Orbis Tabula
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I mean, it's not that I think that BernieBro is that particularly offensive of a term. Like, it's not inherently mean. In a vacuum, it would be a coinflip trying to figure out whether fans or detractors invented the name. It's just a name.
But I still think it's something I may as well try to avoid using anyway. Because I can't really control how people react to what I say, all I can control is what I say. There are some reasonable, well meaning Bernie Sanders supporters who don't interpret it as "the crazy subset of Bernie fans" But rather "all Bernie fans, exemplified by these crazy ones." Given that asymmetry, it doesn't do me any good, if I'm trying to win hearts and minds, to use such a divisive name.
Basically, I think it comes down to both parties in a discussion to resist the temptation to say things that they know frustrate the other side, just because it feels good to say them. The reason I try to avoid saying BernieBro is the same reason I felt uncomfortable when people called Jindal "Piyush." When you call someone something, and they say they don't like that name, calling them what they want to be called is literally the least you can do and if it helps keep a conversation civil and productive, then all the better.
It's not like it's hard to avoid using the name, anyway. Even with the shitty keyboard I have on my phone, it's pretty easy to write out "irrational subset of Bernie Sanders supporters" or something similar. Hell, the keyboard predictions are already pretty well trained for it by now!
But I still think it's something I may as well try to avoid using anyway. Because I can't really control how people react to what I say, all I can control is what I say. There are some reasonable, well meaning Bernie Sanders supporters who don't interpret it as "the crazy subset of Bernie fans" But rather "all Bernie fans, exemplified by these crazy ones." Given that asymmetry, it doesn't do me any good, if I'm trying to win hearts and minds, to use such a divisive name.
Basically, I think it comes down to both parties in a discussion to resist the temptation to say things that they know frustrate the other side, just because it feels good to say them. The reason I try to avoid saying BernieBro is the same reason I felt uncomfortable when people called Jindal "Piyush." When you call someone something, and they say they don't like that name, calling them what they want to be called is literally the least you can do and if it helps keep a conversation civil and productive, then all the better.
It's not like it's hard to avoid using the name, anyway. Even with the shitty keyboard I have on my phone, it's pretty easy to write out "irrational subset of Bernie Sanders supporters" or something similar. Hell, the keyboard predictions are already pretty well trained for it by now!