Got this
RTed on my timeline, and it seems to sum up the situation pretty well given the polling data we're seeing:
I'll always remember 2004. I fell into the same trap a lot of people have fallen into now. I thought I didn't know anyone who was a Bush voter. I'd never heard anyone defend his record. I knew loads of people who actively supported Kerry, or actively decried Bush. I didn't really look at the polls of likely voters. I knew Bush had lost the popular vote in 2000.
The only difference is that When Bush won re-election in 2004, and did it with the popular vote that I didn't immediately think something was fishy. I went and looked at the polls. I asked people which way they voted. A lot of people didn't want to say. And of course they didn't. With so many people who were passionately against him, they just kept quiet, because it was the path of least resistance.
In the anonymity of the voting booth, or when being polled... they stated their preference.
I always knew we always got one vote each, but that was the night I really came to understand what the reality of that was. Someone with a slight Bush preference cancelled out someone with a massive hatred for Bush. That was the first time I saw the silent majority and got it.
I'd been wrong. I'd been foolish... and I didn't enjoy being shocked by the outcome.
So I started paying attention to what was going on. Not to what I wanted to see. Not even to what I presumed I'd see. But... which way were the winds actually blowing.
So I do have some sympathies for people who truly struggle with the results as they look around at their community and see no evidence of Clinton's support. But I also know that you can come to terms with it. If they refuse to... then that's a different matter. But just two days afterwards, I'm not going to beat up too hard on my friends who are saying things like 'I can't believe California is that into Clinton, something else must be going on'.
If I ever catch myself writing a sentence like that... and it does occasionally happen, I know now to stop myself, and take a hard look at why I am saying that I 'can't' accept something could be true. Usually I realize I've made some logical error along the way.