that.
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This isn't terribly helpful I'm sure, but I'd wager that a significant part of your self-image/insecurity/how other people perceive you comes down to self-fulfilling prophecy.

I also wouldn't view getting out and doing social stuff to be work, it's more appropriate to view it as just developing a sense of competency or confidence with those situations. I used to be scared of raising my hand in class discussions because I didn't want to risk looking like an idiot, but now that thought barely crosses my mind, because I know I'm not an idiot. That's what it's like, your perspective just shifts. I think developing confidence is always easier than we think, because it's really just the haphazard accumulation of experience over time so we inhabit and know ourselves more. And in a way it's not really work at all, because you're learning how to let go of a burden, so in that way the result isn't exhaustion or frustration but relief.

edit: but yeah those people do sound like dicks, socializing is really dependant on who it is with.
 
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Kevyt

Member
MetalGearZed said:
FOMO--->Fear Of Missing Out
i would but i never solidified our friendship (we were like 80% there) while we had class together to begin with. now i wish i reached out to him more knowing what i know now. i dont know if he's gay but i stalk him pretty hard on social media
and a little bit irl
and he's never seemed to have with a girl or a guy. but it doesn't matter because im in 12th hes in 11th and im never gonna see him again.😑
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Ah, my age is showing. Didn't know that! Wow you're still in high school so umm well you'll be in college this fall I presume, so you'll get to meet lots of new guys!

So many new guys and faces that you will eventually forget about him and wonder why you were into him in the first place.

So yeah, yay college! 😁
 
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CornBurrito

Member
umop_3pisdn said:
This isn't terribly helpful I'm sure, but I'd wager that a significant part of your self-image/insecurity/how other people perceive you comes down to self-fulfilling prophecy.

I also wouldn't view getting out and doing social stuff to be work, it's more appropriate to view it as just developing a sense of competency or confidence with those situations. I used to be scared of raising my hand in class discussions because I didn't want to risk looking like an idiot, but now that thought barely crosses my mind, because I know I'm not an idiot. That's what it's like, your perspective just shifts. I think developing confidence is always easier than we think, because it's really just the haphazard accumulation of experience over time so we inhabit and know ourselves more. And in a way it's not really work at all, because you're learning how to let go of a burden, so in that way the result isn't exhaustion or frustration but relief.

edit: but yeah those people do sound like dicks.
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I mean it isn't like this is the first time I've gone out and done something social, and then come back home feeling basically suicidally depressed afterwards.
 
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CornBurrito said:
No. More like flicking a clitoris I think?
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Hmm. Next time ask them how many times they've fingered an anus and see how they respond. I'd pair it with a really long and thoughtful hand gesture, too.
Also, they're really weird.

RatskyWatsky said:
so are we expecting gen 7 this year or next
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Pokémon? 2017 or 2018. 2016 should be the year of Pokémon Z, XZ/YZ, or X2/Y2. It depends on what NX is and when 3DS gets replaced, but assuming it happens this year, Gen 7 is likely to be on the next hardware, since I doubt Game Freak would commit to another 2-3 years on the 3DS after something new is out. Black/White were on DS because 3DS wasn't out yet, while Gen 7 will probably start after NX is out.

I didn't think you played Pokémon, so sorry if you meant something else.
 
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umop_3pisdn

Member
CornBurrito said:
I mean it isn't like this is the first time I've gone out and done something social, and then come back home feeling basically suicidally depressed afterwards.
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I was just trying to say that you might be putting a lot of pressure on yourself, which is one factor that can affect a negative result.
 
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RatskyWatsky

Hunky Nostradamus
kirbyfan407 said:
Pokémon? 2017 or 2018. 2016 should be the year of Pokémon Z, XZ/YZ, or X2/Y2. It depends on what NX is and when 3DS gets replaced, but assuming it happens this year, Gen 7 is likely to be on the next hardware, since I doubt Game Freak would commit to another 2-3 years on the 3DS after something new is out. Black/White were on DS because 3DS wasn't out yet, while Gen 7 will probably start after NX is out.

I didn't think you played Pokémon, so sorry if you meant something else.
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yep. that commercial got me thinking. there's been a 3-4 year gap in between all the gens iirc, so i was thinking maybe it would be this year but I totally forgot about the NX. maybe as a launch title?
 
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MetalGearZed

Member
Seath said:
Ah, my age is showing. Didn't know that! Wow you're still in high school so umm well you'll be in college this fall I presume, so you'll get to meet lots of new guys!

So many new guys and faces that you will eventually forget about him and wonder why you were into him in the first place.

So yeah, yay college! ��
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i'll likely still be into him for a while. i pretty much see him everyday visually in the halls and at lunch our eyes meet sometimes and
im going full Helga from Hey Arnold mode
i seem to be into him a lot more not seeing than when im literally next to him like last year. ive only crushed twice in my life but im still "straight" in HS. i plan to change that in college. I relapsed when i saw him smile
 
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Mostmanlyman

Member
Seath said:
Ah, my age is showing. Didn't know that! Wow you're still in high school so umm well you'll be in college this fall I presume, so you'll get to meet lots of new guys!

So many new guys and faces that you will eventually forget about him and wonder why you were into him in the first place.

So yeah, yay college! 😁
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Lol i wish there where more people on gaf around my age. But gaf is kinda old and usually people dont use message boards especially if you have to make an account and wait for verification. Also i want to go to college but fuck im going to hate doing all of the college stuff and probably end up arguing with parents and just a done of stress. I have already seen my brother go through it and Im not wanting to go through all of it. But once i get to college i think i would like it more.
 
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Veeboy

Member
RatskyWatsky said:
so are we expecting gen 7 this year or next
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I'm hoping we get Pokemon Z this year and I hope it fixes the mess that was Gen 6.
(I'll still buy it if it doesn't though because I buy any piece of Pokemon related trash)
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this is the gayest post I've ever seen lmao
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You don't understand the emotional journey I've been on today Down. My ship was supposed to happen but I couldn't let it happen. I'm going to go put on some Adele and eat ice cream to comfort my soul.

Mostmanlyman said:
Lol i wish there where more people on gaf around my age. But gaf is kinda old
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RatskyWatsky said:
yep. that commercial got me thinking. there's been a 3-4 year gap in between all the gens iirc, so i was thinking maybe it would be this year but I totally forgot about the NX. maybe as a launch title?
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Prooooobably not. Game Freak is historically slow to move over to the new hardware (typically 1-2 years after launch), so I'd expect Z to release this year on 3DS and then a new gen on NX in 2017 or 2018. Then again, it's possible that Game Freak is going to surprise everyone and not do a Z in order to move straight to 7, or that NX isn't releasing until 2017, or that NX is a Fitbit with no buttons, or NX flops and 3DS sticks around for longer, so...who knows.

Pokémon GO releases this year on mobile. That could also shift the normal plans. And maybe it'll be something you're into?
 
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Mostmanlyman said:
Lol i wish there where more people on gaf around my age. But gaf is kinda old and usually people dont use message boards especially if you have to make an account and wait for verification. Also i want to go to college but fuck im going to hate doing all of the college stuff and probably end up arguing with parents and just a done of stress. I have already seen my brother go through it and Im not wanting to go through all of it. But once i get to college i think i would like it more.
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We're not that old!

And there are gaffers around your age.

You will like college more. That's how it usually goes. To me it doesn't really matter since I don't socialize much.
 
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Lmao, yeah all you guys are super old (^:
Nah i was more talking about the site. Like message boards are not the hit popular thing. Im better sure no one at my school expect my friends have ever heard of it. They have only heard about it because i will bring it up.
 
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Mostmanlyman said:
Lol i wish there where more people on gaf around my age. But gaf is kinda old and usually people dont use message boards especially if you have to make an account and wait for verification. Also i want to go to college but fuck im going to hate doing all of the college stuff and probably end up arguing with parents and just a done of stress. I have already seen my brother go through it and Im not wanting to go through all of it. But once i get to college i think i would like it more.
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how old you say you were again? im 17 but im one of the youngest in my class
I dont know how i'll handle college i have to like it more than highschool. the ranking goes:

9th- best year of school
12th- present
11th- the world tore my heart out
10th- the world kicked me in the balls
 
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Pamplemousse said:
Those are some nice legs. 😋
I would be comfortable letting my SO maybe be with another person if he truly loved that other person, but I can't imagine myself with anyone, let alone multiple ppl.
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I felt the same at one time. Took a lot of soul-searching to love myself, let alone other people, and as it turns out I have a lot of love
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