Either way, you can't just expect people to not have a child because you're against it. And there's people in poverty that it immensely helps. Would you rather have more children in homeless shelters, etc.? I don't expect to use food stamps, but I'm glad they're there...
Who wants people to stop having children? Just looking for a little equity in tax relief in this "must be married and must have children world."
Me: Oh you're getting married, here's a wedding gift.
Me: Oh you're pregnant, here's a baby shower gift.
Me: Oh you're child is 1, 2, 3, 4 . . . 15, 16, here's a birthday present for little junior.
Me: Oh you're getting divorced? So sorry.
Me: Oh you're getting married again, here's another wedding gift.
Them: Still no husband or child? You really should find someone, look at all this swag you get, and tax credits too!!
I'm basically Carrie in this scene of Sex and the City:
https://youtu.be/GVchsrlP59I?t=233