It all depends on what result you want to see in the country going forward. One of the most important things I've learned as I've gotten older is that in inter-personal conflicts of any type, who is right and who is wrong is not as important (at least up front) as everyone feeling like they are being listened to. Everyone just wants to be treated like their opinion and desires matter. Everyone does this.
Now, it may, in fact, be true that their opinions and desires are stupid-ass opinions and desires, but we do have to be willing to cut people some slack. You can't actually batter people down with ideas in order to change hearts and minds. You have to first start from a position of respect, even if unearned, and establish that you can speak to that person's worldview on some level. Then and only then can you shift how they view a situation.
This was something Bill Clinton was a master of back in the day. I mean, he still is, but it's harder for his message to break through when a lot of the targeted audience has been conditioned to think he's the devil.
Anyway, the point is just branding Americans with a racist brand and hissing at them for doing something that (for very stupid and dubious reasons) a great many of them genuinely believe is the only thing they can do to maybe change their situation is not going to help anything. The only thing that will keep us from having to do this dance again every four years for the rest of our miserable lives is being compassionate. Maybe more compassionate than some of these people deserve, but if your only options are too compassionate or not compassionate enough, I know which I'd choose. "When they go low, we go high" isn't always easy or comfortable. It doesn't always make you feel good. But it is essential.