Turns out the lead (and pretty much only) developer of what had been my favorite game of the year until 5 minutes ago is
a shit-tier human. When I bought the game in July I went out of my way to buy directly from the dev instead of giving Steam a cut.
Usually I'm pretty okay about separating art from artist but in this specific situation I just feel disgusting.
This is really depressing and I'm sorry this happened.
I, too, am usually pretty good about separating creator from creation. Obviously their are exceptions both ways and, like you, I would not be able to separate this one because the mentality and politics of the creator directly poison the creation.
I am inclined to say that the damage is done (so to speak) and not to worry about it. When vegans accidentally eat meat, they know they can't un-eat it and just carry on. You can only do the best you can with these kinds of things. It is impossible to be 100% aware of everything you engage with, even if you try your best to be cautious.
I would speak your feelings about the game as often as possible, but don't feel you need to "undo" the purchase. It's just one of those "now you know" sort of things.
It's sad though. I used to be extremely liberal with my online gift giving. I would buy things for people all the time. Steam games, Vita imports, PSN codes, Amazon gift cards, whatever. I bought somebody a computer monitor when they off-handedly mentioned theirs stopped working and they couldn't afford a new one. While I don't regret my acts of kindness, I am now extremely apprehensive about continuing this behavior in fear of enabling or donating to some deplorable.
And I am not pious enough to pretend I'm interested in charity if it's for some deplorable with a frog complex. This election has made me much more skeptical of strangers. I no longer assume the best in them, I tend to fear the worst.
I'm only just realizing this now as I write it to you and it's made me very sad.