To a misogynist, a 16-year-old boy saying "she totally wants my dong" is no different from a 60-year-old man saying "grab them by the pussy." Women's opinions don't matter, so consent is irrelevant; it's just two guys talking about sexual conquest. That's why misogynists are so confused by why this seems controversial; they cannot conceive of a woman who doesn't want their penis. They assume it has to be because he used a naughty word, which is why they've brought up the frankly insane defense of "Beyonce talked about consensual sex using these words, so Hillary is just as bad." They just cannot comprehend women having agency over their own bodies and thoughts. Or men, for that matter. As a man, it's frankly insulting that their go-to defense is "men are incapable of not letting every action be dictated by their penis." Get the fuck outta here with that shit you undisciplined perverts. Learn some self control; it's what grown-ups do.